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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota ...

I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know ...

He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and have lived together for a year. He is currently in Afghanistan with the military. He has a female friend who I feel is inappropriate. She often sends him pictures to his phone of lit...

My boyfriend wants a 10 month break....how do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. The first 4 years were long-distance. It was very hard, but we all got through it. We have been together when we were 19 years old and 18 years old. We are each other first love. We saved money du...

Psychic says do not have sex in the next 2months. What will you do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - A psychic told me not to have sex with my man until April. Hmm my man is a scorpio and I know how much he loves sex. How can I pull this off. SO far its been working because we are in a LDR and just ended a fight that lasted with a month of silence ...

I'm upset with her actions but I love her so much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - my girlfriend and I have been dating for over seven months, and the majority of it has been long distance. Over the summer i fell in love with her and i knew that i wanted to be with her in college. While at college she went out with people like ...

I want to meet my LD crush but my parents don't want me to be alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hi ! I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been talking to this 18 year old guy on Skype for the last 2 weeks because we are both in college ( I graduated highschool early ) we could meet until the summer but we talked about it a couple times we enjoy ...

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myse...

How to fix this after the cheater was cheated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - Well, let's start it this way. I met this girl nearly half a year ago, and when I we started an official boyfriend/girlfriend relationship for nearly 4 months already. We have always been in a long distance relationship since the start, and I k...

I want my LDR b/f's family to accept us but I don't think they do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm writing this on my phone so I'm sorry for any mistakes. I've been in a long distance for four and a half years now. We've met before. Last year, we both told our families. Our friends already knew. Anyways. Last Chri...

Girlfriend withdraws suddenly from the relationship. Is she love avoidant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

25 February 2012 (M) - (Sorry if this is too long. If you just want to know what I’m talking about jump to the last 2 paragraphs.) I’m in a (very) long distance relationship with a girl for about 4 months now and we’re planning to meet in her city in 1 month. She’s a l...

Broke it off with my LDR , but I want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some help guys. I'm in a long distance relationship of 2 years. I live in Thailand but my bf lives in the US. We had a fight a couple days ago and he called me a bitch. my response was: your such a bad liar! I told him we shoul...

I don't want to move to another country if it's just going to lead to heartbreak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I am 25 and my boyfriend is 18, we've been together for almost 18 months, and I was his first and only sexual partner. It's a very long distance relationship, and we've had our share of problems but we managed to work through them. He had been ...

He doesn't have money for gifts so I asked him to write me a love letter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - Hey my name is Rosey. I'm in a long distance relationship of 3 years. I'm very grateful for having a loving man that truly cares about me. We plan on getting married after we both finish school. We are the bestest of friends and there never goes a ...

Torn between boyfriend and home

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I really dont know what to do!!! I started uni in London 3 years ago and met a lovely boy who is now my boyfriend. We've been together for nearly 3 years and we live in a flat together in London that we rent from my grandmother. London has bee...

In a LDR, is it normal that my gf thinks I should call once every 2-3 days?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - What does it mean when your long distance girlfriend complaints that you call her too much? Calling her once a day is appearing too much, she asks for once call in 2-3 days. To me that is extreme. She gets angry when I do. We are both are very...

Starcrossed lovers with a disapproving family....what can we do to ensure we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - This is like a Romeo and Juliet kinda situation.... Ok, so basically me and my gf have been going out secretly for a year and a bit. It's a long distance thing, we live an hour away. This is all secret. However, recently her elder brother confisca...

Should I move back home or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hey :) I moved away from home 4.5 years ago to come to uni. Although i finished uni in 2010, I ended up staying here. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year but we dont live together. I live with a friend, but my boyfriend and I are trying to ...

I've found out that I'm bi, from talking with this girl ... who has a girlfriend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really ...

I don't want a repeat of my last visit to Russia to meet my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - HI, I recently went back to russia to visit an ex girlfriend and her family. The last time i was there was 4 and a half years ago and she actually dumped me after 24 hours of arriving.I left early and came home. I forgave after a time and her fami...

He seems off with me...is it because I live far away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Well me and this guy have been talking for a while, the distance is a bit far (an hour), he seems so sweet and just so perfect! he also said that to me too! problem is, is that we've never met.. he texted me the other day saying 'i feel like we have ...

I feel I am trying harder than he is, and all this 'engagement' will ever be is just talk...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are constantly coming up against obstacles in our path to engagement and marriage. I am frustrated to the point where I want to give up on the relationship and rather start over. We're LDR, he has to take a pay cut so I can't l...

How do I survive a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I need your help agony aunts! Very soon, I'm going to be in an LDR with my fiance of 2 years. He plans to move where I am as soon as he finishes up his bachelors, which is about another 2 years. It doesn't seem like his family agrees with this ...

My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...

I want to get over my abusive LDR ex. But I need some ideas please on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I'm really sad and depressed. I was with this guy in a long distance thing for almost 2 years. It was never really perfect or ideal but I cared about this person a lot. We would fight. He would call me names but i in the back of my head I would t...

LDR boyfriend called me lazy and now says we don't have a future together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Some relevant background: I have something akin to either PMDD or a thyroid disorder, having really bad luck with doctors but trying to work through it. My boyfriend, for his part, is bipolar, but medicated. We had a conversation yesterday where ...

He's a nice guy but doesn't live close and its quite tiresome to try to see him. Should I end it already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4648 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I really need to vent and I need advice about my dating dilema. I met a guy from online who lives 3 hours from me. The date went pretty well. It takes me time to really like someone but I wasn't in a rush to leave so that's a good si...

Why do I get so angry at times at my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4645 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - i,ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and right now we have a LDR . i love him and he loves me back. he is faithful and caring but as most men he doesn't show it all the time upto my expectations nor does he have the time for it. i don't ...

