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writes:Hey everyone,Last summer was my last term at university and during that time I met a girl in one of my classes who I kind of ended up having feelings for but never made a move. She's still in school and I'm not so I don't see her anymore and the only time we communicate at all is online. I could get her phone number from her site but what I wanted to know is how could I ask her out without it being weird?Thanks for any help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, very helpful advice!
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reader, Sparklegirl  +, writes (5 December 2009):
How often do you talk to this girl online and how well do you actually know her? Those are two things that would help answer the question on if it would be weird or not! I'm not sure how close you still live to the university, but what I would do is just figure out something fun that is going on at the school that is open to anyone to come (like a basketball game or concert or something) .....then when you talk to her next time online, Tell that you might go to this event at school this day. ......Then just simply say "hey, it would be fun to maybe meet up!" ......If she doesn't have any plans already, i am guessing, she wouldn't say no. This is an easy way because either 2 things could happen .... either she goes with some other people and you just run into her there or maybe she would even just go with you! Either way it gets things started. If you still feel like this would be odd...you could always bring a bud for some man support! lol If you really want her number and she gives off big hits that she would go... you could ask for her number, so you could call her when you get there. That way your not just asking for her number straight forward!Yea this is my idea and you don't have to did it this way. There are other ways of doing it too! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Hi there
I don't think it is weird at all, you speak online so it won't come out of the blue when you contact her! I think if you had left uni and never made contact since then it'd be slightly odd.
So don't be afraid, ask her out and at least you won't worry away your time always thinking "what if...?"
Maybe send her a text saying "Hi how r u? just thought it'd be cool to meet one day and catch up, would you like to come out saturday for lunch?"
Asking her out in the middle of the day makes it feel like a more relaxed arrangement and hopefully she'll agree. It will give you a chance to chat. If it goes well take her out in the evening the next time for a movie or whatever you'd both enjoy.
Hope all goes well.
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