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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Girlfriends going away for college soon and I'm afraid that she might cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend be going to college in a few months, and as each day passes, I get more and more worried. We have been together for awhile and we love each other dearly. My girlfriend hasn't really partied since we've been together, but she has drank ...

I'm afraid he'll reject me when he sees what I look like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I love a boy since previous year, he loves me too. The problem is we have never seen each other. We are in contact through mobile, now he is visiting my city and want to see me but I am very nervous because I am not so pretty as he thinks about me. ...

Any tips on how to look sexy for him on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I live 4 hours apart during the summer and we have recently started chatting with the webcam. Sometime we will talk dirty and he will masturbate and I think it is hot. he asked me if I wanted to masturbate in front for him to see ...

Which guy do I choose? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Basically I have to choose between 2 really great guys. Feel free to comment on any or all aspects of this, because I need all the help I can get! First guy: A beautiful person who helped me get out of a 3 year emotionally abusive relation...

How do you just fall out of love with someone? I'm baffled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly a year, and it has been going massively strong. She has sent me letters telling me she cant wait to start a new life with me, im the one, we went through much to be with each other, and now ...

What's going on in his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hello all, I am having a long distant married friend.For the last 3 years he was insisting me for sex( We had kisses and oral, when i was in his city). After talking regularly with him i aggreed to meet him. he asked me to make his flight, hotel bo...

Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, bu...

Help me understand what he is thinking. (BOYS help me with this one!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the last 8 months. We struggled but we made it work. Yesterday he moved back to my home town, and we had a great night.. I finally remembered why I loved him. The long distance was making t...

It feels like her love for me is fading, is there anyway I can restore it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hi...I have a situation that I don't know how to turn it around. I'm currently in a long distance relationship. I'm in a different country then my girl. I have been away from her for close to 7 months now. We would video chat almost everyday ...

Should I or should I not make this fantasy with my cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - hi. so i recently got back in touch with a cousin of mine after a while. we met when i was about 14 at my grandma's funeral and we instantly hit it off. we get along great tho we seldom spoke. we met at funerals mostly and other family gatherings. ...

How to get closer with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet b...

Second year anniversary of my first love leaving me. Today hurts. Is it just a case of allowing more time for my wounds to heal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hello all Aunts. This is Andy00 and today is the 2nd anniversary of my heartbreak. In the days leading up to this, my first love has been on my mind more and more with every day that passes. I'm so much stronger than I was a year ago, and I'm a m...

What kind of communication should I resume with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I dated a wonderful and amazing girl who I met while she was on exchange at my graduate school in the United States. We dated the entire school year, over the summer (although 2/3 of it was long distance), while I studied for one semester in the ...

I need encouragement about my LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I'm currently 16, turning 17 in two weeks, so in essence i can be referred to as 17 in this. I just visited my long-distance relationship girlfriend, for the first time ever, and we've been dating for a year and a half. I love her with all my hear...

Follow up: Would you catch the first plane if you thought he was "the one"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Hi! This post is a follow up to my previous post "What can I say in an email to let him know I'm interested, without being too pushy?". Whoever doesn't want to read whole thing, can just skip to the last paragraph, where I post a general question...

What are the chances he'll get deported back?

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24 June 2009 (F) - im living in the uk and my boyfriend has been in the country 5 years and awaiting a indefinate leave to remain to be approved from home office. i think im pregnant but a bit worried he may get his indefinate refused then i be stuck with the b...

Do long distance relationships survive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...

If you're in an LDR and it's working, PLEASE respond!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I need to know if Long distance relationships work. So for all of you in happy LDR's, please respond and tell me that they work and you're happy. Also, how often do you see eachother? the guy i like is 6 hours away from me and we both are broke ...

Am I a fool, or is there still hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - 18 months ago I met the man of my dreams and began what I look back on as the best year and a half of my life. Our relationship was everything that I had ever wanted, everything I had searched for. This was it, I just knew it. We talked of marriage ...

How do I tell him that I have a son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I am in my early 30's, single mother of 8 year old son... My son is not with me since I'm working overseas. I've got my boyfriend through net and we have our wonderful relationship for almost 4 months now. We meet once for he visit where I am. Our ...

This can't be love, so why cant I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I am in a very unhealthy relationship with my boyfriend. We have currently been on and off for about 8 months. We've dated prior to this as well. We constantly break up and get back together. I make excuses for his out of control behavior and I b...

My parents don't care for him and I'm starting to be bugged by this too..What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my guy for 8 months and this has been the first relationship for both of us...despite the fact that he and i are having a long distance relationship and seeing each other for only once a month, everything has been great. but the ...

Should I wait or just let him go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys well kinda obviously got a relationship prob so ya heres it... So me(17) and my bf(18)dated last summer for about 3 months but sadly had some issues with my mom and decided to end it cuz there was no way of getting her to like him thanks t...

Took drugs and sleeping pills , was very abusive to her, not the first time, can I save this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm wondering if you guys could help me out with something. I met this girl about a year ago. We started out as fwbs, but I decided I liked her more than that, like I thought I could fall in love with her, so we became a couple, but then she ...

We decided to have a little space, but keep in touch, he seems to be drifting away, what shoud I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. The past 8 months we've spent working together on a cruise ship so it's been pretty full-on. We agreed to a 2-3week break before I would fly out to see him (he lives in another country about 3 ...

