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My bipolar boyfriend keeps disappearing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. I know that causes mood changes. Every time he gets paid ( he is on disability benefits ), he disappears. It's usually for about three or four days. Sometimes, he texts and calls me during that time, but sometimes ...

Should I worry that he still sees his ex and thinks of her as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - hey all im 24 and pregnant with my second child, this one is with a man that is 49. we have a great relationship and im proud to have found a man that treats me like a princess. however, we got together the wrong way and i regret that i took him...

I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning ...

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...

Stress of being 8 months pregnant, school work, money and fiancee being away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hello i could really use some advice as i just don't know how to cope with all the things life is currently throwing at me. I think i may be depressed. Ive just moved out of my parents for the first time and have got my own house with my fionce. I ...

16 weeks pregnant and my Bf is acting distant. What can I do? He's not affectionate now. It's made me feel lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I'm 28 y/o. 5 years ago I was* married and had 2 miscarriages. I found out that my (now ex husband ) was cheating on me so I filed for divorce. Now, after years of thinking id never be lucky enough to get pregnant aga...

I'm pregnant with our second child but now he's hardly talking to me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years ad we have a daughter who is currently one. We had her kinda early in our relationship but we both agreed that was fine. Now pregnant again and after I got pregnant he stopped wanting to touch ...

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about ...

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - hi Aunts ahd Uncles... im the man who orginally posted about my pregnant girlfriend. the title was she posts everything on facebook. you all wanted me to come back and prove you wrong. well guess what? my baby BOY is due in june, i proposed to her ...

My girlfriend won't have sex because she is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - Hello every one. I've been dating this girl for 3 yrs now and things have been moving on well. just last year she got a new job and since them things has been going on funny. For the past 6months i've gone to bed with her just once and now she is ...

I'm afraid my mother will be disappointed that I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I'm 24 years old and almost 2 months pregnant. I don't know what to do. I have a completely understanding family's and my child's father is in the picture and he's completely supportive. I haven't told my mother. I'm afraid that she will be ...

My guy is 20 and acts like he's 15. I'm pregnant and really love him but he doesn't grow up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years on and off. Well lately, things has been going downhill. It has been like that for a while now. No matter what i do or say, he still acts like he doesnt care or treat me like i should. In the past...

My wife is 7 months pregnant. Is it normal for me to feel aroused around her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

18 February 2013 (M) - I have been married to my wife for two years, now she is 7months pregnant,Is it normal for me to feel horny and aroused wheneva I look at her or touches her?...

Is it normal to lose interest in sex after having a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontane...

My wife wants to have a child, I dont. What should we do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

15 February 2013 (M) - I’m 31 year old man and I’m having a trouble in my marriage. My wife ( she's 32) wants a child, I don’t. We are married for 4 years. We discussed this subject many times before our marriage. I told her I never want to have children and asked whether ...

How do I tell my ex that the baby I'm carrying isn't his?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. His ex is four months pregnant with his baby and I'm one month pregnant with his too. My problem is, he doesn't seem to be happy for our baby but promise that he will take care of the baby once born. Now, the thing ...

Marrying my gay best friend and need some advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I have a gay best friend and he and I have been best friends for 15 years. I am 30 and he is 33. We love each other in every possible way but sexually. He is my soul-mate and all I have ever wanted in a man. He treats me better than anyone ever has ...

Troubles. All I seem to do is work and sleep. So why is she so distrustful? why does she think I'm cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - My gf has been thinking I've been cheating on her. I work hard and once and a while I have to work late. She thinks I should have bankers hours. I have a kid and I scream at her in front of him and it really upsets me. All I do is work and s...

I'm torn.. my heart wants this baby, but my mind says to get an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - I've been through a lot of stress and heartache, shame as well as guilt, and more. I will try to make this as short as I can. I'm 23 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I got married when I was 21 and I was with him for 6 years..right now ...

He does not want to talk about the things bothering me in our marriage. Should he be willing to talk? Or do I over-analyse too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

11 February 2013 (F) - modnote: earlier question -posted August 13 2012 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-just-learned-my-husband-fathered-another.html Further to my question dated 13/8/2012, the tests reveal it is his child. This woman made my life a living he...

What would be the negatives about having a first child when aged 35?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - I am turning 21 this year and the thought of having children anytime soon within the next 5 years sounds really unappealing to me. A lot of my high school friends are getting married and having children already. I just want to be free and single a...

