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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I want to know whether my husband's comments and attitude towards me are "normal" or whether they are an indiciation of an inappropriate temperament.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I want to know whether my husbands comments and attitude towards me are just 'normal' or whether they are an indiciation of a much worse temperament. It seems ridiculous of me to ask but, having put up with things for so long I feel somehow ...

My hubby is into swinging amongst other things, but we rarely have sex, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My husband is into dogging and swinging - we hardly ever have sex, when we do it is always after he has been stimulated by the internet or chat rooms,pictures, web cam etc. I always have to go on top and he never comes? We have been to swinging...

My heart tells me it will be fine and there is no need to upset our 11 year old by kicking his daddy out, despite of his affair and his soon-to-arrive child. Any insight, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - A few months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, as is natural. He decided however that he was going to break it off with her and make it work with me and our son. About a month ago (2 or 3 months after they ...

My husband's dog, is driving me crazy! I'm pregnant and having a hard time...any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I waited my whole life to find the "one" (got married this year for the first time and am expecting a baby). Life is good! However, there are a few big stressors in my life that I am having a very hard time coping with. My husband and I li...

I'm still a virgin wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - hi evry body i really feel i am so depressed i keep crying i am married women i love my husband like crazy and he too but the problem is i am still a virgin after 8 moths of narried he scared to hurt me and once he try its just not stand any more i ...

His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...

Am I allowing myself to be abused?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am a successful business woman earning a very good living, am well-respected and have plenty of friends and good family. I live with a man that is now unemployed (for the second time in 1 1/2 years) due to the volatile automotive industry at this ...

My husband has molested our daughter for years. What should I do now?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion on this serious issue. I was in bed with my husband over 20 years ago when my daughter, then aged about 2, climbed into be between us. After some time, I noticed my husband was getting aroused and I thought he was masturba...

My wife says I neglect her and that God wants to end the marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6111 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My wife over the last two years says I did not show her any affection. We have two children and after a days work and looking after the kids when I get home I am so tired that I have obviously overlooked her needs. She later confessed to having a 5 ...

I discovered my husband's infidelity, now he is very insecure, afraid I'd leave him. Why is he doing this? How can I help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

29 December 2007 (?) - I caught my husband in an affair, I have forgiven him now he never wants to be alone, it is as if I had the affair. I feel as if he is afraid I am going to leave him, I told him I love him, but I will never love him the same or feel the same as ...

I love her very much but am scared we have been living a lie.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I met 20 years ago and it was love at first sight. She and I had both had lots of lovers before and I had been married. On our first date she said something to me that I took with a pinch of salt and thought she was joking. "I am a ...

My wife and mother of my child admitted she has been cheating accusing the fact she's been feeling neglected. Now I doubt her fidelity during the 2 years she spent abroad. What can you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Hello everyone, I just came across this site some few days ago as part of my grieving for what has dramatically happened in my marriage of four years now. Looking at the questions and the invaluable advice that has been given to other people in ...

What would you do about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - what would you do if your husband befriend an unmarried woman and he feels that he "must babysit" her because she is far away from her family? what would you do if your husband invite this woman over to stay at your house because she feels "lonel...

What can I do to bring my husband back home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - my husband and i seperated and we have 2 kids and i just want to know what i can do to bring him back home?...

My husband left me telling me he is not in love anymore, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - My husband left me three weeks ago and has told me he is not in love with me anymore, what can i do??...

Who do I contact to separate from my wife, 3 months after the marriage? Will I lose the house? Can I banish her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - hiya any help on what to do next ive got to get out of this relationship i will start from the beginning, my girlfriend and her son (not mine) moved into my house about two years ago all seemed great she did not pay for any bills as said she had ...

Is the letter my wife sent to her male friend real or fantasy? She said she was only playing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I am a married male of 14 yrs - I recently caught an email that my wife sent to a male friend and collegue of hers - who is married as well. Below is the exact note: "If I could close my eyes and then open them only to find myself there in the roo...

I'm tired of being his doormat...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 3 and a half years and throughout our relationship I have become his doormat. I've changed everything to make him happier, but I feel like he only comes to me when he needs something such as sex or food. He ...

