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writes:I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I have known him since two years ago. Around February of last year we became boyfriend and girl friend. Then though, a job transfer happened and i had to move about 300 miles away.Given around 6 months into our relationship one of hie friends developed feelings for him and i found out and we broke up. Like a month after he broke up with her and started begging me to take him back and that he only did that because being far hurt him and he wanted to try to move on, okay. I didnt want to get into a relationship again because i didnt want to get hurt again. He kept begging until about April of this year i gave him another chance. Now when he tells me he is out with friends or something i can't trust him. I think he will be with someone else.I really do want to trust him but i cant. And its damaging our relationship. All we do is fight about stupid things. What should I do?
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reader, cindy888  +, writes (11 June 2009):
I don't think an LDR will work for you two. Relationships without trust don't last anyway. I think you should find someone in your local area to be in a relationship with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): Hmm long distance relationships are difficult trust me I know I was in one...
Anyway I think you should get a friend of his to casually check up on him sometimes. If that doesnt work I honestly dont know what to suggest. The lack of trust and the fact he has hurt you is very damaging to your emotions and I could say break up and move on but its hurtful to you. Its worrying that he broke up 6 months into your relationship just because one of his friends started to fancy him. To be honest he doesnt sound that great a guy and I think you do need to move on however you can decide which way to go.
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