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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend of 43 but he has an incredibly low sex drive. He says he just doesn't think about it much. He's definitely not gay or sexually frustrated or confused. He doesn't like lingerie or porn and is not visual with women and doesn't even notice a hottie on tv. We've been together a year and had sex sporadically for the first six months but he's gradually declined any subtle offers from me making all sorts of excuses. He's great to talk to and a really good friend but he's happy cuddling and hugging. He's a great looking guy, tall and fit but said he's never been one for a lot of sex and thinks it's very overrated.I feel so sad that I've found a guy who just doesn't seem to need it. I love good sex and all the passion that goes with it. I just feel so sad to be in this situation.... I've tried everything but his drive is absent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2015): May be heis gay? Just doesn't want to admit it. There is also such thing asexual.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 January 2015):
 You can't fix mismatched sex drives.
either get his permission to take a lover and stay with him or let him go and find someone you are better suited to.
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