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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I don't have feelings for my girlfriend and feel guilty because of my real intentions behind having a relationship with her. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Recently,on dating site, I have got 42 years old American woman interested in me and it's been two weeks since we have expressed love for each other.I'm 30 years old. She has 11 years old daughter from her first love who left here 6 years ago. She...

Would texting him at midnight on NYE be a good move? we fell out, but he said to try things again in 2012

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - i really like this boy and we've been meeting up, texting and stuff like that. we fell out but we are ok now, he said to try things in 2012.. seeing as its new years eve i was thinking of texting him how i felt at midnight? but i wouldnt know what ...

To text or not to text? And if I do text her, what should I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I am a 16 year old guy and I've been working at a pizza place (Donatos) since I was 14. I got a girl's number when I was working the other day, she wrote it on the back of a receipt that I gave her to sign (and she tipped me xD). She was real...

I feel awful for misguiding the girl I plan to marry for so many years but I'm so scared to face the music but I also want to right my wrong

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - So, about five years ago I met a girl, who is now my girlfriend of three years, online and she lives in PA. We always got a long real well and eventually we started to play on the ps3 with eachother, because we were curious about what the other ...

She's filled with doubts and insecurities before we've even met, do I stick it out or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - I started talking to a woman 3 months ago i met over a dating site, after a real struggle she finally decided to talk to me over the phone after 2 months of communication as it was a confidence issue she had, and thought i would not like her accent. ...

How much help is too much help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 December 2011 (?) - A guy I met online is coming to town and he's asked me to help him rent a bedsit so I did. The thing is the bedsit is in bad shape and there is basically nothing habitable about it. He'll be arriving late on Saturday ( no shops will be open on ...

The Other Woman .. are they JUST friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a chat forum online and hit it off. We now spend most of our day (even with the time zone problem) talking with each other in one for or another. but I have a problem. Jealous...

How do I completely cut my ex out of my life? He keeps writing to me as if there is nothing wrong. He's put me off Online dating forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I "dated" this guy for a year before we broke up. We met online and during that year I never fully trusted him. I always felt like something was wrong or off in some way, that he wasn't telling me everything. I mean, I never met his friends, I don't ...

He's a really sweet guy. But now it's been 2 days of silence? Should I phone him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I met a very sweet guy online who I really got on well with. Due to him working abroad we spoke almost everyday for around 2 months before we met. We had our first date just before Christmas and I thought it went really well, we have lots in Comm...

Everyone is telling me to walk away. Should I wait as he asked, until his health improves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I am going through a hard time at the moment with my feelings towards someone special and I don't know what to do for the best. I'm so wrapped up in the situation I can't seem to make sense of it all. To start from the beginning, I have only bee...

Was my disappointed reaction to be expected? He visited a lap dance place after his work Christmas party

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone and merry christmas. so i wanted to ask some advice and opinions off of you. so i met this guy online 3 months ago and we have totally hit it off and we have chatted loads and got on really well and plan to meet up in a couple of w...

How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i ...

What to do? I’m so confused, what is happening between my closest friend and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

24 December 2011 (?) - I met her almost 3 years ago online, and we became best and closest friends. She is with her boyfriend of 5 years. For the first 2 years we were just friends but she would always complain to me about her boyfriend and asked to if it was ok to move ...

Am I right to be confused and cautions about dating a friend who enjoys lewd jokes about naked women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a friend I made through a social networking site. We have known each other for quite long and have phone chats. Now we are thinking of dating but he has a habit of cracking jokes including jokes about porn and sex and naked wo...

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outsi...

Shall I try online dating again? Why do I never seen to get anyhwere with men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I'm worried something is wrong with me. Maybe I'm projecting negativity that repels men. Please help. I'm In my late 20s but everyone upon meeting me thinks I'm 19 to about 22. I'm a little over 5 feet, quite thin but curvy, long thick wavy hair...

Can an online relationship with a pen-pal guy in prison and me a virgin in UK work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I have a prison pen pal, and have been writing for a few months. There is definite connection but last night he asked if we can be in a relationship. I'm in the UK and he is in the US. I am kind of a 'loser' out here in real life. I am 34, still a ...

We're unofficially dating and he's flirting with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating this guy nothing is official yet but I recently found out he has been talking to another girl using the same pick up lines on her as he used on me and been flirty and offering to meet up. Am I making a big deal of this ? Also should I...

Which woman should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I recently had a response from match.com. And shes been interested in me for 2 weeks before we started talking. This is before i got back together with my girlfriend of 5 months. Before her mom was diagnosed with cancer. She has no kids and neve...

Online date turned out to be internet scammer! Any advice on how to deal with this pls??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hi. This is a question for Military wives and women who have met men clainming to be US Army personnel. A few months ago I met a lovely man on a dating site. We got talking and he told me he was on his third tour of Afghanistan and his MOS was ...

I talked to him for 3 months. Then we met. How do I deal with him now that I know he has Anger and emotional issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - This is a bad story... I met a guy and we've been talking for 3 months and I realized he has emotional problems as well as anger problems. Aside from that, I care very much about him. We aren't dating because I needed some time to myself because ...

