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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend has been trying to give me oral sex for about a month now. But i wont let him. I give him oral all the time but now for me i just feel like it'll be embarrasing! Why is this?
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reader, Drew21 +, writes (28 June 2011):
I think it's pretty common for girls to be a bit shy about the idea of a guy performing oral on them. Especially early on.I dated a girl like that. Anytime i even got CLOSE to her "down there", she would immediately roll, or grab me and move me up.We dated for 2 years, and never once did she let me perform oral on her.I know my wife finds it ticklish, unless she's properly aroused.I think what you have to remember is that you're giving him oral, and it sounds like he's a thoughtful lover who just wants to return the favour.Some guys are really don't want anything to do with giving oral to a woman, so i think you should count yourself lucky that you have a guy who is game and willing!Just try to remember: He's doing it because he wants to. He wants to make you feel as good as you make him feel (and if some of the women i've been with are any indication, oral sex can be a pretty wonderful experience for you! Just let yourself go, and enjoy the moment!)
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