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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Two men - Should I go with my head or my heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I am confused. I need to choose between two men. This is not an easy decision. My husband has been out of the country for 2 1/2 years and I haven't seen him in one year.Over time we have lost communication(more on his part I would talk and t...

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not ...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

My husband has cheated in the past, being dishonest now, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his ...

How to diffuse a wife who screams and yells when she is mad???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - What is the best way to deal with a wife who starts yelling, slamming doors, saying nasty mean things every time we argue? My wife never used to be this way, but in the last couple of years her temper is just escalating. I guess she feels it is ...

What can I do to believe and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok I am lost and in a daze right now. I found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year. The one girl had a baby recently and said its my husbands but its possible its someone elses. I also found out he was seeing her and talking on ...

In Search of Truth

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I'm in a situation that is driving me insane. My wife of 6 1/2 years says that she has only had sex with 3 men in her life; a high school boyfriend, her ex-husband, and me. Following her divorce she dated a guy that I now work with (they proba...

Is it normal to find your husband looking at other naked men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Is it normal to find your husband looking at other naked men, in provocative way on internet, and find myself am I married to a closet case? Sex is good, when I initiate, due to medications he is at times unable to finish performance...

We are having an affair and she feels guilty for cheating on her hubby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I am 24 and she is 28 and married. We had a strong relationship and her husband works out of country. She hasn't met him in two years. We started as friends and became very close. It all happened on our road trip to another city while returning. S...

Do you women think this could have happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...

Her fantasies turn me off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - My wife and I have had some very serious problems for the past couple of years and have been going to a therapist. I want to be cooperative, but I admit also to wanting to learn more about my wife's clandestine behavior that led I believed to our ...

How can I win my husband back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, ...

I have been married for less than 2 months and we are talking about divorce. Can you advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been married for only a 1 1/2 and we are already talking about divorce. We argue all the time, lately he complains about the way I kiss him while having sex. At times I feel that he does not wants to kiss me or touch me. I have the feeling ...

Husband cheated and staying in the marriage only for the kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My husband cheated on me and he is staying in our marriage because of the kids only and he thinks maybe later his feelings for me will come back. He said his affair is over but they still communicate but says they dont cross the line anymore. Weve ...

How can I gain my husband's trust back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have been married for a year and a few months. I would never cheat on him, but I made a wrong choice. After I found out that he was talking with another girl and was hiding it from me, I ...

Caught wife in internet affair, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - A year ago my wife started acting strange, up all hours on the internet, distant, etc. She started getting angry all the time and twice left me and the kids and went and spent the night in a hotel due to "being mad". One afternoon I was at the hou...

I'm having trouble coping with my sons' drug addictions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - How can I be happy, when 2 of my son is a drug addict,and can die any time? I'm going for counseling , and they are keep saying, that is not my fault, and I should be living my own life, because it is his problem not mine.. I know , we gave ...

I love him but just don't want to be with him anymore...i need advice...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Please help!! I am 23 years old and have been married for 2years. My husband is 16years older than and at first everything was rosey! He used to drink but lately it seems he has to have alchol every night, he has between 8 and 10 cans a nigh...

How can I get my husband to want to have sex with me more often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - how to make my husband do sex with me more and how to make him keep an eye on me and want to do sex more often? as he dont even talk about sex. as i remember he is so sexy and always will keep watching sex movies in his mobile but he dont have my ...

My husband found out I am not a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - sir,,i got a mistake,my problem is that my husband got on first night that i am not virgin girl.what can i do....

Sexual problems In third year marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title: I have been married for three years now I have two daughters, one is 20 months and the second one is only four months. Our first year married was awesome, we went out, we had fun, we made love often, even more than twic...

Why isn't my husband looking for a job to pay off his bills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - i think i made a mistake getting married. how stupid could i be? i own my own home, have a great job; we dated for 16 years. after the marriage, i rented out my house and moved in with him. i discovered he had a box full of credit card bills and ...

How can I be happy in my marriage ,if my husband doesn't care for sex/?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - How can I be happy in my marriage ,if my husband doesn't care for sex/? Am I selfish to think, sex is very important for a good bound? What can I do,if he is no longer sexual at all? Like none. And I feel cheated, because, Im attractive, ...

I love my husband but am falling for someone I met

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - ok so iv been with my husband 6 years married for 2.. i recently went out of town and met someone... i didnt mean for it to be more than a one nightstand but we spent 4 wounderful days together now that im home... i cant stop thinking bout this ...

How can I get him to see how nasty he is when depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Mod note: OP'S own title: My partner gets very down and can be very nasty about simple things. I mentioned that I would like to take my son, 12, camping for a couple of nights. He started telling us off and saying how ridiculous this was and how ...

Am I wrong for wanting to know??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Ok so to it keep short...my husband has never really trusted me due to me cheating on him before we got married. We've been married 9yrs now and I have been faithful. Recently he told me that a source of his told him that I have ...

My husband doesn't find me attractive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly four years and were together a year before that; my husband is 32 and I'm 25. In most aspects of our lives we are happy together - alot of things seem to be falling into place recently. But unfortunat...

