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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Question for the ladies: Do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Question for the ladies: do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range? As a man, I'd have to say the old saying that ...

How do I pursuade my b/f to break the boundaries that we set up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Im 15 and me and my boyfriend were makingout. I dont know why i did this but i pressured him into touching my breast we both thonk we took it to far but i want it more now. How do i perrsude him to break the boundries and also why did i have the ...

This is not your typical FWB situation... I'm in desperate need of advice and insight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Well, it all started a few years ago when I met this guy. We became instant friends and we have been really close ever since we met. Since we met we have almost been inseperable. Sure, we've had our fall outs, but what longterm friendship wouldn't? ...

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...

Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny? I have had this happen to me for many years. Whenever I get really horny, or think of something very erotic, I often start a sneezing fit. It's like the blood or adrenaline rushes to my head and ...

I love being fingered and it doesn't hurt, will sex still hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hey, i was wondering, im still a virgin but my boyfriend fingers me, i love it and i dont feel any pain. Is this good? does this mean sex wont hurt so much for me?...

Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we'v...

How to make tossing off a boy special

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have decided to wait a couple of months till sex, but we are doing other things, i want to make tossing him off extra special or nice for him, any good tips or tricks that they like? ...

No pregnancy options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I haven't had sex, and I don't plan on it anytime soon, but I am curious. If I were to be on the pill, have the guy have a condom on, make him pull out properly, and take the morning after pill...what are the chances I would become pregnant? Is it ...

Guy I like broke up with me after seeing blood from my period during sex. What can I do??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I had a huge crush on somebody that I met 3 years ago. He was so cute and from another state. From the first time we met, we knew exactly that we were attracted to each other. He stayed at the hotel and we exchanged our cell phone numbers. The sex ...

Does the guy I have feelings for really like me, or should I just go date the other guy who I like less but for sure likes me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi, please can you give me your opinions on this situation. I met a guy in March this year. We started seeing each other or so I thought. I asked him after 8 weeks how he felt about me. He said it was just sex so I broke contact with him and told ...

I am 16 and obsessed with sex. What is wrong with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - So I'm having a hard time: I'm 16 and all i want is sex. I am so consumed with the world of sex and the sexual community since i had sex for the first time last year. Sex is all i think about. I don't know whats wrong with me. I want sex all of the ...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Sex hurts so much! How do I make b/f understand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always wants sex. But recently im really sore that last time we did it I nearly cried. I don't know why im sore its not like I'm allergic to him. He's always going on at me about not having sex but I just can't go through with it. What ...

My most embarassing sexual moment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - If youre really honest ladies, you might relate to my experience. One day i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was on top. I was busy enjoying myself there when he distracted me, "honey, is this pee on my stomach?" and im like "no way!it cant ...

Does anyone have any advice for me until my doctor clears me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I was raped two years ago, and the guy gave me HPV. I have been cleared of the virus, but I still have cancer cells that my doctor is trying to remove. He just performed a procedure where the cells were frozen. He has instructed me not to have sex ...

How can sex with a bigger guy be improved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a bigger guy (6', 280lbs) and I'm 5'7" 135 pounds. It's hard to have sex because his penis seems smaller with all of the fat surrounding it. When we have sex it's hard for him to get any penetration because we can't seem to find a ...

I always said I wouldn't and then I did, and I would do it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long response but please bear with me. So here's the situation, me and my friend recently met this guy. In our town he is very well know as being quite the eligible bachelor. He is everything a girl could ask for (he ...

I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having ...

I used to think he loved me, flaws and all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: 2 Questions from same asker combined. Question for men. If you are watching a movie and a nude woman is in the scene, does it turn you on? what does it make you feel or think? Truthfully, I never thought too much about this befo...

Is it safe? Or am I getting paranoid about accidently getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so two of the guys I've slept with can't figure out why I have to jump up and stop them before they put their fingers inside me after they just came and, long story short, got a little bit or even a lot of come on their hands. And if I was blow...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

Is his attitude to spacing out the sex to keep passion alive normal? Or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - umm my bf of a year doesnt have sex with me really often when i asked him about it he says that hes one of those guys who after a while the passion for sex with that girl fades and he doesnt want me to fade thats why he spaces it out. he shocked me ...

What am I to make of his confusing approach to sex and our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - ok here goes this might sound strange but it sounds strange to me too. sorry. ok i have a bf of 10 months, we are both going through rather difficult stages, i have family and work proplems and he has financial proplems and we are both pretty s...

It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave ...

I'm not sure where I stand with my FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I'm married but its falling apart he cheated on me lied constantly, hurt me, ignored me. I started an affair with a friend, I know its wrong. We've been on and off for about 9 months now. When it started I didn't mean for it all but i fell for my ...

