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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband said he was only on the dating site to look at the pictures

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I found out my husband had been going on hookup/dating sites. He claimed he was using photos for masturbation vs going to porn sites. At first he lied and denied it at all. He said he didn't know how those sites got on his phone. (And I found them ...

It seems like my wife is supportive only when times are good

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 October 2013 (M) - recently I have been in a lot of stress because of work, and I'm kind of depressed, I don't know how long its been like this, and now this is affecting my marriage we fight a lot and sometimes I feel that she is my friend only when everything is ok, ...

Is this marriage bad enough to justify my leaving?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Long story, but here goes. I am a 21 year old Indian woman who had an arranged marriage to the (34-y/o)man of my dreams. Or so I thought. To give some background,I am an attractive woman who was very used to getting lots of male attention. Some...

I followed my husband to his country, but a temporary stay now seems to be permanent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - 1 year after dating a foreign man, I followed him back to his home country. For 6 months I learned about his culture and language before returning to the US to finish my degree. We were long distance for 1 year, after which we decided we couldn't...

I have 3 small children and want to leave my abusive husband but don't know how to do so!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - My husband (who is now 29) and I (I am now 24) met when I was 18 and he was 23. We've been together ever since. We got married 18 months after we met because I was six months pregnant. After I gave birth, my husband went from sappy, overly romantic ...

Affair turned bad and now I don't know how to cope and be a good mom to my kids

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I had an affair with a man I met in April 2010.... He lives 3000 miles away but we talked and texted every day often for hours each day... We also met for get always several times.... We both declared the other was the love of our life and hoped one ...

My husband forgot my birthday again, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - What should I do? I really have no idea. My husband forgot my birthday last year and demanded that I come up with what to do to get him "in the clear". He once again forgot my birthday this year. I was devastated. I was out of town but he had known ...

I don't know if this is love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4044 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I have been marriaged for 12 years and I moved to another part of the country because of my husband. No friends,only his freinds and family. My family was far away from me,so I saw them once a year. I made some friends but nothing serious. At the ...

Can't get over my husband's confession of being "obsessed" by another woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - Can't get over my husband's confession of being "obsessed" by another woman. A couple of months ago, a close female friend of ours confessed to my husband that she was in love with him and wanted to have a physical affair too (all in the same conv...

My husband told me he was in love with another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - I do not know where to even go with this. My husband and his step-sister sat me down and informed me that they have been in love for over 30 years and that they would be together right now except they promised her dad that they would not. My ...

I feel like he rejected me when I most needed him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 807 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - I have sexually lost interest in my husband of three years. I find his touch annoying. We have had our share of problems. Am suddenly remembering all the past hurt and just get turned off. One of them is that when we were dating, he made me beg for ...

When a guy says he wont get married as it's just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a losing battle?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - This is for the guys on here if you don't mind helping. When a guy says he wont get married as its just a piece of paper and ring, then says maybe in 5 years, will he ever get married to me or am I fighting a loosing battle? I love him so m...

I am a very professional, very good looking woman in a high-powered job, and I have a lot going for me in my life....but I can't seem to stop cheating on my husband!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

20 October 2013 (F) - I can't seem to stop cheating on my husband. I cheated on him before he and I were even married, and I've cheated on him after we were married, and am still cheating on him. I cheat on him with one of my current co-workers on occasion. The co...

My husband just left me for a younger woman

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - i am feeling like a total fool. i was informed last night that my husband of 23 years wants a divorce, he has a baby by a girl that is 24 years old and she is expecting another one by him again... yes you read this right the baby she just had is 4 ...

The hair therapy girl is sexually provocative and hitting on my husband.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - I love my husband so much, today we for hair therapy this pretty provocative girl comes n hate that my hubby got amused by her beaty i felt bad insecure n ugly plus im over weight. The girl so tall slim n high heels pretty hair n body i was so dammm ...

I´d like to have an oppinion on this guilt manipulation that I am sure about.Thanks.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - 10 years of marriage and I always though my husband was the most amazing,wonderful, caring, and fair person on the face of this planet. I see know how blind I was,but in a way I was happy. For 4 years now I am dealing with depression because I lost ...

At first all was well in our marriage, but now I'm a lonely, lost lady as I have to be and do what he thinks is the best for the marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Dear aunty. I'm a young lady who is in late 20's and I got married at the age of 20 as a second wife to my husband who is 13 years older than me. At the beggining all was well but now I fell ...