Would you let your husband go away for the weekend with a woman he fancies?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for eleven years now, and although things are fairly good between us, he has developed a crush on another woman. He met her on a weekend away with the boys in the middle of summer, and has been sending odd messages her...

He still cares about his ex, but why can't he be bothered with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been married for 5 months, been together 2.5 yrs and have a 14 month old child. Prior to that, my husband was with a woman for 10 years, they had a kind of friends relationship with on/off sex but he clearly doted on her, she can do no wrong ...

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...

My bother in law is getting married abroad this year and only thinking about going there makes me cry. I suffer from agoraphobia and I feel like an outsider in his family, how do I live through this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - My husbands brother has announced he will be getting married abroad later this year, and naturally we will all be expected to go. It will be two weeks with my husbands family which is going to be really hard. I am very different in every way to them ...

When coming home early from a hunting trip I found a used condom on our bedside table! Should I confront her? And what about the extraordinarily amount of semen, does that mean she has a much younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I are in our 50's in age. To my knowledge there has not been any extramarital encounters that I have been aware of and no reasons to think otherwise until recently. My wife works late night shifts and I arrived home early one morning...

How to control an obsession and depression due to a forbidden love? Does any one understand what I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am married, total time together 10 years. We have a beautiful and sweet 9 months old daughter. Unfortunately, right after stoping the pills to get pregnant I fell madly in love with a younger guy from work, it was 2 years ago. We never touched. ...

My husband spent the whole night out and didn't tell me, and doesn't see this as a problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am so mad at my husband and I am almost ready to call it quits. I would really appreciate some opinions on my situation. On Christmas Eve our neighbors were having a party. We were not invited and had no intentions on going as they are new nei...

My husband makes me feel useless and bullies me, I had a horrible Christmas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - Yesterday (Xmas Day) I spent alone with my husband - we had decided to avoid family pressures and have a quiet time. My husband woke in a terrible mood and this did not improve all morning despite the lovely breakfast I prepared and I gave ...

Should I stay in my marriage or should I make my own life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6174 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I'm married and have a son, but lately I have been unhappy. My relationship happened so fast. I was having fun when i meet my husband and i never thought i would marry him. But then i got pregnant and everything changed. Lately i can't picture our ...

Should I continue having an affair or be sexually stressed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually ...

I have good reason to think he cheated....how can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a dilema and need some advice. I have a strong suspicion that my hubby of 7 years cheated on me, I just don't know what type of cheating. 2 years ago I found a receipt for cell phone minutes. The problem is that he never had a cell pho...

Is there a way I can ease my loneliness without hurting my wife?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - I am caught between not wanting to hurt me wife and trying to easy my lonelyness. What do I do now? Is there a way to not hurt her and ease my loneliness? We are not and have never been soul mates. I respect her enough after 19 years, that I do...

My husband suffered a severe depression for four years and I have worked very hard to take care of us and the kids. Nothing has been better over these years and now I feel I want out and find happiness somewhere else, what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I have been married for 7 years. We have a beautiful child, age 7, and another age 4. About 4 years ago, my husband was fired from his job and two of his siblings were killed in unrelated homicides. These events happened within 3 months of each ...

Instead of waiting for my doubts to be confirmed I blurted out, now she is super defensive and I am paranoid. Ideas?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - recently- 6 months i have thought my wife has being playing away i have 9 pages of doubts what finnaly confirmed it for me was receiving some weird almost abusive, scary jokey texts from my so called friend then having their communication verifi...

My wife's sister is giving me wibes she wants me to initiate something, and since I'm in love with her and not my wife I would really like to, so why do I keep blowing my opportunities every time I get the chance??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - i am an unhappily married man wanting very badly to have an affair with my wife's sister...but i keep blowing the opportunites that i am getting. i am feeling very regretful and angry. i know she wants me to initiate somthing, but every time i get ...

My parents are divorcing! Is it my fault because I'm such a handful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - ok,my mom and dad have been fighting for awhile and they are getting divorced after christmas.my dad isnt even gonna be with us for christmas hes just gunna stay home or go with his friends.i think itll be kinda weird without a dad.i feel like its ...

What to do when you fall out of love with your wife and in love with someone else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - here goes I'm a man I've been married for 11 yrs. and the problem is i'm seeing someone else right now and i believe i'm starting to fall in love with this women i have 2 kids and a house and am having serious considerations to ending my loveless ...

