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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why does a guy want you to say his name during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - this is a pretty simple question really....Why does a guy want you to say his name during sex? is it jut for ego or does it actually have a purpose?...

Confused about my sexuality.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Ok, you maybe as confused as I am after reading this! . . . I've never wanted a 'boyfriend' or drooled over males and its never bothered me. . . It's Bothered my friends more,coz they couldn't understand WHY I didn't fancy anyone. Few yrs ago tho ...

My first anal, will it hurt much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - *OP's own title* Hi. I got this fantastic boyfriend and we have been together for a little more than a year. He is very cute and is just perfect. But the problem I have is that we are talking about having sex for the first time. He is two years ...

He didn't rape me - but it sort of feels that way to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - ok here's what happened. I was making out with my guy friend who really likes me I like him too but he is kinda a ladys man so I don't want to be in a relationship with him cause I think it would just end bad I told him i'd rather just be friends ...

Ah Breasts, But What to do With Them?

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31 March 2010 (F) - This is a topic so basic, so obvious that I never thought of talking about it before. Now, I’m not professing that just because I HAVE breasts, I know everything there is to know about them. (For instance, I still don’t know why, when I do a shot, ...

He was explaining how guys get boners and I wondered if it was a hint?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - One night me and the boy i like were hanging out listening to music and talking! Thing is im in love with him. He is so easy to talk to! He said to my friend that we were so close that he appears he likes me when we r just friends. He was explaining ...

We're both new to this and now I'm confused about what he actually thinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Me and my bf are both 16, we ve been going out for 4 months. Recently things have started to get alot more physical, previously when storys of other people we know doing stuff have come up he would say that they're too young. Last week he was lying ...

She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it ...

She informed me after the fact that I was her first, now she's avoiding me! I don't know what I did wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I met this girl and i thought she was really nice, we became friends and things moved on from there. After a few months she says she's ready to have sex. After she tells me it was her first time, and i thought it was cool that she chose me. But af...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend because of sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I cant have sex with my boyfriend becose am still a virgin, and cant make him cum thru blow job. .wot should i do,i dont want to lose him to other gurl becos of sex....

Would I make my boyfriend horny if I sat on his lap?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - My bf asked me to sit on his lap. Does that makes a guy horny if I do so?...

My "friends with benefits" girl has fallen for me, and I'm torn between losing her for good or being in a relationship when I'm not sure I want it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Hi all, Im in a right mess here :( This is rather long winded so i hope at least someone can be patient enough to read and respond. I have had what can only be described as a friend with benefits for the last 11 months. We're like best frie...

My periods are late again, am I going to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - hi ... i just want to ask that in last month my periods actual date was 5th march but it came on 26th ...and now in this month i have done sex with my boyfriend on 27th night that too 3 times and my periods are delayed and we have used condoms ...

My boyfriend wants to finger me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Hi im 16 and my boyfriend really wants to finger me.oh im also a virgin and im not sure what to exoect?like do you bleed when he fingers you?What does he do after hes done?does he just go wash his fingers?or what?...

How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...

What do these symptoms mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I had my last period on 4th of march. Me and my husband are having regular sex. On 21st I started having pain in my abdomen which lasted for 3 days. I thought I may get early period. But I didn't. On 25th while having sex I started bleeding from ...

I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are ...

Oral sex whilst on my period.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants to go down on me while I'm on my period. I've never let anyone do this. My only concern is, should I show up with or without a tampon?...

Are you likely to fall pregnant having sex during your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had sex well i was on my period and we did it the pull out way cuz we both herd that it was unlikely to get pregnit well your on it. Does any one know what the chances or percentage that i could be pregnit? I wouldnt really mind ...

How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...

Fantasizing about my abusive ex makes me feel perverted.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I was in a very physically, verbally and emotionally abusive relationship for two years. After a handful of counseling visits, countless occurrences of being reprimanded at work for bringing my phone places so he could call and listen to where ...

He was bummed, and seemed disappointed. What can I do to help our budding relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - So the other night this guy who I really like and me had sex for the first time. I was a little confused because I couldnt tell if he was enjoying it or not... it was hard to see any facial expressions in the dark but I could feel that he was ...

I cum too fast!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - So my problem is that, I cum too fast. The second my boyfriend sticks it in, I just cum and idk what I can do to keep myself from cuming so fast. Any tips? Is anything wrong with me? ...

After the hymen is torn by girls masturbating or she loses her virginity, do her periods get heavier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - After the hymen is torn by girls masturbating or she loses her virginity, do her periods get heavier? If then why? I really want to know,because i am curious,i have ask some of my best friends and they all don`t know! Thanks in advance aunts =...

Still bleeding 3 days after losing my virginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hellow there, the thing is im kinda confused right now. i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and im still bleeding right. i dont know how normal is this, and i dont know if the virgin blood could have got mixed with my period blood, because im EXTRE...

My boyfriend is falling for me way too fast after losing his virginity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, well this is my problem. I been with my boyfriend for about 3 months going on 4 and I'm his first everything. In the beginning I knew he was falling for me and he was falling fast. But now that I took his virginity I know that he i...

