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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Feelings for my cousin driving me crazy. What's the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - Help. I have started having incestuous feelings towards my cousin I can't help it but she is causing it unintentionally, how do I tell her without making it awkward for both of us? My cousin is very close to me she is the only child and we work in ...

I don't want to lose her friendship over spur of the moment sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I had sex with one of my flatmates after a drunken Halloween party last month and I fear it’s destroyed our friendship. I’m 20, she’s 21. We live in a halls of residence flat at university with 4 other students, and are in our second year. We’ve ...

Do couples go through stages where they don't have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. At first, sex was great. It was passionate and it happened often. Now my boyfriend never seems to want sex. What makes me confused is that we still have great chemistry, great conversa...

I seem to be suffering from delayed ejaculation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I'm 28 and I've been having sex for a decade now with different partners (not a large amount, I'm not that kind of guy) and a week ago I ended up meeting and sleeping with a new girl in Vegas. We actually hit it off really well and it turns out she ...

A mutual friend warned me the guy I'm dating just wants casual sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and recently started seeing him for about a week. However, I don't know if he's looking for anything serious or not, and I don't want to ask and make things awkward. A mutual friend of ours, ...

Why does my girlfriend all of the sudden have that horrible odor down there??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have kind of an embrassing question... My girlfrirnd is on birth control so we have alot of unprotected sex. Probably atleast 3 to 5 times a day. I always cum inside of her since she can't get pregnant while she is on the birth control. The birth ...

Do I just stop talking to him or keep waiting ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - hey everyone, i'm so confused about a guy right now. I don't know what to do. anyway i started talking to this guy a while ago and we started talking everyday back in september. we have hung out, i've stayed at his house twice the second time i st...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3263 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

Did I go too far and say the wrong thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his ...

I find his smell attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - There's someone that I really fancy, and I find their smell really attractive to the point that I can tell whether or not they're in a room just by their smell. Is this weird and does it mean anything?...

I'm turned on but can't orgasm - what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

26 November 2015 (M) - I'll try to keep this short. Basically over a month ago me and my girlfriend decided to have sex whilst I was staying over on the weekend but unfortunately we had to stop because she was feeling sore down there after only a few minutes. Ever since ...

How can I move on when I still love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I need some advice I dated this girl about 3 years ago. I realy loved her with all my heart then after about 7 months she cheated on me. We never broke up but we never have sex. Since that day I've seen her about 5 times thought we work in the ...

Online Dating : is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Am I emotionally unavailable. Or is this a combo of both. I started online dating almost a year ago now and have met a few guys. I met one guy who was 10+ older than myself. He seemed very interested in me after our first coffee date and I went...

Feeling insecure about the future of me and my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hi, its usually me giving the advice, but now I need some. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we did get in to a relationship rather quick, but I don't regret any of it. He really does make me feel special and does take care of me. but ...

Is it just sex, or does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - i used to work with this guy over a year ago we got on great but he had a girlfriend. I met him out on Halloween night and we ended up kissing. We were both quite drunk but he did say he had always fancied me and now he's single. Since then we've ...

He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't...

How can I prove that I have long term potential and that we could become a long term relationship, without scaring her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I know this may sound like I'm fighting a losing battle, but I would love some advice. The other night I had a one night stand with my first ever girlfriend who I broke up with 10 years ago. She is incredibly loyal, lovely with a big heart, s...

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...

He wants to be a Daddy again. How can I get him to understand my feelings on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hiya I don't really know if I'm in the right place I could just really do with getting a bit of advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we've got two beautiful children together. Aged 2 and 3, I've just recently gone back to work ...

He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...

I've been with him for almost 3 months, and I am struggling with the lack of sex. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3292 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my new boyfriend now for almost 3 months now. We met at work and he has been like a breath of fresh air since the last relationship I had was a seriously abusive one. Emotionally we get on pretty great, he treats me well and is kind ...

Plan to marry in 5 years time. We are cautious about a sexual relationship. Should we wait, or not wait??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3293 days ago

23 November 2015 (M) - Hi, Im 22 yrs old and my girlfriend is 21 yrs old. We got into a relationship for a year already. We are both willing to explore each other body and practice safe sex. However, we are concerned about whether we should wait until marriage. For ...

He thinks I'm sleeping with someone else. I find his remarks offensive. What reply to him is appropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I met up with my children's father today. We have not been getting on as there is a real communication problem and I find it a turn off. I feel like I do not know him. We have never lived together which has also been a problem as I have just had...

I don't want my being a virgin to put him off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I am 22 and haven't had much luck with men, I always seem to fall for the wrong guy and I guess I just haven't met Mr Right. I've been on tinder for about 18 months, been on about 6 dates and have had mixed feelings about them all. I have finally ...

I'm worried he'll blab to others about what we did

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about a month, but he has only been my boyfriend for a week. Yesterday I let him go down on me, there was no pressure he asked and I said yes. He has said he won't tell anyone but I worry that when he gets drunk he...

What did my friend mean by this question?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3293 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi, looking for sum advice, My male friend who I have known since we was 16. In the past week his wife had kicked him out, any cut a long story short, I offered him my spare bed untill things got bk on track (I try help friends much as poss), A...

My man is 22 yrs old and very fit. So why can he only last one round? what needs to be done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - 2 issues: One that I stopped moaning during sex and the second that my healthy man only lasts one round at a time. When we first met and had sex, this was exciting and new and sensuous for me. I would moan and thrash around and be involved m...

