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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend seem to have a small problem in the bedroom. Things work completely different with him than what I have experienced. I have never even heard of a guy who just dosen't need any "refractory period" most of the time, for example. The main point, I have the most intense orgasms with "real" sex and I know I can come multiple times, it's like a tidal wave. It happened nearly everytime with my other partners. Now we don't have such luck or very rarely.He's great in all the things around, he's the first guy I was with who actually can use his fingers and tongue, it's really something. I always just thought it's not my thing - was I wrong! But... it's not as intense as I know sex can be.Also he's very attuned to my pleasure. I of course do my best and I do what I can for him to like it, but he just sees through it and if I'm not really honestly enjoying myself, neither is he. We have tried various positions with minimal improvement. It's just not enough stimulation somehow, or in the wrong angle or something. Also some are made complicated because he's a foot taller than me. I just don't know what is wrong. It's not that things are all bad, on the contrary, it's really great, but if this could be improved, it would be even better.
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reader, pankaj.joy  +, writes (13 January 2015):
 Hi
Trust me it almost happens in every relationship
you guys need to talk first just initialy forget about sex just have chat about each other's old beautiful memories (except on bed memories)
See sex is also type of communication which takes you more closer to person
After sex people feel empty or feel nothing that's the sign that you still need to talk or give beautiful gesture to start new to know more about him rite?
This is the key please keep talking this is not just a sex it's relationship dear :)
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