How do I learn to smile and laugh again after calling it a day on my 3 year relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I have finally plucked up the courage to leave my 3 year old relationship due to his dating site obsession. I have had lies,been blamed,had it turned round on me,been called neurotic and been made to feel bad for not trusting him. Albeit,he still ...

Is this online guy a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

14 December 2011 (?) - Here's the deal. I met this guy online and started talking to him (after a long ordeal of me ignoring him) and we eventually started hitting it off. We have a lot in common, have the same views about life and are physically/intellectually attracted ...

What should I do? My bf is avoiding me after I found his profile on a dating site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

14 December 2011 (F) - Hi My friend saw my bf's profile in dating site few days back and she told me about this yesterday. and i went and checked and saw his profile there, when i asked him about it, he said he's just checking what's out there. Now he has blocked...

Unsure about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hi, im a 21-year old african-american female, i have been dating this guy whom i met online since july, and we have been talking ever since, we spoke online via text for about 2 1/2 months before we actually met each other. When we finally did ...

Was I too harsh on him? Should I move on or reach out to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate advice on my situation. It's difficult to be objective at the moment. I went for a first date with a guy I met online (dating site), we'd only exchanged few emails, it wasn't anything special but I still decided to meet ...

Should I contact him? Is he hinting that he misses me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I have a short term ex I dated for a month and a half. He was very into me: asking me to be exclusive early on, driving multiple times to see me on weekdays (I live a couple hours away from him), buying little gifts for me and for my sister he never ...

My bf is chatting online with girls... should this bother me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has that game word with friends and all these girls chat with him an I read one an a girl said she was layin in bed he could join he didn't say anything bad back he just put lol an what? Should this worry me. Or is it just a guy thing ...

Is he cheating or is his story plausible?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - Please bear with the long description :/ Any reply is much appreciated. I have been in a relationship for 8 months with a guy who looks great on paper. He's a doctor with a prominent position and good reputation in the community. We met online. ...

Any advice on how to overcome shyness and low self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

10 December 2011 (M) - hi, so i fear i have social anxiety , i am very shy , no self confidence in anything i do and very low self esteem and i hate the way i look. i dont go out (besides work mon-fri) ive kinda lost touch with my mates from school. we've all drifted ...

What happened? one minute I don't text enough, now he refuses to answer. Is he a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

10 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here goes I met a man 9 month ago we ended up becoming fwb. Don't know how it just happened, my feelings for him started getting stronger last week. I told him I liked him and wanted to be his girlfriend. I thought he felt the same as ...

I started the relationship for all the wrong reasons and now I am not sure how to go on! help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for 2 years, he's divorced 2 kids. I did not want to date divorced guys with baggage but I couldn't seem to be getting anywhere fast so I went out with him after meeting via internet dating which I started because I hadn't ...

Dating online and he was dishonest. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - hi, so im having a hard time in know what to do in my relationship.. I met this guy on a credible website that he had been on for a few years before i ever joined. lets just say it was a military website...three years later we had taken our ...

Big change since I met the online guy in person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - I met this guy online about three months ago. Our conversations were always super silly and dumb. We never really talked about anything serious like how our days went or stuff like that. His phone service sucks and there's usually always a delay in ...

Dating Sites - Good or Bad?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - Dating Sites..Good or bad? I've got serious doubts on whether dating sites are a good way to meet anyone. I'm not the most outgoing of people and I'm trying to think of a way to get proactive in finding a relationship. (After all, I can't expect M...

He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...

He said I don't text enough. He accused me of seeing someone else. Not true. Now his texts are sporadic. What is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this is the story. I met this man in march he asked me out. I agreed. We saw each other maybe every two or three weeks. He lives six doors away from me. It has been like this since I have been patient with him, but it is starting to ...

I think I like her but I am not sure if she feels the same way. Should I play it cool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi, need some genuine advice. Me late 30s. Met a woman online, slightly older than me, we HAVE NOT been on a date, just met for coffee twice, after each time we said bye "keep in touch". We got along ok,(despite not having heaps of common i...

How do I know if this online guy is real or fake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I live in scotland and have been talking to this guy now, my boyfriend apparently but we've been talking for 7 months and he doesn't like phoning plus we haven't met. Im serious about him but have my doubts that he is a fake. He lives in wales so to ...

He wants to meet me in person, but I am afraid he would not still like me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been communicating with this guy online for about two months, and he has expressed that he wants to meet me in person over the Christmas holiday. I REALLY like him; he seems like a great guy. –But I have two concerns; 1)...

Should I just do what I want and not care what this guy thinks of me afterwards?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - I met this guy online about three months ago. We've been talking since but have never met. He's tried to a couple times but I laughed it off because I had a boyfriend and didn't want to. Well, my boyfriend broke up with me about three weeks ago,...

Boyfriend and facebook issues. Could it be true that it's her fault he dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago. I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl tha...

He said he might like me if he happens to see me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - This guy added me on facebook I had seen him out a couple of times but never spoken to him I knew of one of his friends. To cut a long story short we swapped numbers and had been texting for months. He wanted to know when I would be out again so ...