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writes: How can I be happy in my marriage ,if my husband doesn't care for sex/?Am I selfish to think, sex is very important for a good bound?What can I do,if he is no longer sexual at all? Like none.And I feel cheated, because, Im attractive, and deserving attention. My pride is making this worst. If I would be unattractive , I could say, well, I still have a husband who is her for me, what I should be really grateful. I can see, there are some really bad guys outhere, leaving the biggest mess behind. So ,I should be grateful, that he is here, for paying bills, help me if im sick etc. He is a good man, and I have no reason to leave, but I cry myself to sleep, when I feel ,its all frozen. I wonder, if something like that happens , does it ever gets better, or is this the end? How should I handle this? I dont want t leave. Talking wont help, we already have done it. His health is fine. Please give me some guidance! Reply to this Question
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reader, sbxo  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I agree with you!
Sex is very important for a good bound and you need it in your life. You also need to think about why your husband isn't caring for sex? Is something on his mind? It is obviously making you feel very insecure about your looks which isn't good. You need to talk to him, let it all out. You can't keep something like this cramped up inside, it's not good for you or your realationship with your husband. Let him know how you feel, and if that doesn't work you need to really tell him!
Crying yourself to sleep isn't healthy, surely he's noticing how your behaving? Can't he see that your upset? If he really loves you why isn't he expressing it?
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