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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Met in a chatroom and now I can't find him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - hello, I don't know what to do ??!! ok.. last summer I found this guy online who I really liked, we were talking in a chatroom and we just had the same ideas about like everything !!and I couldn't believe that I was creating a relationship online. ...

I want our first date to be something nice, not clubbing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - ive been talking to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. hes sweet.. we have some laugh together..hes on holiday at the moment and he calls me from there. does that sound like he really likes me? he wants us to meet up.. but he asked me ...

Do you think he hates me for all the stupid mistakes I've made?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - this is a relatively long question/story, just warning you. In December of last year, I started visiting a chatroom especially for the iPod touch. I was pretty bored, telling people I was 17, and I'm 14 was 13 then. I did not have pics, since...

Would it be stupid to start something with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Met this boy online. I'm falling for him but he lives about a hour away from me. Neither of us can drive and I haven't even met him yet. Would it be stupid to start something with him? Or can this actully be the start of something amazing?...

What to do with a three-year online relationship punctuated by a handful of real-life meetings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - There's a part of me that's just shaking my head at the fact that I'm posting a question like this. I am very, very aware of the whole wishful thinking element involved. By the same token, I'm also aware of the fact that people that I click with are ...

Promises she makes to me often get broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - wel this is serious i belong from a conservative family and i m in love with a girl who lives far away from me, we never met b4 in person and we hv been in to this for 3years. we both put a lot of efforts for this relation and i hv been thr...

I'm nervous about meeting my online friend, should I meet up or hold off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I've been talking to this guy online for a couple of days and we text and stuff and we've seen each others pictures and I've seen him on webcam and I like him and he says he likes me and wants to meet up but Im kind of nervous about meeting up with ...

I can't have her I want her and yet I've never met her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I dont know how to approch this and i dont expect an answer but here goes... So names Edi(alias) and i met a girl on the internet. well, met on an online game. at first it was just commradery, then friendship. we talked a lot, about life, frie...

Cyber cheated... Now my wife hates me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - I did a really really stupid thing and cyber cheated on my wife, I met a girl through a chat room and for 3 months we sent dirty emails to each other and spoke on the phone a dozen times and emailed pictures of our privates to each and pictures of ...

What's up with the "What's up" texting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy on facebook (we have tons of mutual friends and he thought he had met me and added me..but we never have met). We started talking a lot back and forth and it was a lot of getting to know you stuff. I gave him my number and he texts me ...

Can't get her off my mind. What is this all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - I am over 50. Married for over 25 yrs. A stranger approached me on a flight. She wanted to sit in unoccupied seat on my row,she was sitting one row back. She was talkative, possibly looking for a husband, she's divorced with 3 kids. E- mail r...

Am I just fooling him and myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I've met a guy on some social networking site. We have corresponded over that SNS, then later we've moved onto the messenger. Since then, we've chatted almost everyday. Before I get to the gist of my narrative, I'll give you first a brief ba...

Is he just scared to show his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - I've been seeing someone casually, for about 5 months now, we met on an online dating agency, we agreed that we would carry on seeing each other for fun, as after a couple of dates he told me he was going travelling, which I was quite upset ab...

Should I have sex with ANY guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - should i have sex with any guy. i am always horny and i am always chanting online with guys and it always end up with we talking about sex should i hook up with this guy....

We talk a lot but does he like me more than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I really like this lad that i've known for like a year, we was sort of seein each other last year but then i moved and we didnt see as much as each other and it faded out. We recently started talking to each other in the past two months but onlin...

Should I invest everything for this girl or have a back up plan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 December 2009 (M) - okay..so i have fallen madly in love with this other girl on the internet. im 20 and she is 17. from the first chat,things just flowed and its gotten to a ridiculously sweet level that it scares me! we havent talked on the phone yet as she lives far ...

She lives 50 miles away bit thinks I'm to smothering

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Ok, I met this girl online about 2 months ago and we hit it off and started dating. She lives 50 miles away. She works during the week and has weekends off so I try to go up on the weekends. We are VERY into each other and have already agreed to get ...

She thinks she loves me but we've never met and I'm just not feeling it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - There's this girl I'm friends with. We've been friends for a while now but never met because she lives in a different country from me. We talk on the phone alot and have become really close. She tells me that she loves me, I'm the first boy to treat ...

He didn't want to be with me because of distance, but now has a long distance girlfriend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I started talking to this guy on the internet a few years ago and we've gotten really close, though we've not met in person. We've always flirted etc but lately we just got closer and shared how we really feel for each other. However, he said...

Should I leave my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hello all I am writing because I do not know what to do about my relationship. I met a lovely girl, actually on a dating website (which was new to me). We have now been together for around 5 months. The relationship is for the most par...

How do I spoil him so he never wants another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - I have been going through an, at times, very unpleasant divorce over the last 4 years after 22+ years of mostly happy marriage. I began to think I would spend the rest of my life on my own and then a friend convinced me to try a dating site aimed ...

Can someone stay 30 minutes before he cum during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 December 2009 (M) - dear cupid, i want to ask this question because am not comfortable with it. i had phone sex with my girl friend who i met on the internet. we shared pictures and known each other well but we haven't see face to face. she's not a virgin and also am ...

I told my net lover I'm a larger cup-size and now he wants to meet me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, Im 24 and i met an amazing guy in a chatroom and we hit it off right away.We had great chemistry from the start.Although it was all cybersex i didnt even realise he'd fall for me the way he did. He writes me the most romantic messages...

