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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Lately I have no desire for sex -- how do I get around this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles. I'm 18 and in my first year of uni. My question is to do with sex... I don't like it! I lost my virginity last Summer, and it was good, great, fine. I have also had a one night stand since I have been at uni. Obviousl...

Guys and sex with some they don't like (or even despise) and the intimacy of that sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - Is it possible for a 24-26 year-old guy (who gets horny pretty frequently and easily) to get it up and have casual sex with someone he doesn't like, nor finds attractive, AND most importantly someone he finds extremely annoying? If he doesn't ...

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / g...

My boyfriend doesn't want sex anymore, and I want it more than ever. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend works a lot, and is often very tired when he gets home from work. He used to want sex every time we spent time together, but since he has moved in with me, he has become apathetic. I am currently unemployed, and I know that is stressing ...

Husband wants oral sex 2-3 times a week but sex only once a month?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I have been married for for 3 years together for 13. I've been haveing this issue with him for 2 1/2 years. He wants oral sex about 2-3x per week, but no sex. We have sex once every 6months only if I intiate it. I have spoken to him about it ...

Should I tell this man how I feel knowing he may not return the feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Hi, ive been seeing this guy on and off for a couple of years now we haven't made it official its pretty much been like a booty call, So i never really thought of us as anything else, til like 3 months ago.. i started to grow feelings for him. We ...

We haven't had sex since our baby was born 6 months ago! Is my husband getting sex somewhere else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - My husband and I have not had sex since our 2nd child was born... Almost 6 months ago! Once we were in the clear 6 weeks after I gave birth I was ready. He said he wanted to make sure I was healed before we try. Funny how he didn't seem to be so ...

Blowjobs, snapchats, and exes! All are causing me to unhappy in our 6 month relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. When we first started dating she spilled her sexual past with me despite my reservations. Initially I hated hearing it because it was much more than my own but I grew to love her and respect her past. ...

Husband continues to swing, refuses to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Ok long story short... we started swinging about a year into our marriage. He did tell me, prior to our marriage, he was a swinger in his past relationships but led me to believe he could be happy without it. I am an open minded person so I agreed ...

Does he not appreciate my virginity?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have very different sexual backgrounds: he has had many partners but I have never had sex with any of the people I have dated. I'm 23 and I have always wanted to have sex with "the one" aka the person who loves me to death and I ...

Sex has become a no go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Been with my boyf a year and a half. Everything is great. I love him dearly we live together after recently buying out first home and plan to get married next year. Our only issue ... Sex! For approx the first year of our relationship we ...

How do you get your confidence back after being in a bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I went out with my friends last night and ended up taking some guy home. I've never really liked one night stands and I don't know what I was thinking doing it. I'm feeling pretty bad about myself and kind of like a slut. But on top of that I ha...

My boyfriend is not passionate or sexual

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 43 but he has an incredibly low sex drive. He says he just doesn't think about it much. He's definitely not gay or sexually frustrated or confused. He doesn't like lingerie or porn and is not visual with women and doesn't ...

My boyfriend of one year, is addicted to skype sex chat

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for lil over one year, we spent alot of time to gether, went on trips, had a very fun snd relaxed relationship. Im 28 years old and he just turned 27. He had girl friends before me but never had sexual relationship. ...

I am so frustrated, all I am to him is somebody for dinner conversation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - My bf is significantly older than me. We have been dating for a year or so. He does not want to make love at all. He has an excuse for every time of day. No he does not have ED. When we first got together there was constant affection. Now he will ...

I found out my b/f was watching anal sex pornography and told him it was deal breaker. I still think he's watching it and lying about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year and I've known vaguely that he watches porn for most of our relationship. However, it's only been recently that I've really started to have an issue with it as I've never really looked it up (so ...

I can't give girlfriend a vaginal orgasm and it upsets me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of 8 months has had 15 previous 'lovers' compared to my 2, and she slipped up to day when we were talking about orgasms, she said she has had a vaginal orgasm but not with me, i can make her orgasm through the clitoris no problem ...

