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writes:[Mod Note: Please give more information. Do you use protection? Are you trying for a baby? Has he been to the doctors? How often do you have sex? How often does he masturbate? Have you talked to him about this? More information will help you get better answers]i have been married for 6 months and i feel so bad when me and my husband have sex cant cum but maybe once a month inside me but he can masturbate and produce a small amount of sperm and this takes almost a hour for him to do im so frustrated i have even thought about a divorceMOD NOTE: Poster added this info:"yes we are trying to have a baby and he masturbate about 4 or 5 times a week we havenot been to a doctor we have sex 2 or 3 times aweek and he onlu cums like maybe once every 4 to 6 weeks inside me."
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reader, Abella +, writes (8 February 2013):
 Has your husband been honest about his previous medical history? For instance could he have already had a vasectomy?
Or could he have had fertility issues in a previous relationship?
Has he taken illicit drugs in the past? Does he smoke cigarettes heavily? Or have a very sedentary worklife and lifestyle?
Maybe it is time you both attended a fertility clinic and had tests to discover your individual fertility levels.
An inability to get pregnant can be affected by many different variables.
Also forget about making a baby and concentrate on relaxing. Being less stressed can often work like magic as far as encouraging the body to do as you wish.
Are you underweight? A semi-starvation diet can supress ovulation.
Conversely - and although this is unlikely to be the case I have also heard of couples who have chosen to start eating more healthily - such that losing ten per cent of their body weight (if carrying a few extra pounds beyond a normal weight) then resulted in the lady getting pregnant. Nature is amazing really - preferring the woman to be in good health - neither in starvation mode nor in very heavy mode - to allow optimum conditions for a baby to be nurtured inside the womb
Get your individual fertility levels cHecked out and you'll learn the truth about the situation
Best wishes to you
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reader, CMMP +, writes (7 February 2013):
You didn't ask a question here but I assume it's "how do I get him to come inside of me more?"
I get the feeling he doesn't really want a baby. There's no non medical reason that would prevent him from being able to perform his duties.
Talk to him, tell him that he can be honest with you and don't get mad if he says something you don't like.
If you're convinced he really does want a baby, tell him he needs to stop masturbating until you become pregnant because he's depleting his sperm.
If that doesn't work go see a doctor.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 February 2013):
 OP are you sure your husband wants a baby?
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