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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I'm on birth control, but I don't know why I haven't beaten the odds

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Im almost 17, And i cant stop thinking about being pregnant... I know this is odd, and i'm not crazy, its just, okay, Im faithful with my birth control pills, and me and my boyfriend do have sex a lot, and im just curious on how i'm not pregnant? t...

Does he just need time, or will I never mean as much to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Ok, so this guy who I've liked for a really long time told me he doesn't want a relationship with me. He recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months and since then, we've been getting closer and closer together. A few weeks ago, we ended up ...

Husband putting oral sex above everything else.

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 1516 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years, our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him. He wants oral sex everyday, and though I dont mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no ...

Is it normal to be scared of having sex with a new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I have a question. Is it normal for me to be scared to have sex with a new guy? I've been having sex with 1 guy for 3 years and I had sex with him the most. He was the 2nd guy I ever had sex with. So I was wondering is it normal? I've met new guys...

How unusual is it for a woman to have numerous orgasms in a row without any significant pause between them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - How unusual is it for a woman to have numerous orgasms in a row without any significant pause between them? I have not been with a large number of women, but one of my first girlfriends would almost always have many orgasms in a row, almost like...

Does my boyfriend secretly want me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hello Dearcupid, I think my boyfriend secretly wants me to get pregnant. He keeps asking me when my cycle is, and brought up how I threw up one morning. I'm on the pill, so my breasts have gotten bigger and he asked me if I thought it was because ...

My husband's sex drive is completely different than mine. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - OK...where to begin... I'm 25 years old and newly married. My husband travels a lot with work, so we are separated for a good month at a time because he is always out of country. I can't tell you specifically what he does, but he is NOT in a posi...

Scared of having sex with my FWB and worried he will compare me to his ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - i've been on and off with this guy for two years now, we've dated twice but its hard now with me being at uni and him in year 12 so we're just friends, with benefits i guess you could say. we've done everything except handjob and sex..i'm actually...

He asked me to get confident enough to initiate sex, but now when I do I get turned down! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months officially, but we met and started dating about a year ago and started dating exclusively and having sex 7 months ago. We took everything in our relationship really slow which was nice. The sex was ...

Is he for real or just messing with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Is it normal for a 28 year old man to lose interest in his wife after just 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - This will be the second time that I have posted a question on this site, the last time was incredibly helpful for me! So here we go. Me and my husband have both just been discharged from the military, I was medically separated, he was honorably di...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

Does my BF deny masturbating to sexy girls' pictures online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Actually I just wanted some opinions on this, thanks in advance!! : My bf has been seeing girls' pictures on Facebook (sometimes his friends, friends of friends... , or even some girls she doesn't know); besides FB, he also checks out sexy model p...

I don't have the urges to have sex but want to find someone who makes me happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - Hello guys and girls, I kinda need help. I have been sexually inactive for over a year but yet, I don't feel the urges to have sex. I don't understand, now, i'm more then focused now on finding someone that makes me happy, and that I can return s...

Best sex with the ex and will that happen with another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hello! I recently broke up with a guy who I had dated for a few months. It wasn't for lack of attraction or enjoying each others' time - basically, he didn't see it going further, so whatever. It's done and I'm moving on. Trying to anyway. Thing is ...

How can I get my boyfriend to be more physically dominant without having to say anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me figure myself out. I have fantasies of being dominated - specifically a man grabbing my arms or wrists, pinning me up against the wall, or cornering me. I have had an ex that did that a little but i hat...

Is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - heyy so basically my question is, is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does? We used to literally have sex like 4 or 5 times every single day when we first together. We ve been together for almost 9 month and the longer were together the ...

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a ve...

My husband was raped by his older brother when he was a kid, I think he needs therapy but I can't suggest it to him when I'm not supposed to know this

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I have a big problem which I don't know how to deal with and I would apreciate some advice on what to do. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world (well for me anyways). A couple of months ago I had lunch with one of our oldest frien...

Is it normal to be repulsed by oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm dating a 21 year old man. We've been dating for 2.3 years and I lost my virginity to him over a year ago. He is my first boyfriend and was my first everything. Anyway, we have a pretty active sex life (3-4x a week) and ...

Why is it that people seem to practice safe penetrative sex on porn sites, but not safe oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Me and my pals were in the pub the other day and the subject of safe sex came up(we r all married and well into our forties and apparently std's are on the rise for age group). Why is it that on many porn sites,swinging sites people seem to practice ...

I feel like a sex toy! My boyfriend is a sex addict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend been dating for two years and he has like five different personalities he always upset we have sex hes happy but wen we dont he actually want to fight me physically .. I cant sleep in the bed with him cause hes a sex ...

