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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy added me on facebook I had seen him out a couple of times but never spoken to him I knew of one of his friends. To cut a long story short we swapped numbers and had been texting for months. He wanted to know when I would be out again so that he could see me but unfortunately the ocassion he had in mind I wasn't able to make I did however let him know that I was really disappointed that I had missed this oppurtunity. I pretty much admitted that I liked him but felt that these feelings weren't reciprocated he said 'I might like you if I see you out again' but no mention of when this time would be. I even questioned him about this and he seemed unsure. I have been in our local loads since and he hasn't been there when I asked him before why he hadn't been he said his friends hadn't wanted to go. Anyway my point is surely you can't say 'I might like you if I see you again'? I mean either you do or you don't like someone and he has seen me in the flesh 3 or 4 times, surely this is enough to already know?! Fair enough we haven't actually spoken. Is he just stringing me along? It came out after all this had been said that he has just come out of his first serious relationship of two years and isn't looking to get into another. I don't know why he would say all the other stuff first though. We have the most amazing eye contact when we do see each other, probably wishful thinking but it's almost as though he is afraid to admit that they may be something there!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 You need to get to know him face to face. He says maybe because he doesn't actually know how the both of you will get on together, and neither do you, texting someone and having a conversation together is completely different. To me it doesn't sounds like either of you are making a huge effort to make it in to anything serious. To be honest, he has pretty much told you he is just out of a relationship, for now I feel that all he wants is to have a little bit of fun and enjoy being a single lad again. Don't think to much in to this or you may get hurt.
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