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writes:My boyfriend has that game word with friends and all these girls chat with him an I read one an a girl said she was layin in bed he could join he didn't say anything bad back he just put lol an what? Should this worry me. Or is it just a guy thing that all guys do. Reply to this Question
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (13 December 2011):
 Hi just_me_16,
I know you get jealous, and it's normal to feel this way. In this case I think you have nothing to worry about, your boyfriend just enjoys playing the games and chatting with different people. This girl you mentioned, knows him, and is being a little flirt with your boyfriend. Could be that she's just kidding, harmless flirt...
Just know that in the future many girls will approach your boyfriend, flirt with him, knowing he has a girlfriend. It sucks, it's rude, it's disrespectful, but some girls are like that.... These type of girls have no class, they are selfish, and don't respect themselves, so how do you expect them to respect others? So, don't waste your time with negative thoughts.
Always communicate with your boyfriend, tell him that you love him and tell him to always be honest with you... You as a loving girlfriend needs to trust him, don't fight with him, and stop asking questions anymore about this, because he gave you the answers, and you should trust him.
It's the holidays, enjoy, have a great time with him and your family....
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 So other girls are not respectful of your relationship with him, but he isn't the one making the comments. So there is nothing to be jealous of as he isn't giving her special attention. Rather you should be angry at girls who flirts with a man who has a girlfriend (been there, so I know what thats like), but then again just try to be happy about it. Obviously she is pathetic since she makes moves on a guy that is ultimately YOURS. She can't steal him away from you, and her attempt to get attention just says a lot about her neediness.
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reader, just_Me_16 +, writes (12 December 2011):
just_Me_16 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts a game you play on iphones and droids and it a girl he knows from outta town where he use to live..... We have talked about all them girls before he was very popular with the girls. But he promises its nothin like that he loves me but I just get a lil jealous when other girls say stuff to him like that knowin he has a girlfriend.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (12 December 2011):
I wouldn't be worried. You'll find all sorts of people online and just think back on how many times a random man has sent you a picture of his penis. Just because THEY are rude doesn't mean you will get all excited about watching a random mans penis, and the same with your boyfriend.. I don't think a woman joking about getting him in her bed makes him bat an eyelid. He can't be responsible for what other people say, and if he thinks it gets to the point where it is uncomfortable he will leave the game himself.
Girls are way more subjected to sexual contact online than men are. I really can't count the times I've been sent penis-pictures or asked for nude photos, and while it IS rude and inappropriate it is also unwelcome on my part. But I can't help it that people do it... It's just something you learn to filter out so it doesn't ruin the fun of being online.
Remember, he loves you! Some nameless random person claiming to be a woman online is NOT that attractive...! And yes, lots of women online are in fact just another bald man who is bored.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (12 December 2011):
Hi just_me_16,
No, you shouldn't worry.... He said lol... Because he was just being nice. It doesn't mean anything, and you shouldn't get mad at him. I like when you said: lol...what? It's cute, and you are his girlfriend and have the right to be jealous. I mean he chats with a lot of people male/female... Occasionally girls might flirt with him, but it's not his fault, he cannot control what others girls do, and he cannot control their mouths..
I don't blame you for feeling this way, I get angry, jealous when other girls look at my boyfriend, or if they are talking to him and being nice. It is human nature. You have the right to feel this way, and you cannot control your feelings, but don't get mad, (ok little mad) but don't argue or fight with him over these things...
Happy holidays!
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 I'm not exactly sure of what sort of game you mean. Is it an online game? Or a chat room?
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