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writes:My husband is into dogging and swinging - we hardly ever have sex, when we do it is always after he has been stimulated by the internet or chat rooms,pictures, web cam etc. I always have to go on top and he never comes?We have been to swinging clubs but have never fully swapped, he seems to like me to do stuff to other men and women, he will too, to the woman.I am not keen as I don't think he really wants me or finds me sexually attractive as he needs this stimulation.I also found that he was calling gay chat lines, he said he was just interested but did not meet anyone - I will never know?What does anyone think of all this -please help mexxSusanxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): Thank you to all of you who responded, it has given me food for thought - of course you have just confirmed what I already feel and think - but have not got enough confidence to do anything about it at the moment!
Thanks Sxx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (31 December 2007):
 You need to talk to him tell him how you feel what you want and what you need, i know sex isnt the main part of a relationship but its a big part for connecting and expressing your love, you need to talk to him or agree to councilling and if he doesnt want to do anything maybe its time you ask yourself "am i happy" and if not do you want to stay with him?
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reader, mama2three  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 You need to talk to each other, find out what's going on. I don't think this situation sounds normal, though...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): You both are into a sick relationship,it's as plain as the noses on your faces.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): i think u need to get out this really isnt the man for u he needs a bit of everything and i think u just want a stable relashionship go and find ur man that loves u for u and for not what u can do for him u seem like a lovely lady get out whill u still can
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): have you spoken to him about all this?has he actualy said he isnt attracted to you and just because he doesnt come dont mean its you,as for the swinging clubs i know that once you swap partners very little marriages survive,but you have to talk to him so you get to know wether you have a future together
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