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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): If he's already beahving this way it's only gonna get worse. GET OUT! It doesnt matter if you love him or anything else. It always gets worse.
I had a realtionship that began with only mid signs of abuse (nothing like what your partner is doing!), and ended on him shoving me from a car on a busy road. (I was ok)
A man like this is dangerous, and will only become more abusive with time!
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reader, babbi x  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 OMG... you are all going to scare the life out of the poor girl!!
But they are right... you need to break up with him and tell your parents
good luckk!
keep me posted
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 3rd it! Leave him, tell your parents and never talk to him again. Any worthwhile guy would not be like that with you. Take this as a lesson, never accept and allow this sorta behavior.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 March 2010):
 I second the TELL YOUR parents and tell him you are done dating him. And drop all contact with him from now on. DO NOT be alone with him at any time.
He is a LOOSER! And a dangerous one at that.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 You need to get away from this guy as fast as possible. Any boy that physically threatens you and is pushing you for sex like that is really bad news! Get out right now, before something terrible happens. He's not safe to be around. And don't be anywhere alone for a while afterwards where he might find you.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Tell him it is over. You only hang out with guys who respect you. You are right, you are not ready, and neither is he.
Now about the violence. Threatening is also violence. He has shown you that he can't be trusted. You need to start taking precautions. Never be alone with him. Always have a friend within sight. Make sure that your friends know why they are there. Make sure the adults in your life know that you feel threatened by him. If he complains tell him, When you raised your hand against me you lost my trust, I can't feel safe with you. He needs to learn why what he did is wrong. Don't down play this. You can get really hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): tell him your not ready straight up, and if he cant accept that then its his loss and you should find another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): leave him. all he needs from you is sex.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Run, before he rapes you. He's going to raise his hands whenever you don't follow his commands. He's not goint to want a breakup or may even stalk you. You have to be firm. He's not your boyfriend anymore when he treats you like his property.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (29 March 2010):
Tell your parents and tell the creep to F--- Off, eif you can do none of these things then tell him next time you will call the Police.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): there are three ways to do this 1.Tell a adult
2.Bring a group of stronger boys and threatan him
3.Threatan him that you will tell adults or police
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