If he doesn't fancy me, why is he with me and why does he go mad if other guys look at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am in a 5-year relationship and, although my partner doesn't want other men looking at me or showing an interest in me, he obsesses over younger women and oftentimes masterbates as a result. I find that hurtful, especially when we probably have ...

Loving my vibrator, am I a nympho ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Okay so im starting to ask myself if im a sex addict because I want sex all the time, anywhere. I do have a boyfriend and I only have sex with him, I don't cheat. But anyway, every single time im home alone or almost everynight I use my vibrator. ...

Should I try Oral or will it be a disaster ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been trying to give me oral sex for about a month now. But i wont let him. I give him oral all the time but now for me i just feel like it'll be embarrasing! Why is this?...

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Any ideas what it could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, seeing each other every couple weeks, so I go long periods w/o sex. I saw him yesterday and we had sex a couple times and it hurt a lot. I was wet enough and I gave him a bj to make getting ...

Did rough sex cause me to bleed abnormally, or did it jumpstart my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing ...

Can you be a FWB with an Ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ...

15 years old, boner problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Hey, first post here. After countless other questions asked anonymously, I thought I'd make an account so I can look back on all my previous, stupid questions later in life and have a good laugh. But as of right NOW this is no laughing matter.. ...

Dignified but exciting sex positions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (?) - What kind of different sexual positions are dignified but also exciting? I am thirty-one and I have a girlfriend but it is a bit boring in bed. All we do is woman-on-top, missionary, and she gives me blowjobs. What are some exciting positio...

Guilty or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi i am a Pakistani girl and a muslim. So here is my story. I married my first cousin (my mother's sister son) back in 2008. But now we are divorced. The problem is i am a little guilty because it was I who asked for divorce due to several reasons. ...

Fighting a lot, worried I am just a notch on his bed-post and he never stands up for me.....so many problems with this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot here lately and we have been through a lot. I love my boyfriend so much but I feel like im getting tired of him and the fighting, we tried dealing with our problems and stop the fighting but 2 days ...

What's with the incredible sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My bf and I don't see each other much since we're long distance. We've been together for 15 months now. We see each other every couple weeks, usually for a few days at a time. He's always had an issue with getting/staying erect when we first st...

I'm in a FWB with a married woman who used to be more loving. I'm confused, what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I am a married separated man in mid 40's, i have been separated for 5 years and am still friends with wife, we see each other 3 times a week but there is no sex. I have had 2 serious relationships in the past 5 years, niether worked out because ...

If there is no medical reason, what else could be the problem if my husband never wants to have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - What can I do ,if my husband can't tell,why does he not want to have sex with me? If there is no medical reason, what else could be the reason, if your husband never cares about sex ,yet he used to. I asked him, he says ,he doesn't know why. He did ...

Nice Guys

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...

In a lesbian couple with differing sex drives. How can I make myself want it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i am a female with a female partner, aka. we are a lesbian couple. Our sex is great and i love it, just not as much as her. She wants it every second. I am lucky if i want it at least once a week, and it's getting me down as, although she...

He is my FWB and now he tells me that he cares for me and likes my company, what's that about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (?) - Hey Cupids, I've been having this friend with benefits for nearly 6 months now. We meet twice a week, watch a movie, have dinner or lunch, we talk a lot and basically have a good time- with some sex involved. I'm a little confused though because t...

Is Oral, sex ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?...

I was a wild child, so he begged me to change and I did....now he thinks I'm boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. When we first started dating i was a wild child. I partied drank an smoked weed like every other day. I always tried to get him to go to the club with me or get his friends together for a night of ...

I love my FWB but he is flirting with other girls! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for ages and we both decided to be friends with benefits he is 3 years older than me, anyway i was supposed to see him on a certain night but i couldn't get to him so i told him and he got sorta ignorant with me, ...

I don't want to lose my virginity just like that, but I am getting to restless waiting for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - hello friends im a 20yrs old guy and being a virgin is eating me up,, i mean i dont want to lose it just like that,, like waiting for some special person,, but sometimes i get too restless,, but i dont feel like going to a prostitute. i dont kn...

Should I just continue to ignore the problems? Or, if I confront them, how should I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I should preface this whole thing by saying that my boyfriend is a really nice guy. He's sweet, and kind, and sensitive. He's not an asshole, even though some of these things might make him sound selfish! However, there are some things in our re...

It always hurts when he first goes inside me, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hi well im a bit worried about my health. Me and my boyfriend started having sex about 2 months ago, im 17. Well everything was fine and we were having great sex, then one day it was taking him a while longer to orgasm and so the sex went on for l...

He lost his erection during sex - was it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My man once lost erection when we were having sex.is there something wrong with me?...

How can I get the spark back into this relationship or has it gone for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend doesnt likes sex and hasnt for past 2 years. On the rare occasions we have sex, once a month if i'm lucky, she does it for me. There is no emotion, feeling or love from her during sex. She says its just the way she is and she would be ...