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*lluneedislove
writes:Hello every one. I've been dating this girl for 3 yrs now and things have been moving on well. just last year she got a new job and since them things has been going on funny. For the past 6months i've gone to bed with her just once and now she is pregnant. For the first 3months before she got pregnant we were not having sex at all. Each time i try to have sex with have, she tune me down and when i ask what is going on, she said too much stress in the office. And now she is pregnant i can't still have sex with her. I've been like this without sex for the past 4 months. I don't know what to do pls help me out and tell me what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (22 February 2013):
You need to have a talk with her and use your instincts to try and tell if she's lying. I'm finding it hard to believe that you're the father, but as long as the time line works out its possible.
When the baby comes you may find that they don't look anything like you. Combine that with your instincts about her lying or not.
But, beware that you need to think of the child first, they didn't choose to be put in this situation.
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reader, alluneedislove +, writes (21 February 2013):
alluneedislove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNow am really worried if am the father. So i don't know if i can give a 100% or not. And having sex with some else...... i don't think i can take that.
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reader, alluneedislove +, writes (21 February 2013):
alluneedislove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your for everything.The only problem we have back here is that we can do the DNA cos we don't the machines in Cameroon.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 February 2013):
 Wait wait wait....
how far along is she????
you have had sex ONCE in six months and she's pregnant.
are you 100% sure you are the father???
if she's not having sex with you and she's pregnant and not letting you touch her she says it's too stressful at work for her to have sex???
My gut feeling is that there is someone else....
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