How do I get through this? Or at least over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Well where to begin? I was in love with my ex so very much to the point I did everything for him. He was my life. We were together for there years and I never felt for anyone or anything the way I felt for him ....he did not how ever feel the sa...

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...

Considering my circumstances for next 3 years, how can I come to terms with delaying having a baby? My desire is for a baby right now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - Lately I have been having day dreams about what it would be like to have another baby. I already have a 9 year old and I seriously think im getting broody. Sometimes I lay in bed thinking about that first mooment when the baby is born and you feel...

Boyfriend lied and got me and his ex pregnant. It still hurts 2 years later!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - I was seeing my bf for a year before we started dating then about 2 months after dating I fell pregnant. well 4 months went by and I looked at his ex the mother of his first child fb page to find out she was pregnant too! she was 2 weeks behind me ...

My husband masturbates 5-6 times a week but cant get me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) - [Mod Note: Please give more information. Do you use protection? Are you trying for a baby? Has he been to the doctors? How often do you have sex? How often does he masturbate? Have you talked to him about this? More information will help you get ...

Older boyfriend said he was ready for responsibility but an unplanned pregnancy had him singing a different song!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) - Please help! my boyfriend is 12 years older than i am.He is ready for any family responsibility.but when i told him i was pregnant,he told me to get and abortion because he want me to finish school.Do you guys think he loves me or was just an abuser ...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

We have children. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. Will he ever change? All his money goes on his lifestyle and we struggle at the best of times

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I guess like a lot of girls do, I thought I could change my boyfriend. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. His friends are no good and he doesn't look after me or our children as he should. I don't work as my youngest is 3 weeks old, and my olde...

I don't know if he wants me to get pregnant or not. But why is he so obsessed about me being pregnant, or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi I have a boyfriend for six months we have been sexually active most of it. I have done a few pregnancy tests but all negative that's fine because we talked and not one of us is ready for a baby.. I am using the injection for 6 months now...fee...

Scared of raising a child alone and not giving him/her what they deserve...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Im 24 pregnant, one year left to finish my bachelor degree. The father and I are not together he is 27 and assured me that he will be here 100% with whatever I choose to do. Im scared because Im afraid of raising my child alone and not having that ...

Our relationship has changed since I've been pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - My relationship has changed since I've been pregnant, and not for the better. My husband and I used to be very active together, but since I've become pregnant, I've had to change my fitness routines, so we don't share that bond anymore. On the ...

I'm pregnant! How do I tell my parents who don't like the guy and don't even know we've been seeing one another?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - What is the best way to tell my parent's I'm pregnant and that the father is 7 years older then? My parent's are strict Christians and for the past year, I have kept my relationship a secret as they didn't approve of my boyfriend as a friend l...

Why? I don't understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. I love him and don't want to end up bitter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - Still to this day I don't understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. He always reassures me it's been three years, and he tells me he doesn't know what he was thinking back then and why he cheated on me of he could take it all back he would. ...

If I'm pregnant how do I tell my boyfriend its not his?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - Hey Cupids, got my self in a little bit of trouble and need some Help and advice. I had a one night stand January 26th early morning January 27th. The guy i had the one night stand was without a condom. We were both having a few social drink...

I'm 16. Is it wrong for me to have unprotected sex, already had a miscarriage and want to get pregnant?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - ok so heres the deal...me and my bf have been dating for almost a year now...we stated having sex 5 months after we began dating...but we NEVER used condom...we are 2 highschool students and he is to graduate this year...i have suffered a miscarrage ...

Did watching the birth of our daughter make my husband gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - I’m 32 years old woman and now I’m experiencing really hard time in my marriage. My husband(he’s 33) and I are married for 3 years and 6 months ago our daughter was born. My husband never wanted to be in the delivery room, but I wanted him to be ...

Am I expecting too much? I still can't trust my BF even though he's changed his ways.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - Hello I am looking for some advice or maybe someone who has been there too. I am so extremely utterly confused. I have been with my bf for a little over a year. I have realised I don't trust him. When we first got together he was a jack the lad a...

Asking Hard Questions

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1 February 2013 (M) - Asking Hard Questions By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships When trying to decide if you should be committed to someone, moving in with someone, getting engaged, and getting married, each new transition brings about the unpleasant task of askin...