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female
age
26-29,
*urpleglitter
writes:Recently, i realised i still loved my ex a lot. I heard that he was in a relationship, so i left it at that. Then i ran into him one friday night and he seemed really pleased to see me. We began to chat and he told me that he was in a relationship with a girl he'd met whilst on holiday, and that she lived on the other side of the country!!! That tickled me and i started laughing and he smiled at me. Since then hes been constantly flirting with me, even though he says hes completely devoted to her. After a while we got close again, he started asking me relationship advice. His girlfriend wanted to sleep with him, even though theyd only seen each other face-to-face four time... I told him something felt off about her, as she was also claiming she was a virgin, but it wasnt my place to critisise so i told him that he should at least have protection. I am completely jealous, as i let the my first love go for no reason, and now hes taken. Hes only a teen like me, yet hes holding a relationship with her. I am almost sure he still likes me, but i dont know whether to tell him, or to wait and hope they break up.... :'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2012): Hunnii, this dude sounds like he cant get over you, and if he was single, it wouldnt be a bad thing. But i feel your right about this girl, and something feeling off about her. If theyve only seen each other properly for 4 times then she shouldnt be ready for sex unless shed already done it before (not gonna comment on your ex - hes a guy, of course he wants it!!) but shes claiming shes a virgin.
Back to the issue though. U cant pursue him if hes taken, but he is a teen, and it is unlikely he can uphold a LDR at this age, so u may get your chance eventually. Thanks
Miss J-A-C xxx
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 I think he's testing the waters to see if you would get jealous if he talked to you and asked for advice about his girlfriend. Even if that's the case or not, he's not being very nice making you jealous or flirting with you when he has a girlfriend that he is supposedly "devoted" too. Stay away, it doesn't seem like he knows what he wants.
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