How can I overcome my self esteem issues and become more provocotive for my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I am a married woman and I have two kids. For the first several years of my relationship with my husband, our sex life was amazing. We always wanted eachother and we always experimented with different situations, positions and scenerios. I got ...

Our threesome with the well-endowed black man has my wife craving more action-but without me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - My wife offered to spice our sex life up by asking me to find a girl to join us, we posted on the internet and we had a great threesome with a younger girl, then my wife wanted to do the same with another man, I was a bit uneasy with it but went ...

His affair has really messed me up inside...I need help on how to cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I know everyone means well, but everyone is making me feel like crap....My husband had an affair the 2months that he was doing this on the net and off, he became distant from me I dont believe it was the bad sex or because he felt bad for the...

I love my husband but there are lies and unreciprocation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - My husband of 3 years tells lies. I work and travel alot and I discovered that when I am out of town he watches porn. I found hookup sites that he forgot to clear and approached him, he denied. then his hotmail password was changed-well it all ...

Taking care of my wife's mental and physical problems, I needed a holiday. During the travel I fell in love with a woman, but I don't agree with affairs. Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - I have been in a relatinship for 18 years, for most of which I have been looking after my partner for both mental and sever physical illness. Although she is now semi recovered I am very tired both physcally and emotionally. We also have a two year...

He gave me attention in class but last week, he suddenly showed up with a ring on his finger! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6179 days ago

20 December 2007 (?) - Hey guys. I'm 20 years old...ok so every Monday and Wednesday i have combat classes at the gym...my instructor is the sweetest and cutest guy ever...he has a great body too..,I'm so in love with him i mean as a crush hes really adorable and always ...

Help! My marriage is a mess and I'm making it worse!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - Augh... I dont even know where to begin. I am married for 5 years. We have two children. My husband has serious anger issues. He yells and says really disrespectful things and he even hit me once. I told him that if he didnt change I would leave ...

Should I ask her if it's time we split (especially if I discover she is again unfaithful) or should I just accept our marriage in these circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - My marriage of 20 plus years is in serious trouble again. I caught her cheating a few times and she blamed me for her infidelities. I have made many changes to try and correct the issues she said made her cheat. Things between us got better for a ...

Help. I'm pregnant and my husband is addicted to porn!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - I am 28 years old and have been married a little over a year. I am also 37 weeks pregnant with our first child. I just recently discovered that my husband has an internet porn addiction. I found out through my own means, while he virtually lied and ...

There are signs my friend's marriage is in trouble...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6180 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - Do you think these are signs my friend's marriage is in trouble? -Whenever I see her and her husband together they look like robots their is no comfortable interaction between the two of them... it is just emotionless communication with one another....

My boss's wife stared at me and gave me indirect orders of what I should wear! She is probably threatened by me, having a fragile marriage, but I am only doing my job. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - Recently my boss' wife, who I have never met came into my workplace. I was in the middle of something when she walked in and she came up to me immediately and introduced herself and in turn I introduced myself as well... of course. During that ...

Is my married boss trying to pursue something with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - My boss is 20 years older than I and he is married. I don't find him very attractive although he is a great guy to work for! Well... I have worked for him for about a year and it's strange cause he always says things that border on inappropriate, ...

This marriage has been based on lies and to make things worse his female colleague seems to be seducing him. He also went on holiday behind my back. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I am married with 2 children. My husband has been deceiving me for a while now, lies over silly things. He watches porn when on business trips, i have seen the evidence on his hotel receipts. I have not confronted him but i know that if i did he w...

She claims she no longer has sex with her husband and is offering me the possibility to meet her in another city where she has a conference scheduled. Should I take this "opportunity"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - A few years ago while working at a partner company I got to know an attractive woman. We started eating lunches together and grabbing coffee. We have also done other things together. Since then I have moved on to another business but have stayed in ...

My friend has been experiencing problems in her marriage, and now feels threatened by her husband's stunning co-worker. What can I tell my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - A friend of mine is 45 and has been married about 18 years to her husband who is the same age, I know both real well. He is a really successful doctor and they have 2 kids(teens) together. I know their marriage isn't fantastic anymore to him for ...