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*06rider
writes:I have an amazing relationship with my girlfriend, no complaints at all, our sex life leaves much to be desired. With a combination of both our anatomies, my guy doesn't fit very well to say the least. We're to the point now at least where she can enjoy it and gets off, but I do not get pleasure from just having the top in. She knows I'm not finishing and it kills her self esteem because she thinks its all her fault or something. I really like this girl and would hate to end it on such a weird topic. Not sure what to do. Please help!
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reader, 406rider +, writes (28 March 2010):
406rider is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hello again, and thank you for the responses! We've tried a lot of different positions as well as foreplay and lube but to no avail. It seems to be a logistics thing, I've learned she cannot give birth traditionally but must always have a c-section, it's almost certainly related to that I'm thinking. As my canadian friend said we may just not be "anatomically fit".
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reader, pyan  +, writes (28 March 2010):
hi
do you use lube, my wife asked how big are you as her ex was very big and she say they all seem to fit
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Could it be that she's not too experienced and was rigid? Have you tried different positions? Because there is not much info here, such as sizes and how many girls you have had, I just have to assume that it's not that you are too big, or too curved, you are just not compatible anatomically. If that's what you are born with or her vagina shapes weird, there is nothing you can do. I can't picture what's going on, if you do believe special people are out there to fit our bodies I don't feel it's the worst thing to do to break off a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): Maybe you could finger her and stretch her out before you force it in. If your penius is larger you might want to make sure you stretched her out enough, because it might hurt her.
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