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writes:One night me and the boy i like were hanging out listening to music and talking! Thing is im in love with him. He is so easy to talk to! He said to my friend that we were so close that he appears he likes me when we r just friends. He was explaining to me how guys get boners and im wondering if he was dropping hints to me that he wanted me to do those things (run chest and leg play with hair at neck line etc) but what if i got it wrong and he doesnt want me to? What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Tough call. He may be into you or he may not.
Honestly with guys it is not such an either/or thing like it is with girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): I agree with the first response from anonymous male, sex makes things VERY complicated and you need to be sure that it is what you want to do. Seeing that you two are only friends and you know you are in love with him you NEED to know that he isn't going to hurt you after the fact. Truth is that sometimes sex is all a guy wants and you need to know that that isn't the case here because you do care for him and it will hurt you if he doesn't feel the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Those things are a tease. They often get men aroused. There is nothing wrong with exploring that, but I wouldn't do it at your age. It can often lead to more serious matters. Enjoy your youth. Sex complicates things. When it is brought in, no matter if it is just flirty touching or full blown intercourse, it makes life much more complicated. He was probably just talking. Sure, he's also hoping that you might do some of those things, but you have to ask yourself how far you're willing to take it.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Well was he talking seriously or jokingly? I mean if he was talking seriously that quite possibly was a hint as not many guys would talk about that seriously with a girl without hinting.
However, me and my guy mates often talk about boners and stuff and I know they're joking around and not being deadly serious, and I know for a fact they're not hitting on me.
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