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writes: What kind of different sexual positions are dignified but also exciting? I am thirty-one and I have a girlfriend but it is a bit boring in bed. All we do is woman-on-top, missionary, and she gives me blowjobs.What are some exciting positions we can try without pain or embarassment?Thanks for you time.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 ps. I love switching positions, I think each time I have sex I go through at least 3-4 positions.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (28 June 2011):
Nothing in sex should be embarrassing.
Try spooning, you laying behind her holding your arms around her and slide it in from behind.
Doggy style.
Her sitting on top of you, but you sitting up as well so you can look into each others eyes (this works great on a chair, or couch, or you just sitting up).
Standing, either do her from behind or face to face.
All positions are dependent on what works for the two of you, some will work better than others, so experiment!
Try to change positions during sex without pulling out. That's a great way to discover new positions. Just move around with whatever feels good.
A typically great one for the ladies: if she lays on her belly with her legs together and you lay on top of her and slide in from behind. Watch out so you don't hit the anus by mistake, that's not sexy.
Some routines I enjoy, is to switch positions in this order without taking the penis out (you can go back and forth between positions as many times as you like):
1. Missionary (variate with legs up and down, her legs on your shoulders or resting on your chest), then slide to the side and spoon, then roll over and her with belly down and you on top of her and finish it off that way.
2. Start with her riding you, slowly, then you sitting up, then her laying down bending backwards with you sitting up, then you laying down over her and finish off in missionary, or begin routine number 1.
3. Start in the spooning position, move over to doggy style with her on all four, then to her standing up on her knees, then move it into standing position up against a wall/table.
Lift her, move her, move her legs and feet and up and down during sex, and as you switch positions you will also find yourselves in interesting new positions.
Good luck! Sex should never be boring, keep it spontaneous.
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 "have a girlfriend but it is a bit boring in bed. All we do is woman-on-top, missionary, and she gives me blowjobs."
Good lord! do you have any idea how many people out there don't even get as much as you do? I've known poeple who count them selves lucky if they get missionary once a week!! let alone head jobs and girl on top! Many years ago I myself had a "boring" girlfriend. And believe me, if you think that girls that "only" do head jobs, girl on top and missionary are considered boring, you have NO frigging idea!!!
And what's this "dignified" stuff you're talking about? Since when is any sexual position "dignified"? What does it mean, that you can do it in public or in front of your parents or something???
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (28 June 2011):
Sex undignified? You bet it is!! I am inclined to recommend any bizarre position your crazed minds can think of, but make sure you are both wearing nothing but impeccably knotted neckties and office-type shoes while indulging. Be realistic- 'dignity' in sex is like caution in love. If you haven't recalled some of your more spectacular matings with vague feelings of embarrassment and wondered how two people could possibly have got up to something so naughty you're probably doing it wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): why dont you let your girl get on top and take the controls for a while, maybe get her to lie down like she usually would and give her some head lol, and if you want why not get behind her and try doggystyle this is my favourite and is not too extreme this should spice up things a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): Not sure why you would feel ANY position that brings you both pleasure would be embarassing. Well, I would try doggy style since that isn't part of your routine...maybe reverse cowgirl. But numerous sex positions may not be the spice you need. I have a GF who is very sexual and open and we have evolved into just one or two positions most times because that's what feels good. We are always joking how we are boring, but the sex is anything but. It's the sexual energy, passion and things like dirty talk that make it hot...not performing every position in the Karma Sutra.
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