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female
age
36-40,
*hisisrightnow
writes:So I met a guy on a dating site. We talked for like 12 hours on AIM the other day. I didn't find out til I was talking to him for a while that he was still in a relationship. His myspace said he was, but the dating site said he was single. He said he was planning on being single again shortly, so that's why it said single. He kept asking me if he became single soon, if I'd consider him. He kept telling me how he wanted to kiss me, cuddle with me, etc. I asked him when he was gonna break the news to her. He said tomorrow. He did not. He said that she said he may be a father soon. I think that was a lie on the girls part, cause her status on myspace said something about not wanting to lose him, so I think she made that up so he wouldn't break up with her. He said they had been talking about breaking up. My question is, why would a guy sit there and tell me how he wants to be with me and all of that if he has no intentions of breaking up with her? I don't know, maybe he was going to. He kept telling me stuff like how he likes my eyes and kept talking about how it was a mistake to be with his girlfriend cause they want different things. At one point I told him about my ex contacting me and he told me that I deserve so much better. Then he added, "Not gonna lie. I want to get closer to you. Obviously"I'm just confused at this guy's behavior.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Hes probably not sure about you he make like you so he thinks but he hasnt actually met you yet if he has a gf atleast shes a sure thing. I suggest getting off his back about if he breaks up with her and you two dont hit it off he has no one. Dont focus on his Gf keep your eyes open on the dating sceen and you need to step your game up with this guy you can meet up and get to kno him start going on dates and see what hes all about what ever you do dont sleep with him for a long time untill he done with this other girl and your sure you can trust him. he might be a nice guy your gonna have to get to kno him to see.
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