Our sex life is a shambles

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 20 and he's 23. In all other respects our relationship is great but it's just the sex life that is a mess. I'll give you a bit of background on our sex lives before we were ...

Why do men only ever approach me for casual sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hi all, I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been truly asked out or taken out on a date. I've had sex and guys pursue me with only this reason in mind it seems. I'm not a whore though and don't sleep with anyone/ever...

She said once we were married the sex would get better, but here I am a year later and she still does not want sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I've been married for about a year, and my wife only wants to have sex about once a week (if that). She has had minimal interest in sex since we first started seeing each other about three years ago. She has said she's just not that interested ...

Please help, I feel disgusted.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I feel ashamed of myself after masturbating over webcam to my friend, I found it a buzz at first, but now I feel sick of myself and hate myself for doing it. Is it normal to feel this way? Is it even normal to do it in your mid teens? I can't look ...

Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...

Why does she feel so bad after we have phone sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I have had a recurring problem now for half a year. We've been dating for about a year and we were sexually active the first few months. After some issues with her parents, we are now completely non-sexual. We occasionally ...

I know the cheating is wrong, but I don't know how to stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to ...

My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...

Viagra won't work without desire...any ideas for increasing my libido?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - What could be a cause of that I dont care about sex anymore at all? I used to be very horny, and now, I dont even care for porn or any sexual contact with my wife? What could cause such a big change in me? I know,I'm asking, I should know better. ...

I have an extreme porn addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I have an extreme porn and mastubation addiction. My family found out about it a few years ago and I told them that i would stop and I did but later I continued behind their back. This is so painfull and I want to stop but its an addiction like ...

Why did he cum so fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I hooked up with this guy. I was a virgin and he wasn't. I felt him in me but not all the way in but it felt good. Within less than a minute though, (really it was after about 4 thrusts) he said 'oh wait- sometimes the first time is a bit fast' a...

How important is sexual compatibility in relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - How can someone gauge sexual compatibility with someone else? Is communication and experimentation in the bedroom the best way to introduce particular likes and dislikes of each partner? A particular question for female answerers: if a guy told yo...

I think she likes me and I want to have sex with her, how do I ask her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - Hi I have a problem. There is this girl I know and I have wanted to have sex with her for years but i have always been too afraid to ask. I have heard rumors that she likes me and that she has spoken to friends about having sex with me. I am a ...

I want to please him but I find anal really painful!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - My bf that I've been with for years wants to try something new .. Hmm .. Hes been asking me to let him put it in my butt .. But I don't like it ! It's painfully and I want to please him , but at the same time I feel like he should be more ...

Threesome gone wrong

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...

Had web cam sex with a girl I've just met.....is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - I just met this girl (last few days). Last night we were on skype video chatting, and one thing led to another and we ended up having mutual masturbation, cam sex or whatever you want to call it. Now I kinda regret doing it, I have never had s...

How can I make sure I last longer than 5 seconds when we do have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - I've been seeing this new girl for about a month now. She is super amazing, sweet, kind, funny and the hottest girl I have ever dated and I REALLY like her. We are taking things slow because her last relationship ended badly and I didnt want to ...

How do I use kegel exercises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I've read that kegel exercises during sex can help reaching vaginal orgasm. I know what kegels are but I'm wondering how i should practice while I'm having sex. Should I squeeze and try to hold it for as long as i can and then release or should I ...

Is there anything I can do to regain my sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - I currently got myself into a situation that I dont know what to do about. Im 23years old and I find myself to be a bi-curous (or at least I like to think that), however truth be told probably more gay then bi. Up till a few days ago I was s...

How do I distingush whether he likes me or just likes to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I started to date a guy and wish to have a serious long term relationship. If the guy want to have sex with me? How do i distingush whether he like me or just like to have sex? How long or how many dates should have before the intimacy? thanks an...

Should I move on with my feelings and sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we ...

It hurts when I have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I am 22 years old and it really really hurts every time I have sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for 2.5 years and its beginning to affect our relationship because he hates hurting me. Its gradually started hurting more and more since w...

Is he really interested in me? Or am I just another conquest? And inexperienced too

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - i've been seeing someone who is way more experienced than me sexually and most of his past girls have been very experienced and are into casual sex. it makes me feel like i'm just another conquest and i am curious if he is interested in me just beca...

Could I just be turned off from my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - Hello there. I need some opinion about my really disturbing problem. I have a ED , a few years ago. I went to the doctors, checked everything ,more than once, and Im perfectly healthy. So it does not make sense. But I never think of sex, not with ...

Is there a reason why I can't reach orgasm when g/f manually stimulates me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - I have an issue that keeps me from having sex currently with my girlfriend. She is very understanding and it is not that big of a deal (I need a minor surgery before I can, and we are content at fooling around until that happens) I have been ab...