What is stopping my boyfriend having sex with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 March 2010 (?) - Hello everyone, My partner and I have been together for three years now and he has still not had sex with me. I am a virgin and he has had a lot of past experiences. However, a year ago I felt ready to have sex so I let him know only for h...

I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There ...

I'm going to lose my virginity but my boyfriend is really big and I am worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in ...

He says he's not sexually attracted to me because of my job!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Im not sure what to do i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he tells me loves me but he isnt sure that he is sexually attracted to me anymore because of my job (Escort) he and i have sex on occasions but for the part he just goes ...

How long to wait before I have sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - i had this bf for 2yrs and he left me for someone else a yr ago.now he start talking to me again.we are going to see eachother again in april when he comes back from washington.We have never had sex before but now i want to.if we start going out ...

Tired of masturbating and watching porn...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I really need help...I am tired of doing this..I masturbate everyday 2-3 times..and I watch porn for masturbation...almost everyday...I hate it but to masturbate I watch it...I wanna stop doing it and watching porn...How should I stop it? Please ...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't...but he keeps threatening me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - um my boyfriend keeps talking about sex and that he wants to um "do it" soon but im not ready and i dont want to do it with him but he keeps threatening me and has rased his hand to me. i dont know what else to do!...

I didn't say no, but I was pushing him away and then I passed out. Was it rape?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Last night i went to a small party of about 20 people. We played beer pong and all of us got really really hammered. My friend put me to bed and another male friend ended up sleeping in the same bed as me. At first we just talked and we cuddled, but ...

I'm curious...what do people think about the whole "friends with benefits" idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Just curious as to what people think of the whole "friends with benefits" idea. I mean, what defines a relationship as that and do you think it's bad or trashy? I feel like I'm in that situation right now with my best friend. We used to date and ...

Do guys get excited when they get a little thigh action?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Do guys get excited when they are touching a girl's legs? Especially the upper part of the leg?...

Does he really like me for who I am or is he just interested in getting physical?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are attached for 1 month plus and he is getting more touchy as in physical contact. We normally ended our outings in romantic outdoor places where he started kissing me and touching me. To be honest, I kinda enjoyed it at first ...

Do men become possesive after sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Do men become possesive after sex? I've been with a guy for nearly a year now, and we recently started having sex around the beginning of the year. I've noticed now he occasionally refers to me as me 'my girl' . He wants to see me the whole weekend ...

What do you do with the tongue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Quick question when you are giving a blow job, when you put it in your mouth should your tongue rub up against it or is it best to keep it out the way....

Mood swings after ejaculation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Ok, always after i ejaculation from masturbating i have maybe 6 ssecs of pleasure then it all turns to hate, anger, and depression all towards myself. But after about 10 mins im back to my normal self and i always go back to doing the same thing. ...

What happens to your sex life when you get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - What happens to your sex life when you get married (or are in a long term living arrangement)? Why does the sex always wane, and the relationship become almost platonic? Is it because you're together every day? I've seen in time and again and even ...

How to get in the mood for sex???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend of one year have decided to start having sex. but for some reason every time we try i cant seem to get wet enough?? we have tried forplay but nothing seems to work? therefore he starts to take it personally and thinks hes not ...

Worried in case I've caught an STD!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little confused here as to what to think. Last weekend i had sex with my ex boyfriend (silly i know, and I'm not proud of it) but it happened and I'm a little worried about STDs. I currently have a boyfriend who I also have an unprotected ...

Help! Problems with sex!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have tried several times to have sex but we are both virgins and dont know what to do. First time we tried we spent half an hour trying to find the 'spot' but it would always slip out. Can this happen because of nerves? Can yall ...

I am sexually active and the guiltiness wont go away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - im 15 and i love my boyfriend i know he truely loves me because he demonstrates it every day with his actions.We've had sex several times but i feel very guilty afterwards because i feel like im letting myself and my mom down.Im a catholic and my ...

Do female orgasms feel the same as male organsms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I was making love to my girlfriend, I was laying on my back and she was on top of me, she told me she was feeling that "urge-to-pee" sensation, which I almost instantly recognized as what girls feel when they're close to orgasm, or something like ...

I am worried my brother in law's son might try something with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I m 37 having 2 kids. Both studing in 12th and 10th standard. I m house wife and my husband is a worker in oil factory. My husband met an accident and is in hospital from last 3 months. My brother-in-law and nephew has been paying all the hospital ...

I'm having a sexual relationship with my housemate, and things are getting confusing. What should I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Several months ago, I started having a sexual relationship with one of my housemates. To make matters more complicated, he was my first. Since then, we have continued to have a secret (from our other housemate) affair. Several times we have ...

Bad fit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I have an amazing relationship with my girlfriend, no complaints at all, our sex life leaves much to be desired. With a combination of both our anatomies, my guy doesn't fit very well to say the least. We're to the point now at least where she can ...

My girlfriend doesn't want sexy with me anymore after a 3 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I got a girlfriend almost 3 years right now. Everything was very good in the beginning. After she went on holiday a half year ago, she said she doesn't feel attractive to me anymore. But that wasn't my problem. I changed her feel...