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writes:If this sounds a little weird, I've just gotten out of a difficult relationship so I'm paranoid about new guys ha.I started talking to a guy on msn 2-3 days ago and he lives near me but we haven't met, the thing is that he says he REALLY likes me and he seems really really attached to me, he told me he's a virgin and has never had a girlfriend either. This is freaking me out, he hasn't met me, I've just been speaking to him like a normal person so I dunno why he likes me. The other thing is, he's 20 and hasn't had a girlfriend, but he seems really nice so there must be something wrong with him. :( I just don't want to get into another bad relationship. Like he's saying he wants me to be his first! We JUST met? Am I just being paranoid or should the warning signs be going off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): I would really suggest just blocking this guy.
Why is a guy of 20 not looking for girls his own age? He is most likely a guy that goes out of his way looking for younger girls he can manipulate because any girls his own age would see him for what he is - a creep.
I really hope you don't do anything with this guy or any guy like him. Especially because you havent met, he could use you for sex and never call again and at worst he could attack you or force you into things you aren't comfortable with. You dont know this guy so anything is possible. Take care of yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 December 2009):
This is a good reason to avoid him for the rest of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Yes, the warning signs are going off loud and clear.
You don't know anything at all about this person that you met on MSN. Do not agree to meet him in person and stop talking to him.
Anyone that tells you that they want to have sex with you after just talking to you a few times on line is an internet predator. Virgin my ass, he has done this plenty of times before. He is a creep....stop talking to him.
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