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writes:Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really like her. She knows I like her and we're still friends. It seems like she likes me. We always flirt around and she told me I was beautiful..(that sounded pathetic but yeah...) she really opens up to me and we talk almost every day. But she has a girlfriend. I don't want to break them up I wouldn't want to cause them pain, she has been through a lot. Anytime I talk or think about her my heart starts beating differently (no I'm not lying) and she just makes me smile and blush. But then I just want to cry thinking of her and her girlfriend. I've never felt this way about anyone, and I just want to stop feeling this way. I love her to death and don't want to stop talking to her. But it's a lot to deal with. Help? Xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo so very confused. We "joke" about sexual things...Like flirting people do. I kind of think about that but I try not to let my mind wander too much. Thanks for the answers:)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 February 2012):
 It sounds like you have a girl crush... perfectly normal.
and like Mandy has said it does not mean you are bi.
do you think about her sexually? do you guys have sexual talk? if so she's cheating on her gf already.
just because you have bonded online and talk and are friends does not mean she is considering you as partner material.. maybe she's just friends with you?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 HI
Just because you have bonded well with this women, and love her personality, and open up to eachother does not make you bi. It sounds like you are very alone and vunerable, and you made a great friend whom you connected extremely well with. The only way you will know if you are truely BI is by experiencing a real relationship with a women, you may find that when your actually face to face, and things start to get a little heated your not interested. However if you have experienced this kind of thing before, and you know what you want, you will need to find a women who is not already attached. Just see what happens.
Mandy x
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