Should I or should I not make this fantasy with my cousin?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi. so i recently got back in touch with a cousin of mine after a while. we met when i was about 14 at my grandma's funeral and we instantly hit it off. we get along great tho we seldom spoke. we met at funerals mostly and other family gatherings. last time i saw him was when his mom died in february and i was there for him cheering him up and stuff. he's 26 and now i'm 22. so today we were chatting on gmail and our love lives came up. some how it got sexual and we started talking about the stuff we wanna do to each other. i've always liked him but i had no idea i liked him that much or in that way. he's really sweet and all. so i got all embarrased abt it and he suggested that we just have our own little world where we can do whatever we want and no-one needs to know. he's now living in another country so we might never meet again. its really tempting but i'm scared it'll blow up in my face. should i or shouldnt i make this fantasy with him?

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