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Should I drop this guy or give him chance to explain and make things right?

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Question - (11 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ittleredbug writes:

My boyfriend and I met on a intenet dating site. We kicked it really good and I have never met anyone like him. He has told me that he has cheated once before in the past and lost his marraige and everything because of it and he would never do that again. But this morning I recieved a message from a girl he slept with at sometime before we met. I am guessing she made a fake profile and sent him a mess telling him she wanted to hook up. He responded with yeah drinks would be great here is my number this will be easier than chatting back and forth. So make things short he knows I know and I sitll dont know what to do. this guy told me yesterday he was inlove with me then turns around and emails another girl back with his number.

Should I drop this guy the only guy I have ever felt this way about or give him a chance to explain and make things right. P.S. I am 28 and have been in a serious relationship before so I know what i am feeling is more than just lust. I really do love him more than I can explain. so please dont treat this like it is high school love.

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A female reader, sphinx United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2009):

why dont you just take it easy hun and enjoy, stop stressin out about what someone else told you and why did she let you know in first place??? sometimes people can be attracted to more then a one person, nothing is black and white in life. give him time and see how you both feel. things will work out

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