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writes:Hi all, I would really like some help ihave wrote on here before but would appreciate some more advice. Been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him to pieces. But about 6 monthd ago we went to his mums house when his brother came out with, ''oh do you remember when we found a load of condom wrappers under his bed.'' This came to a shock to me as he told me I was his first also we never used them, as i'm on the pill. As soon as we left he said no that's not what you think I was just using them to play with etc ... I believed him but its still there at the back of my mind thinking what if? Am I just being silly? Also a while ago I found a video on youtube he had watched of perfect girls dancing which made me feel like crap but then I found a video of two teen girls who looked to be around 15 yr old girls doing the splits etc... I find this a bit wrong as he is 22. I'm hoping this video was either from a long time ago..when he was about that age, or perhaps it was just accidently clicked on... I dont know whether to say something as I may just be over reacting...please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2015): Thanks for your awnsers I judt dont no what to believe. Te thing is before he moved in with me he lived at his mums with 3 siblings... U dont see how he could of snuck girls in hes also been quite a shy boy and never came across as a typical ladys man, but why would he 'play" with the condoms
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2015): I wouldn't believe him and yes a grown man looking at young girls on the Internet is creepy but that is my opinion. Your opinion and your feelings are what counts. If your instinct is telling you one thing then it is usually always right. I say this with experience and reading it time and again on here. I don't know many (any) people who just play with condoms.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 January 2015):
 Short answer: you are over reacting. He is a normal boy who plays with his penis and watches porn. Simple as that.
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