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male
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30-35,
*ocalsAndRhythmGuitarist
writes:I was making love to my girlfriend, I was laying on my back and she was on top of me, she told me she was feeling that "urge-to-pee" sensation, which I almost instantly recognized as what girls feel when they're close to orgasm, or something like that. She was screaming like crazy and all of a sudden she threw herself to my chest. I was comepletely stunned, cuz I was sort of in another world, concentrating on not cuming, I was doing great, so I was like "what the eff?" when she threw herself to my chest. I asked her "what's going on? Did you come?" and she babbled a lot of things, but I managed to understand stuff like "I don't know", "I felt kinda electrified", and "I felt an extremely pleasureable sensation around my stomach, vagina, and back". I asked her why'd she stop then if she was feeling this great, and she told me she was afraid I'd cum, because usually when she feels this great I'm about to cum. I told her no, I was doing great, I wasn't even close to cumming. Before we started making love, I told her she must stop moving at the instant I tell her to, to stop myself from cumming.Anyway, I wanna ask, was I on the right path? Was the feeling she described the right one? Was she about to reach orgasm? I think yes, cuz what she described to me was the same feeling I get when I'm about to cum, the one I easily recognize and use to alert myself that I'm about to cum, so I can tell her to stop. Electrified, the nerves around my penis sort of constrict, and my body twitches. I thought that, maybe, if female orgasm feels similar to male orgasm, then she was about to reach orgasm. Am I right?
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 This is a rather subjective question coz of course no one can catagorically be one sex and experience an orgasm from the perspective of the other sex.
From what I can figure from experience tho, is that yes it is possible both sexes could feel something akin to an urge to pee as they are about to orgasm, ... that men usually seem to get there quicker than women (not always) ...and I do actually think it has to be more intense of a sensation for women than for men.
She may not have stopped out of fear/ unco of having an orgasm tho, .. she may have stopped coz she did actually have an orgasm! I know for myself I can get there fairly easily if I am on top, ... and then I can keep going if my man is not there yet, and maybe have multiples, ... but it is not without interuption in each instance coz my whole body kinda seizes up and shakes to the point I just about can't move momentarily for a bit there.
If the guy is on top tho, and I am at that point but the action is not stopping coz I am not in control of it, .... well then don't talk to me for half an hour coz I'll be totally brain fried, probably laughing at anything said to me, and making no sense whatsoever.
My guy can twitch, jump, moan, let expletives fly, ... had had head rushes, felt like passing out on occassion, ... but never is so brain trashed after the fact as I can be.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Yes she had a big orgasm. Do females and males feel the same? You have to ask Lady Gaga that.
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