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writes:I'm 20 years old and I live with my dad and brother. My dad and I aren't very open with each other, he is old fashioned and quiet. We get along, we are just 2 totally different people. I've been dating a great guy for the last year and I lost my virginity to him and him and I are having sex regularly. Last Friday afternoon I had gone out with my boyfriend to a movie and out to lunch, and invited him back to my dads place to hang out. I knew my brother wasn't going to be home the whole weekend, and my dad wouldn't get home til around 6. Well my boyfriend and I were being intimate in my room and my dad had come home early and accidentally caught us. He saw us both naked. It was embarrassing and out of respect I had my boyfriend leave. Since then my dad has not been talking to me and has seem to be avoiding me. I don't think he's mad, just feels weird I guess. We both feel weird about it. Should I have a talk with my dad? Or just let it pass?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2015): Dad is staying quiet because he very much wishes he hadnt walked in on you.In fact he has nothing to say on the topic.He knew you grew up but he didnt realise you were in the house with boyfriend.Spare dad the embarressement and forget it if he's the old fashioned sort.He didnt spend fiveminutes peering up your vagina did he..he just probably tjought it was an intruder and he was thankful it was not.Also he knows what sex is..thats how he got round to having a family.Give him sun glasses for xmas and forget the whole incident.You werent being raped and dad wants his mental privacy back.Or just say curtly "knock and wait dad, dont just barge in."Try not to get caught in future and keep using contraception.Let dad think of other things as your old enough to be in a sexual relationship.
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reader, Molly21lolly +, writes (16 November 2015):
 It's very important to talk to your dad about it to Clear the air. Yes it must be a embarrassment with your dad walking in on you and your by but you can't be avoiding it. Especially in that situation. You must talk and he must listen to you. And apologize for that too. And he must open about it or these will be bad if you guys hold it in. Just have a talk with him and it will pass faster.
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