She says I love you to me, but it just doesn't feel the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 June 2009 (M) - Ok so I have been dating a girl for 4 years. We broke up because she wanted space and than start seeing someone else. After she told me that i stopped talking to her. We were broken up for about 7 months. Not sure how long she was with this other ...

Is she just using me to not be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for 11 months until my girlfriend decided to break up with me permanentely. I say permanentely because she has broken up with me before. She cheated on me, she lied to me, she hurt me like no one else has ever ...

Is it better to be close together in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Do you think it's better in a relationship for the people to be closer and not far apart? Because I'm in a ldr and we're probably gonna see each other real soon but it's been really hard because we're so far apart so do you think it will be easier ...

Should I talk to his mother about my boyfriend? He doesn't open up to me

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18 June 2009 (F) - hi, my name is Lien, from Vietnam. I have had a online boyfriend and we've been together for 8months, he's china, im in vietnam. As his plan, he will go back usa to see family and then him and his mom are going to come here for me at the end of...

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...

Anyone with a military loved one overseas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Does anyone on this sight have a boyfriend/girlfriend, or spouse or anyone over seas?if so does anyone know when they are demobilizing back here to Illinois? my man is with the 634BSB out of Mattoon illinois. Thankx!...

Is it worth waiting to see if he changes his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - hi i am a single mother of three sons, and in a long distance relationship. we have been together now for two and a half years. My partner also has two children from previous relationships. we live quite a distance from each other and usually get ...

He is immature and I feel he is not worth my energy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I met a what appeared to be nice guy on line. He lived in a different city about 300 miles away. We connected very well and talked every night and sometimes during the day. He had been to visit me on a weekend and a holiday. We shared so much. Very ...

Can we make this work? What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - My boyfreind and i have known each other for about 8 years. He has always been crazy about me, but i have been married for the past 5 years. I'm now divorced and we are dating. I'm so crazy about him and he feels the same but we have one problem. He ...

LDR girlfriend and now theres another girl in the picture

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - Alright so um im just confused about something. I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. It's been long distance relationship and I know most of you would give me reasons as to why they never work out but my story is a little ...

Should I consider applying for schools out there in case there's a chance for us? Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy through a friend and although I knew he was moving to California, I proceeded seeing him for the three weeks he was here because we were both into each other. When he left for California, I was completely devastated. (I am ...

Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - Simple question! Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend? I love him. He is with someone else though? Should I pursue him?...

Should I leave my violent ex for this angel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) - I just dnt knw what to do.Ok i have been goin out with my boyfried for almst 5yrs i love him he is nt that much a lovimg guy bt he tries,he has a temper problem,we disagree mostly,he hit me once and never repeated again bt he kinda takes me ...

She wants me to live with her on the other side of the world but I'm not ready to leave my friends and family... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. Its getting me down, and Ive no idea what to do. Ive been with this woman in a long distance relationship since last november, before this she lived in the uk. She moved to the other side of the world, but because we love ...

My boyfriend of over a year may be moving to new york what do I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf Matt have been together since april of 2008 and I love him more than anything else .. And I can't see myself without him now .. He and his family may be moving to new york and I couldn't stand the thought of him leaving .. He says he'd ...

We're going to have to be apart and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - In need of help. Me and My boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and we have a fantastic relationship! Honestly its great he makes me feel alive, we have the same dry sense of humour where only us laugh he utterly adores me and cares for me ...

Can you suggest if it is fine to trust this Turkish man and go ahead and marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Are Turkish men trustworthy? I am an indian girl sharing a relationship with a 34 year old turkish man who came to india on official purpose (for a period of one year). We met and he expressed his love for me. We have been seeing each other for a...

LDR...should I stay with him or look for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for a while and things are going fine and we havnt had a fight....but he lives in a difrent state then me...i really really like him...but i cant go see him...so should i stay with him or should i look for someone else???...

Six months is long time for him to be gone. I'm making myself ill just worrying about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. i am 20 and he is 22. we have a very good relationship, we enjoy each others company and make each other very happy. however there is one problem... at the end of this year he is thinking of going...

He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few time...

I feel like he couldn't care less if I was in his life or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i met 4 years ago.We agreed tha text messages and calls were ok and we'd c eachother when we can. Lately i feel like he couldnt care less if i was in his life or not.I seem to be makin morn effort with ...

We want to meet up but can't figure out how to do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - theres this boy i love to peices and he loves me back and i really want to date him but i dont think it will work out beacuase we would never see each other as he lives far away we have tried thinking of was to meet up but nothing seams to be in ...

I want to make a change! I'm ready to move on, but am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Is it time to move on!!! I need help, 8 years going and i find myself in a rut that i just cant get out of... I have been with a guy now for 8 years , we have had several problems but nothing i could not deal with. i was so motivated with l...

My lack of trust in him is damaging our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I have known him since two years ago. Around February of last year we became boyfriend and girl friend. Then though, a job transfer happened and i had to move about 300 miles away. Given aro...

Should I continue my relationship while at uni? It would be a LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now and its going well. The only problem is that in september i will be going to uni and my chosen uni is about 5ish hours away from him. People keep asking me if we are going to keep seeing each ...