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anonymous
writes: Hey guys. I'm 20 years old...ok so every Monday and Wednesday i have combat classes at the gym...my instructor is the sweetest and cutest guy ever...he has a great body too..,I'm so in love with him i mean as a crush hes really adorable and always gives me attention...last Wednesday he came to class and i noticed he was married due to his ring of course...i felt nauseous and faint hehe its so weird and funny but i really saw us together someday and i really really like him i got all sad and heartbroken...and it was just annoying if hes married why would he give me all those signals, what if hes not married he just puts a ring for some reason i dont know but i wish it wasnt true,someone help,tell me what to do although i wouldnt want to separate a married couple its something against my will even though there are no children its too much but i mean if hes not married or if hes unhappy, its not my problem... right? or?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 December 2007):
 Well, there's a live, flesh and blood person on the other side of that ring. This is a decision that a lot of people never consider beforehand, so good for you. I am of the mind that there are two types of women, those who will ignore the fact that he is married, and those who think married guys who cheat are scum. I like my husbands analogy of a couple who have gotten together through adultery - "Wow, an entire relationship based on human weakness!". Would you really be happy to show off your boyfriend if you were to pursue him knowing his circumstances? I suspect if you were, you wouldn't be asking us this question!
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