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writes:Im hoping you can help me answer some questions relating to sexuality.So the other day my wife was performing oral sex on me, and when she was in the act; she licked her finger and started playing around with my anus while performing oral sex on me. I have never had this done before. Not with any prior girlfriends or anyone. I had mixed feelings about it. At the time, it felt really good. Different. Then I started wondering if I am supposed to enjoy it or what exactly it means? Should men enjoy that or what does it say about my sexuality?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 November 2015):
 Sometimes.... you just have to lay back and enjoy what is enjoyable.... and not try to "read" anything (more) in to it.....
By-the-by.... what you described IS delightful, isn't it???
Good luck...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 November 2015):
 If you like it, then yes you are supposed to enjoy it.
liking anal play does not make you gay or bisexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2015): OP here. thanks. i guess i just associated any pleasure having to do with the anus/butt as homosexual in nature? Childish, possibly. Just grew up sheltered and with a strict set of morals.
I return all favors and she definitely enjoys it. Thanks again
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 November 2015):
 She was simply stimulating your prostate and THAT is why it felt good. The prostate is the male version of a woman's g-spot. This small, chestnut-sized bump is located approximately two inches inside a man’s rectum, and when massaged or stimulated, can bring him to orgasm.
And no, you are not going to become GAY for enjoying it. Like Ciar said, it's a matter of taste. What you like/dislike in bed.
Are you supposed to enjoy it? Well, if you DID enjoy it, that is good if you didn't then tell her. There is nothing MORALLY wrong with YOU enjoying it. And she seems to have no problem wanting to please you and show you a variety of pleasures you can get from sex WITH her.
It has NOTHING to do with your sexual orientation.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (10 November 2015):
 It doesn't say anything about your sexuality. There's nothing unusual about this at all. Simply a matter of taste.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (10 November 2015):
 New tricks got you goin' eh? Don't worry it doesn't mean you are a homosexual necessarily. Your wife is encouraging you to explore your sexuality.
See if there is anything you can do for her.
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