She revealed the truth and then we broke up. How can I start living again despite my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3293 days ago

21 November 2015 (M) - Before I say anything else I must mention that I come from a part of the world where sex before marriage is considered taboo. I have had only 1 gf my entire life and I was a virgin when we met. We were together for 9 months and we had never eng...

How can I keep his interest high? Don't want to scare him off. Nor appear desperate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3293 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm 25 and I've been single for 6 months and not had any sexual contact for about 7 months. I'm a very sexual person so this has been a little frustrating but I'm trying not to let it get the best of me. But I'm starting to find the...

Was my husband addicted to talking n texting escorts while on the other side showing. Blissfully happy husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Please give me some advice. My husband and I have been happily married for eight years . We are very close we talk about everything we have a great relationship our sex life is great. In fact I usually want to have sex more than once a week and ...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

She's dating me but seeing 2 other guys for just sex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

19 November 2015 (M) - So, I have been seeing a lovely woman for about a month. We get on extremely well and have alot of fun,we have tons in common and love nearby. We laugh like crazy and there's never a dull moment or awkward silences. She texts me every day from ...

I am worried about his behavior towards me since he took my virginity.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3296 days ago

19 November 2015 (M) - hello, i just want to know what to do with my current situation. Am years and he was 21 years. I have been with him friend for nine months and he was the one that deflowered me. my family and his knows everything about relationship. he called me on ...

What can I do? Feeling unhappy with my body after pregnancies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I have a wonderful husband and 2 wonderful children. I had back to back pregnancies. I've always been a positive happy person but since the birth of my second son, I've been feeling pretty depressed about my body. I got very very bad stret...

Was I just another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - Hi Okay so I've been friends with this guy for a while, we don't see each other often but have a catch up now and again. I think he's nice looking and have liked him for some time, I wasn't too sure of his feelings about me and neither of us ev...

Am I overthinking or did he just use me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - Hey everyone so i started talking to this guy awhile ago we have hung out a total of 4 times. he seemed like a really nice guy he was always telling me im beautiful or pretty and he said that he really likes me. Friday i stayed the night with him ...

Nudity - his family are comfortable with it. I am not comfortable. Am I right to feel this way ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hello dear Aunts and uncles, First of all let me thank you for taking your time. I've been visiting this years for quite a while now and it's time that I'm going to ask a question. I am in a five year happy relationship with a guy two y...

My Dad's been distant since he walked in on my BF and I being intimate. Should I talk to my Dad about this or let it pass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3296 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I live with my dad and brother. My dad and I aren't very open with each other, he is old fashioned and quiet. We get along, we are just 2 totally different people. I've been dating a great guy for the last year and I lost...

My thoughts are that he can't be sexually satisfying because he has a small penis. What should I do? He's perfect otherwise.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - Hi, So this is quite difficult to write so bare with me. And please, I know this sounds shallow, but I'm not trying to be. Basically I recently ended a relationship with a guy (only 2 months) because he was a complete asshole to me. I mean r...

Have I opened a Pandoras box by allowing my Bf to call me vulgar names when we have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I am having a big issue with my boyfriend. When we have sex he always calls me very derogatory names. I am very offended by this; but in some situations I have went with it, in the moment you know! Have I opened a Pandoras box? I never here I lov...

Advice on dealing with genital herpes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - I just got my first outbreak of genital herpes.I am devastated. I slept with one partner after my divorce and I got it.He never told me he had it.I have two girls from a previous marriage and I am freaking out.will I pass on the virus to the kids ...

Does he want a relationship or hook up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I'm always really nervous with new guys because i don't wanna be used as a hook up. Anyway, I started seeing someone a few times now for coffees, dinner/drinks etc. twice now we've ended up at my place and he's stayed four hours or more each time ...

He barely texts me after 5th time sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I was dating with this guy from work almost 6 months and slept with him after a month. He was taking me on a date and everything was perfect until I receive an answer from him to the question how was his night was after 3 months. Saying he was in ...

I want commitment from him. Am I making the right moves to ensure this happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - I met with my first love after breaking up over 20 years ago. I had not seen him for 15 yrs. He invited me out and then again a few months later. On both occasions we talked and talked. On the second we talked and talked about what caused t...

How can I ensure that losing my virginity is special, and not a one night stand, nor a joke for the guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - Guys, would you ever take a girls virginity then that's it, never speak to her again? I'm 16 and a virgin and although I sort of want to lose my virginity I'm terrified in case it's with the wrong guy. I don't want my first time to be a one nigh...

Boyfriend, porn and being rejected because I don't look like the women he likes??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - Hello, I've been with my bf for 5 years, and he has a problem with porn. Ever since the beginning of our relationship I was somewhat aware of him using it, nbd really. I didn't know it was so often (and still don't know truthfully because I'm not ...

27 and no boyfriend, what do I need to change about myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I am 27 years old and have never had a long term boyfriend. In the past and until recently, I have been on many dates, dated guys for a few months etc but have never been anything to them. I have never been asked out or been called someone's...

Is it normal for a virgin to feel horny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Helo. Ok i want to know if its usual to be horny even when you never had sex before. I am a virgin but sometimes i crave sex. If its normal, how do i control it since i have no boyfriend and im waiting to have my first time with someone very special ...

Should I explore the topic of three- and foursomes with my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

10 November 2015 (M) - So my wife and I have been friends with another couple for years. Got along great, no issues. They moved away a few years ago and recently came to visit. It was like they never left, just amazing friendship. All four of us are relatively young...

Am I supposed to enjoy this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

10 November 2015 (M) - Im hoping you can help me answer some questions relating to sexuality. So the other day my wife was performing oral sex on me, and when she was in the act; she licked her finger and started playing around with my anus while performing oral ...