How can I be more attractive to my husband when he is so stressed with work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - can anybody help me i want to be attractive to my husband, as he dont do sex with me now already 1month. he is working in a pressure company as CEO of the transportation company with 2000 people under him always pressure and he's always busy with ...

Your honest opinion but being open minded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Hi this may be some what long and may not happen often but I have to ask you guys how do you feel about the situation im going to talk about. First of I got married to my childhood love at the age of 18. He was my world and had drea...

So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...

Is his job affecting his libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hi Can you please help me win my husband back as we love each other a lot? but nowadays he is not with me totally lost he never keep attention on me nor he sleeps with me why? i know his work has alot of pressure as he is CEO of the transportation ...

Thoughts of her having the affair are driving me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Three years ago my wife had an affair with a married man and it has absolutely destroyed my life. We had what I thaught was a wonderful live with five great kids. I was unable to forgive my wife of twenty two years for hurting me so much even after ...

What happened to the loving man I married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My husband swears he is not having an affair, so why does he get defensive and over react to everything I say.? He also avoids making love, and recently has stopped even giving me a 'cuddle' when I ask for one.When I try to talk seriously to him ...

So many lies and cheating going on! Is it even worth it to stay with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My wife keeps filling me in about things she has done in her past as we go along in our marriage. Each time she hits me with something it is shocking to me and I do not know how to react, and then she throws a fit saying she can't trust me with the ...

Married with feelings for another man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Help....I'm married but have feelings for another guy....we used to be friends awhile back....he was there for me when my husband told me he wanted a divorce....but a month later I decided to give my marriage a 2nd try...now he has been avoiding me ...

Improving my husband's sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello, this is a question about my relationship with my husband. How can we improve my husband's sex drive? We have been together for nine years and married for seven. The first two years of dating were fun and sex was great. It was s...

Wife's weight is becoming an issue...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I'm having a hard time figuring out what, if anything, to do or say about the situation with my wife and her weight. We're in our mid to late 30s. When we met about 5 years ago, we were well-matched. Both around the same height (I'm 5'9", she's...

We have onlý been married for 9 months and I feel like we already need to seek help!

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26 July 2010 (F) - Married my husband after 2 1/2 yrs of dating (also dated in Highschool for 1 1/2 yrs). He and I are opposites in every way shape and form. It's starting to get hard to deal with because we have VERY LITTLE in common. I ask him to grocery shop with ...

My soon to be ex wife wants us to be friends and have sex...but part of me thinks it is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My soon to be ex wife has very firmly indicated she wants to have sex with me and keep me as her fuck buddy while she is single and has "the need". The irony of this is, she almost never asked for sex during our marriage, and in fact, the lack of ...

Questions about sex and our marriage....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - hi everybody.; 1. tell me what is masterbating? i am 6 years married and have 5 years baby...1 year ago a miscarriage and d.n.c. .;..now we want baby but alas....i always enjoy sex but my husband come soon and cannot have orgasm.;some people s...

Wife wants to leave because of no attraction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My wife of 2 years (together for 7) has lost her attraction to me over the course of 2 weeks. I have always done everything for her, been very attentive, the sex is great and i've never done anything to hurt her. She went on an education trip to ...

Why do I feel like my husband doesn't want to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - hi, i am over tense as i feel my husband dont like to make sex with me can you please help me understand this? is this because i am not attracted to him? or any other reason? he dont even touch till we have sex nor he feels like touching me nor say ...

How do I know if I satisfy my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - How did i know that my wife is satisfied with my penis .what is the activities of a girl when she is satisfied during sex....

WHY does he flirt and talk dirty? I give him all the sex and love he needs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I give my husband all the sex and love he needs, but for some reason he always flirts and talks dirty to mutual friends, family members and w/ me all the time. His topics are always about sex, please help me to understand WHY?????...

My marriage and my husband are boring me to pieces, what can I do, give up??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My God. The boredom I am feeling these days is unrelenting. Well - I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and we dated for 10 months before that. We were BEST OF FRIENDS and we got along famously. I've had better bedbuddies - but I ...

I need help with my marriage, too many changes. any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am experiencing some extremely ridiculous conflict with my husband, and am deeply confused by this, perhaps because it is a very odd argument. So, I would appreciate some insight. Thanks in advance. My husband and I have always had a roller coa...

He's brought up having a threesome with a woman. Only he's already had a threesome with her and his exwife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - So i just moved in with my boyfriend of over a year, and we have a fantastic sexual chemistry. We have talked about having a threesome. Over the weekend he was approached by a friend of his, she asked about having a threesome with us. So he told me ...

Can men stay without having sex with their wives for 3 to 4 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - can you please tell me can men stay for a long time i mean like 3 or 4 weeks without having sex with his wife? is this true can man stay without touching his wife for more than 3 weeks as my husband never keep attention on me why is that? is that ...

I want another dog but he said "no" with a load of silly reasons!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hello I really don't know where to start but I'll try my husband is an only child and I'm not sure if this is where the problem is I can have anything I want materialistaly but any thing else is a no no we did try for a baby without sucsess and now ...

I only seem able to have an orgasm in one position. Why is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi, Can you please tell me why, when i have sex with my husband i feel excited when i face him and my clitoris touchs his penis? If we do different styles eg: a dog style he will be behind me but i cant orgasm, i cant end my excitement in any othe...