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writes: dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend other men impregnzte her how can i prove weather im fertile or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2017): I can see that you come from an African society that can be harsh on this issue. Some Women don't make it easy either as they will want to trap you into marriage with a pregnancy that isn't yours once they have tried. You had your doubts, that's why you had the facts checked.
Your best option now is to speak to your doctor. And then take it from there. Please do not.go sleeping with women without protection to see if they can become pregnant, it's a cesspool of diseases out there and not worth it.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (17 January 2017):
Any fertility doctor can tell you the answer but us folks out here in computer-land have no clue. By the way, what is a mals?
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (17 January 2017):
There's only one way to find out if you are fertile and that's to have sperm count done by a doctor
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2017): Discuss it with your doctor.If that doesnt appeal to you then you could try going to a sperm donor centre.This involves looking at porn, alone and jacking off into a plastic cup.They test the sperm and if you have thousands of millions of live sperm they will want you back for more.Your doctor can also arrange a sperm count and it would probably be the same sort of thing.Once youve got the sperm out and in a cup he/she will send it for testing under a microscope and other ways.Then they will ask you back to tell you if you have a high sperm count or a low sperm count.Eat plenty of vitamin E for a high sperm count. It is supposed to help.If it turns out its a low count the doctors will have suggestions for you.I guess youre wondering if the girl getting pregnant for someone else was a lucky escape or your only chance to have a child to bring up to adulthood.
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