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writes:Hi Aunties!How are you? It's been a while since I've been on here, a lot has happened since last time I came on here. I broke up with the boyfriend that had me dazed and confused. But moving on to my question. I have been single for probably 1 month now. Recently I met this guy on a gay dating site about a week ago. I jokingly told him he should come visit me to see the snow, since he had told me it's been 8 years since he last seen snow. This guy is probably the cutest, most adorable, most coolest person I have talked to in a while... Anyway, I have been thinking about him a lot in the past few days. I am just so excited to see him soon and cant wait. What I am wondering is if it's too quick to have thoughts about someone? I mean it hasn't even been a week since we've started talking and we're already making plans about seeing each other and for me to visit him on my spring break next year. Let me know!!!Once again I'm a bit confused... I've never done something so drastic...
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (13 January 2010):
Hey... if you both think that it sounds like something that you WANT to do... why not? I mean the only way you really find out if he's someone you really want to date... is by meeting. I would invite him for just a weekend though. You may find that a week is a bit too long - especially if he turns out not to be the Mr. Right that you might be imagining.
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reader, honeyross  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Why not? If both of you enjoy each chatting to each other and think you might enjoy each other's company there is no problem.
You should think about a few things and prepare yourself emotionally, though. When we break up with people we feel lonely and vulnerable and the company of others (even if it's not ideal or even healthy) seems better than it would under normal circumstances. We all need sex but at times of vulnerability it's easy to confuse sex and love.
As long as you are aware that you will eventually need more time and space to heal and that this new guy won't necessarily be Mr Right, you'll be ok. Good luck, and enjoy.
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