How do I approach my wife about having anal sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - I would like to know how to broach the topic of anal sex with my wife...I want her to do anal with me. I want her to wear a strap-on and have anal sex with me. I'm uncomfortable asking her to do so but the thought of it turns me on. Has any body ...

Can I stay in this relationship even though I don't fancy him? Is there anything I can do to get the spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hey cupids. Ive been with my bf for coming up 5 yrs. We have been living together for almost a yr. We both work a lot, he works a lot of night shifts while I work on a rotating shift pattern, days, nights and afternoons...because of our work...

Its a very delicate subject ......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I have a problem with my mother in law who likes to sit on my husbands lap for photos - not every time but just when she feels like it that is what she does. She just gets up off a chair and sits on their lap and this seems 'normal' to them but not ...

My girlfriend won't let go of her old FWBs and it's very hurtful. Do I need to let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl, its been almost 6 years together, she's lied to me about serious stuff like old " f and @k buddies" she so claims them to be.. Which are dudes.. Our relationship there's no sex I'm lucky if I get any twice a ...

Is there something wrong with me or am I attracted to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Am 19 years old girl and have had sex with 3 guys,but I don't really feel it.Sometimes I watch porn to be aroused,but what really turns me on is girl on girl kind of porn.Watching porn and masturbating is what I enjoy more. Is there something wrong ...

I have just lost interest in sex and in myself. What the hell is going on? Could it be a hormonal thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - As a young girl and all throughout my 20's, I think I was highly sexual for my age. As if I had more raging hormones than an average teen. I was always open to sec and new partners and subjecting myself to wild sexual ventures. I think in a way it ...

If my boyfriend fantasizes about big girls, why does he want me to be fit and in shape??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is into big girls sexually. Big blobs and bums and pretty faces, chubby girls. He watches porn of this variety and has told me it's a thing he has. Said he had sex with a fat girl once and didn't enjoy it at all. So why still the fa...

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...

How often is too often? And if the only sexual activitiy I have ever had has been masterbation, alone, then am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3599 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hey everyone im 17 and im a girl and i feel that i have a huge problem. I masturbate a lot especially when i feel horny. I use my fingers and a vibrator and i orgasm most of the time. I am a virgin but i believe in marriage then sex with my part...

He's been discussing our sex life with his friends and co-workers! Do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I just found out that the guy I'm seeing has been telling everybody about our sex lives. I understand him telling his friends, but he has told his work colleagues as well. This makes me uncomfortable as he is my first sexual partner and it was a big ...

My violent sexual fantasies bother me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - [MOD NOTE: OP's title] I have a sort of embarassing problem. Ever since I started discovering sex I tend to have extremely violent fantasies of me dominating men. It's always random, anonymous people, I can't imagine anyone I know there. It's mag...

Condoms under his bed ! Do I believe his explanation? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi all, I would really like some help ihave wrote on here before but would appreciate some more advice. Been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him to pieces. But about 6 monthd ago we went to his mums house when his brother came out with, '...

I went to club to just have a good time, still guys look at me wrongly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I went to a nightclub last night. I had a really awesome time with my girl friends. But all of a sudden our enjoyment got lessend due to guys coming and approching us. The guy who approched me took me to his circle of friends and it was three guy...

My b/f wants to try anal sex, but I don't think I'm comfortable with it. How common is it for people to try anal sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I'm wondering what everyone thinks of anal sex. I'm 21 my b/f is 23 and we've been together roughly 2 years. He's the only guy I've ever been with and we have been sexually active for a few months now. He's recently told me about wanting to try a...

What do I do about the way he acts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Could anybody offer some advice here, I'm going crazy keeping my feelings locked up!!! I am dating a guy that blows hot and cold, one minuet he's calling me sweet cheeks and telling me how amazing he thinks I am, then barley speaking to me or being ...

Should I talk to him about putting off sex until he feels he can trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I am in a rut in my relationship. Long story short I cheated, There was no physical cheating. I was texting my manager and deleting the messages..they were not in any way inappropriate but I knew the fact bothered my fiancee so instead of nipping ...

Is being 22 and a virgin off putting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I'm 22 and have never had a boyfriend, i've never had sex. I have given a blow job before to a guy i thought really liked me, apart from that nobody seems to be interested in me? Is being 22 and a virgin off putting? A turn off? ...