Is he lying about breaking up with his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) - So I met a guy on a dating site. We talked for like 12 hours on AIM the other day. I didn't find out til I was talking to him for a while that he was still in a relationship. His myspace said he was, but the dating site said he was single. He said ...

What do I do about this online, long distance guy that just wants friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I like this guy so much that I'm jealous. :( I've known this guy for a a year and he's helped me through so much, he's like a best mate, the only problem is that he lives in Edinburgh which is 200 miles away from me, a few months ago we started ...

Should I tell my online friend I like him even though he has mental issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have a good friend in Canada who I met online a few years ago. I would have to say he's one of my best friends, and as I've gotten to know him, I sort of developed a crush. Problem is, he's Canadian, and I'm American. He's 27 and I'm 18. He also ...

My younger brother is caught up in an online relationship with an older woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - My brother is a really shy guy who doesn't like to go out much. He is a cutie pie and I wish he could be around more girls cause he has the looks. He is just too shy for his own good. Well, lately he has been talking to a woman online who I am ...

I met him on a dating site, now he has deleted his a/c I am worried about him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - A few years ago I joined a dating site for fun. One day, bored out of my mind, I had a look at my matches. One guy (an older guy) in particular seemed pretty interesting so I sent him a message. We had a great chat and soon we were on MSN winding ...

No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I ...

He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hi Aunties! How are you? It's been a while since I've been on here, a lot has happened since last time I came on here. I broke up with the boyfriend that had me dazed and confused. But moving on to my question. I have been single for probably ...

I haven't been able to contact my online g/f for a few months, I think she is cheating on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - For the past few months my girlfriend and I have lost contact. I've not been able to get hold of her at the best or worst of times with the constant reasoning that she's sleeping. I do understand some people have sleeping problems, however I call ...

Should I break up with him, even if I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend last January by internet. We become a couple in the first date. After three weeks he broke up with me. One moth later i had to move to another country. After that we started to communicate by e-mail, until we end up being a c...

I don't think online dating ever works..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Well I'll start. I don't Believe in Online Dating but I met a REALLY AWESOME girl and we talk, we webcam. and for a while we were just really good friends! and then she became distant, and when she came back she flat out told me she LIKES me. I...

She fell in love with the person I was pretending to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I pretended to be someone I wasn't online and a girl fell in love with me. At first i was just messing about because I was bord but then it was like I couldn't stop. The girl started to fall in love with the person I was pretending to be. She even ...

I want to date her but don't want to ruin the friendship in case she declines

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 4 years ago. But we never really spoke properly until about a year ago. For the last year, we have spoke basically every single day, sometimes for up to like 12 hours, but the problem is all this takes place on MSN and not in ...

Childish by nature

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy off of a dating website (strike 1 on me) in February of this year. We went on a date, hit it off, talked for a couple of days and then I didnt hear from him again for about a week. He informed me that his exgirlfriend of 9 months had ...

Should I drop this guy or give him chance to explain and make things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I met on a intenet dating site. We kicked it really good and I have never met anyone like him. He has told me that he has cheated once before in the past and lost his marraige and everything because of it and he would never do ...

How could you be sure of your sexuality if you never had any indication towards the same sex before an online encounter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - I am confused and upset. I had a chat a while back that has really been ingrained in my head. I had a chat with another guy. At first I thought the guy was joking so I joked around back being a smart a$$, but became aroused and the rest is h...

How can I keep her from getting mad at stupid things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a half and its getting stressful since it is a long distance relationship. We get along really well and I really do love her, but she gets angry at me for the smallest and stupidest things and it ...

Should I send him a text or just wait and see?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I met a guy about a month and a half ago online through a dating website. He was on TDY when we started sending emails back and forth. We did this back and forth about a 1 and 1/2 and I didn't hear from him for about 2 weeks after that. I assumed ...

I don't know if I can face sex yet

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: Age states 13, but poster stated he is 15. Okay, theres this guy...lets call him Tom. Tom and I have been talking online for about two months, recently we admitted we have feelings for each other. Now, he is 18 and I'm 15, we are plann...

Do girls demand money from you when you are dating? And can you fall for someone you have never met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1: I need a relationship wit a girl... I can have one... Because i dont have... So is it true you cant get a girlfriend if dont have money... Am afraid they mig...

We met online, never face to face, I want to ask him out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy on the internet, and we've talked pretty much every day for the last month. I've suggested that we meet up a couple of times, but we've actually never made concrete plans. He's a pretty busy guy, in quite a high pressure ...

I have no trust in him, he's been flirting with girls on dating sites again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 yr a couple of months at the beginning i found out the was on dating sites flirting with girls on the net and i asked him about it he said he wouldn't do it again and now i found out hes been doing it again what ...

Why did he suddenly stop contact with me after being so polite and so nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a man I met through a dating site, we clicked right away because we have the same goals. He treated me with respect and always sent greetings to my parents. He was actually talking about marriage after 8 days of dating. He ...

How could someone so polite and nice suddenly change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

Internet dating advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello all, Apparently all the cool kids are dating online now, and I thought I might give it a try. There are a few guys who I would like to contact (my account is private, so no one can contact me without me contacting them first). However,...

This MSN guy says he wants to have sex with me and we've just met!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - If this sounds a little weird, I've just gotten out of a difficult relationship so I'm paranoid about new guys ha. I started talking to a guy on msn 2-3 days ago and he lives near me but we haven't met, the thing is that he says he REALLY likes ...

How can I ask her out without it being weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Last summer was my last term at university and during that time I met a girl in one of my classes who I kind of ended up having feelings for but never made a move. She's still in school and I'm not so I don't see her anymore and the ...