I want to ask LDR b/f what is happening but I'm afraid he'll lie to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4639 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) - Hi! I'm in a Long Distance Relationship, and everything is going so well, it has been 6 months now that we're datin. We love each other so much, and we care about each other. We talk every single day just before we go to bed, because durin the day I ...

Do I meet him and let him help me financially to be with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - I have no idea how to start, i really have a big dilemma. I recently took a break from college due to some family problems. In this time i have had a lot of spare time on my hands so of course i overkilled the internet. It is at that time that i...

Do you think I should end the relationship NOW or try and give it a go and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - I am moving to another country in two weeks to finish high school (a year and a half). My boyfriend and I agreed to keep the relationship during that time, but I just found out they are opening the perfect university for me in London next year and I ...

Does any of this mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Hello cupids I would like to partly provide follow-up to a question i recently asked, and ask for some advice This is the question i asked on valentines day: http://www.dearc...

I want to go out with a girl my own age. Should I? Feels gut wrenching to do this to my LDR older Gf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - Right here goes. I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years. My girlfriend is Thai so she lives in Thailand and I live in Australia. I visit her quite frequently and when I can and we speak at least 3 times a day. The probl...

Is this relationship worth it? There are alot of problems going on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

15 February 2012 (M) - My relationship with my girlfriend so far was a mess. I have known her for just short of 5 years, but we have started going out only a year ago. I am 21, and she is slightly older. We have both been in rather long, serious relationships before. We ...

I know he is interested in me, but why does he ignore my gestures for us seeing each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) - Hello all, guys and ladies advice needed mainly guys. So I have been talking/dating a man for about 8 months now, mainly on the phone, because we live in diffrent states, we would text every single day. He always has been the initiator and I've just ...

How can I draw my ex LDR boyfriend to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hello cupids :) So this is long, because i want to make the situation to everyone as clear as possible, but i'll try and shorten it as much as possible... I had a boyfriend, we were LDR, it would have been 2 years on May 1st this year, but we met...

My girlfriend is being distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - I need help on what to do, My girlfriend is being distance I know she's usually quite distance anyway but more recently she's been more distance, she's at college while I'm at home. I don't suspect she's cheating as she isn't the kind to do that. ...

What could have possibly gone wrong? Is it me or the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

10 February 2012 (M) - Hello i'm going toi keep this question short as this is probobly the best policy, Ihave been in a sexual monogamous long distance relationship for just over 2 years, however my gf has broken up with me because 'she feels that the relationship was...

I know he is taking me for a fool, so I want to cut contact for a few days to see if he realises what he's missing. Will this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

10 February 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend of nearly 2 years are LDR, everything was great for the first few months, then early last year he ran off for another girl, that didn't work out, so me - with mug written on my forehead - took him back with open arms. things...

Girlfriend called me stingy when I had no money. Will she stand by me after marriage if I have nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

10 February 2012 (M) - Hi, I have been in this relationship going to 3 years now. .Almost every time we do have a slight misunderstanding, though distance is not helping matters here, we only see each other once in 2 months.She recently told me that am not romaanti...

Should I tell the guy I've been seeing I met someone else and gave my number to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

9 February 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy not too long ago...He is Asian/chinese and I am a Latin/south american. He is younger for 8 yrs. Our schedules are very different..I work nights and he days, we see each other everytime we can make it..can be like 2 o 3 ti...

Keeping Long-Distance Relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - Hi guys and girls, i've decided to write a bit on how to keep a long-distant relationship going or at least how me and my partner have succeeded so far :). There are a lot of us that go off to university whilst in a relationship, maybe just started ...

I feel my ex still loves me and I love him. But he's in a LDR. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) - Recently, i realised i still loved my ex a lot. I heard that he was in a relationship, so i left it at that. Then i ran into him one friday night and he seemed really pleased to see me. We began to chat and he told me that he was in a relationshi...

Long distance romance gone wrong....before it even had a chance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - Hi, here's my agony of the day: I met a great guy online (Okcupid). By great, I mean that he's highly attractive to me, has the same fundamental interests, religious views, and hobbies. Even a similar smile! I know this isn't love, but I'm...

Is he serious or he is not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - Dear all I need to get some good advise from you guys here. First of all, I get to know this guy online. He is 30, myanmar, Virgo and I am 34, Chinese, libra. We met each other after chatting online for 10 days then we decide to meet up. Aft...

Is he really considering a relationship with me or just playing games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - My ex and I have done one of those off and on long term relationships. Due to a family crisis, I was out of town for part of the last two years and his last words to me were harsh and I could not contact him. Last year, he started contacti...

Does my boyfriend love me as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

2 February 2012 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now but im worried that he dosnt love me as much, We are in a long distance relationship as i live in one part of the country and he lives in another so we dont see each other all the time, i ...

Please help, I'm insecure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

2 February 2012 (F) - I am crazy in love with my boyfriend and he really is a great person. But I am really feeling insecure at the moment... I'm over weight and live quite a ways away and haven't gotten to see him much. But thing is he used to be very popular back in ...

I've not heard from him for 3 days , am I over- reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

2 February 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I hope you can help me here, I am wondering what happened. Sorry, it's a longish one. A guy contacted me online on 29-Dec-2011. We seem to get along really well, and started to communicate daily via the dating website, we...

What if I don't wanna be part time girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

2 February 2012 (F) - I and my boyfriend are together over 2 years. Last year I broke up for 2 months then gave him a chance but this time I want him to text me as much as he can or want him to see me Fri-Sat-Sunday. He texted me whenever he went out or saw me three ...