Is it possible to desire somebody sexually this much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3603 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Is it possible to desire someone sexually so much that your body seems to lay almost restless cause of it? I dated this man, 10years older than me. Im 21, soon to be 22. I enjoyed the time we shared, to the point I liked seeing him almost every...

What does this post-sex text mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - I got this text about 18 hours after we had sex for the second time. We see each other several times a month without anything physical happening. I've known him for 6 years and we have always had a strong attraction to each other. He's 43, I'm 35. ...

How much planning and discussion should be done prior to moving in with a partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - Inspired by a post on here today, I was wondering what sort of things should a couple discuss before they move in? Should they just know they both want marriage and children, or should they commit to a proper date/timescale beforehand? I know ...

Always be loving to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3578 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - Never use sex as a weapon ladies no matter how tempting. Always kiss your man when you greet for instance when he comes home from work open the door and greet him with love, if you have children teach them to do the same. Make a big fuss, he will ...

My boy friend lied about liking big breasts and now I feel self conscious about my small chest

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3147 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - Hello, this might be a bit redundant as there are some similar questions on this site. Anyway, I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything's great. However, I recently found out he's lied about his physical preferences. ...

My girlfriend doesn't touch me! How do I tell her this without upsetting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - Im in a lesbian relationship and I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months we have alot of sex, but she dosnt touch me. Its always me touching her. How can I bring up to her that it bothers me a lot that I'm always giving to her and she ...

I cannot compromise my morals for this man but we have about 90% of things in common. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - I met a guy 5yrs ago and we became almost best friends for about 6mths. We went out one night with mutual friends, got very drunk after everyone else left and kissed. This happened one or two more times. Shortly after this I went abroad for a couple ...

My girlfriend proposed me a threesome. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - Me and my girlfriend (I'm 23 and she's 20) have been together for over two years. We're serious, Things are wonderful between us two, we really love each other, and we're living together since a couple of weeks ago. The other day we were talking ...

Her lack of sexual desire has me wondering if I should break up with her.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

13 January 2015 (M) - So Ive been with this girl for over 2 years now and nearly everything is great with her. We moved in together 6 months ago and we still get on really well and I love her very much the problem is her lackof sexual desire. She has admitted she no ...

He's great except that he can't follow through in the bedroom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - I've started seeing someone that I like a lot. he is a little older than me, I'm 38 and he is 47. For the most part things are going well. We communicate easily, laugh a lot together. the kissing and cuddling are great. we do have a problem ...

When is it OK to have sex with your ex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - When is it ok to have sex with your ex? I (25/f) dumped my ex (30/m) 6 weeks ago. He' s recently offered me a plane ticket to see him to catch up, check in on each other, and have a last time go in bed. Initially we were both excited, as I'd already ...

The sex just isn't as good as I know it can be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3606 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend seem to have a small problem in the bedroom. Things work completely different with him than what I have experienced. I have never even heard of a guy who just dosen't need any "refractory period" most of the time, for example. ...

Advice please. Has anyone ever stayed in a long term relationship due to the SEX being out of this world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - What do you do when you and your boyfriend have this crazy, intense, over the top physical, sexual chemistry that neither of you has ever experienced with anyone else? And it seems to sometimes take on a life of its own? I find it gets in the way ...

Have the tingling of I new outbreak. Could I have infected him due to oral sex we had last night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Ok I woke up this morning with the familiar tingling pulse of a cold sore. I've always gotten cold sores but much less frequently as an adult. My boyfriend has never ever had one. Any way my predicament is that I performed oral sex on my boyfri...

He reeled me in and reeled me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles I met this guy last year, we became friends and then i began to like him more than a friend. A few months later we kissed and we ended up sleeping together in the same bed but it went no further than that. He wit...

Should I tell her that I've never had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

11 January 2015 (M) - So I've been on a few dates with a woman and we seem to be really clicking. I'm thinking we'll have sex sometime soon. There is one thing gnawing at me though. Should I tell her I'm a virgin? The thing is I'm 35 years old and suffered from ...