I feel like being with him just makes life harder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Hello, It's me again. I feel at my wits end! My husband still has no job. I feel like I am in this marriage by myself! Relationships are supposed to help your life, not make it harder. I feel like being with him makes my life much harder. I get no ...

I wouldn't sign the pre-nuptual agreement, so now he wants a post-nup

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - Husband wanted us to sign prenuptials(stating that in the event of a divorce, everyone will walk away with what they had prior to the marriage.) before we got married 2 year ago. I refused though he vehemently asked for it. Well, he has requested ...

We havent had sex and its been 3 months since we married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - i m 24 year old and my husband is of 30 age . we have just complete 3 months from marriage and we didn't have sex yet?...

Should I have an affair with my married colleague?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

15 October 2013 (M) - I recently ended up kissing a women I work with after a night out. It shouldn't be a problem, only she is married. We have always had great chemistry and she has made no secret of her liking me--I guess you could say she is a cougar or whatever. She ...

I need some guidance about my husband's behaviour. I feel I can't trust him anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - I've been married for 14 years and my husband started behaving different with me since 2 years. First of all he has many woman friends, and he is always on the phone, skype, and FB with them. Last year a female friend of him thanked me on my FB page ...

Does my husband take revenge by flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - My husband flirts with other girls...Acc to him nothing wrong in it.am the one who think inappropriate...I love him a lot.for this behavior am feeling very angry..till now. He did not do any mistake...but. If. He really loves me,why would he ...

My wife removes her wedding ring when she is mad at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - I love my wife very much and we have 3 beautiful children together. Throughout our relationship – we have had ups and downs but I feel our love is strong. But she has bouts of anger that I have always had trouble really figuring out. 2 weeks...

Married, open relationship, and now divorce?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

10 October 2013 (M) - I need you guys opinions, please. Here's my situation: My wife and I knew each other since for about 8 years. We got married on 2011 so it would be almost 2 years of marriage. We both agreed on having an open relationship as long as in the end we w...

I'm an unhappily married man with two small children and I'm wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

9 October 2013 (M) - hi everyone. im an unhappily married man with two small children.im wondering if anyone has any experience staying with someone they don't love for their kids sake? my wife has a short temper and can stay angry for weeks about things without e...

I've become the maid and babysitter in my house because of the way my wife now acts. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

7 October 2013 (M) - i am 35 and my wife is 30 we have been married a year but together almost 6 years. we have sex maybe 1-2 times ever other month. before that about 1 year ago it was 1-3 times amonth, we have a son together and her 8 yr old daughter whom believes im ...

Is it wrong for me to think that I can't be with a cross dresser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - I have known my husband for 34 years, we have been together for 13 years, 8 of them married. He recently told me he was interested in wearing women's clothing. At first I didn't know what to say, I was very confused. Then I cried a lot and tried to ...

I have lost attraction to my wife since she gained a lot of weight.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

5 October 2013 (?) - Hi i have a problem,my wife is fat she has put on weight,I requested, advised her to decrease her weight, but she not taking any step to do it,due to this i am annoyed how shall i tell her that i am not able to manage my sexual intercourse, i don't ...

Should I tell her that he's a cheater, or just leave their relationship alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - what would you do if you had a friend who married someone twice her age, got pregnant, had the baby, got married to the guy, got pregnant two months after the baby was born, and see that the guy has liked a page on his facebook called add me adult ...

How can I confront my mother-in-law without hurting her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now with 3 beautiful children, he is the only son and he's 34 years old. His mom is 54 years old and she still treats him like he's 15 and she's still trying to control him and make decisions for ...

No love after dirty talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - I feel I have to explain this first part for the story to make sense. Growing up, I was very sheltered from anything sex. Never spoken about, if someone as much as kissed on tv, it was turned and the my mom would go "eww that's disgusting, why ...

How can I regain my body confidence and make my husband find me sexy again after giving birth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - I've been with my husband for 5 years and we have a 13 week old daughter together. I have a real big problem with sex since I've had my daughter I feel disgusting and so ugly! I've lost the baby weight but my stomach looks gross saggy, ...

My selfish husband doesn't turn me on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 3 years together for 5 and we have a 3 month old baby together. I'm finding I'm just into my hubby as sexually anymore I still find him very attractive but when we get down to sex it's so boring! I don't ge...

Should I worry that she wants to get herself off after sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

1 October 2013 (M) - I'm 36, I've been married to my wife for 3 years and we never had any big sex-related problem or issue. Since a few months ago I started noticing that she was not satisfied anymore after we were done in bed. Not that she would tell me before, but ...