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writes:Ok, you maybe as confused as I am after reading this! . . . I've never wanted a 'boyfriend' or drooled over males and its never bothered me. . . It's Bothered my friends more,coz they couldn't understand WHY I didn't fancy anyone. Few yrs ago tho I was asked if I fancied women instead. .i'd never thought about it. . . Yeah, ok, I noticed how pretty some were and how I prefered to be around female teachers in school etc. . But shrugged it off. Now i'm older and still never bothered with a partner.. Find myself still liking the look of other females and have a painful crush on a playful lesbian female boss.. Who i've mentioned to ' I don't know what I want' in one of our conversations. I REALLY don't know what to do! :( or where to turn from here. Help!
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reader, lonesum dove  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 At anytime you have to wonder if you are attractive to the same sex, well let me put it to you like this... welcome to the family lol, I think right now you are struggling with your sexuality, go get urself a girlfriend and be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies guys. :)
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reader, WiseAngela23 +, writes (1 April 2010):
I have noticed that their a special bond with my friends that are girls that is WAY stronger than the bond I have with guys. Girls are easier to talk to, you can talk to them about anything, and you can trust them. I say, go to your nearest mall, by yourself, and see if more guys or girls appeal to you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 I think that there is just that special connection with females that you just can't find with males. You should try dating a female and that should really help you work things out in your mind.
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