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writes:ok here goes this might sound strange but it sounds strange to me too. sorry.ok i have a bf of 10 months, we are both going through rather difficult stages, i have family and work proplems and he has financial proplems and we are both pretty stressed out. well last month we were talking and he said he wants to put the sex on hold whilst he tries to recover his business. i said to him ok because i was also pretty stressed and i couldnt stand thinking of that i dont know why.anyways a week later we slept together he took a room thursday night and we ended up staying till sunday.after that things cheered up he seemed to have a brighter perspective anyways the last week he's been pretty cold to me he hasnt even hugged or touched me and so i asked him why he was being like that and he said that we had talked about it and that our love was in recess i was so confused i didnt say anything and i still am. yes we had talked about it but then wed been together so i dont get it? im pretty confused Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (28 June 2011):
 I'm afraid it sounds as though he wanted to have a "fling" with you before putting the sex on hold - hence the four night jaunt in the hotel.
Now he's basically fluffing you off ("being cold") and doesn't really care now that he's got what he wanted.
He really isn't at all concerned or caring about your feelings.........I could be wrong, but this is how it strikes me. I'm sorry......
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