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writes: I have been married to my wife for two years, now she is 7months pregnant,Is it normal for me to feel horny and aroused wheneva I look at her or touches her?
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reader, daletom +, writes (19 February 2013):
Yes, very normal. At least for me - and my wife has been pregnant four times. (Though I find pregnant women in general rather attractive and sexually desirable - in spite of cultural conditioning to the contrary. Anybody who thinks "pregnant" is the same as "fat" has NOT looked very closely!)
Fortunately, my wife is one of those women - I think it's statistically around 1/3 to 1/2 of all women - who gets especially horny when she is pregnant.
Make love with your wife! As much as she wants, and maybe a little more. Let her know how much you admire her body and the new life it's making. Massage her back and rub her tummy. In these later stages you need to be more gentle and less athletic in your lovemaking, but you'll probably develop a real appreciation for the intimacy of the "spoons" position. Check with her doctor but in most cases it's OK to have sex right up until she starts labor. (With one of our kids my wife says she wasn't sure when the orgasm contractions changed to labor contractions.)
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (19 February 2013):
Oh yes, very very normal. A lot of men find their partners very arousing while pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013): Of course it is! Having a baby is the most feminine thing a woman can do so it's natural that you are drawn to her more. My husband couldn't get enough of me when I was pregnant :)
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reader, R1 +, writes (18 February 2013):
She is your wife, so yes sounds normal to me! I don't think pregnant women are ugly or unattractive.
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