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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How can I make sure we don't drift apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for a month and hes going back to uni this weekend and its 3 hours away! He says that we will still see each other every weekend still cuz thats all we see each other now as he lives a few hours away! But he wont have a car ...

I feel paranoid about my LDR. How can I ease my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But ...

How can I make each day we are not together special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey all. Im in a longdistance relationship for 2 years now. The last year was tough. But after this vication with him. Im sure about my feeling ext. I want him to know how i feel each day im not with him. I want it to be special. Any ideas how to ...

My LDR isn't working and I don't know if he's cheating or just not that into me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...

I thought he would be ready for casual sex but he started shaking. Why, do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been sort of dating this guy from Germany. I bumped into a bunch of his friends when I was walking my dog. They were a bunch of law students having orientation. Well I hung out with him a lot more because we got along so well. But I had just ...

My internet LD guy friend recently got a gf! I thought he was the right person for me, though...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - One of my best friends lives in Canada, and I live in the US. We both have admitted to liking each other. He tells me the cutest things, things you wouldnt hear normally. He makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world. I dont get to see him ...

Is a long distance relationship worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About a year ago, this girl moved from LA and we've been friends since. We met at a church which we attend very so often. She is absolutly amazing. She has great personality, she's very cute and has an amazing body. The thing is, she lives too far ...

Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night ...

We were forced apart and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I were forced apart. During the first few months we were apart, she lied about me, lied to me, and was flirting with her ex boyfriend. Then when she said that we'd "never be allowed together again" she gave up and dated him, yet ...

Why is he not replying to my messages? Did I make him mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military). We started to keep in touch...

Will this LDR work out or is my friend only asking for heartache?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out? They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She neve...

Would it be acceptable for me to ask to visit her sometimes, to have dinner together? Her college is about 1.5 hours from my house.

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28 September 2008 (M) - My question is fairly simple, but requires some exposition. I just started freshman year in college. Throughout high school, I had feelings for a girl who was one of my closest friends. We started dating around middle of senior year, and had be...

I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there. So there were comp...

My psychologist wants me to go out on a date, as I never have had that experience before. The problem is that I have a boyfriend who lives in another state....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - When I went to my pshycologist today, she told me that I need to go on a date with someone. She doesn't care if he becomes my boyfriend, she just thinks that the experience of going on a date with someone would help me, because I've never had that ...

Will this long distance, complex relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Will this work? They've been dating for 1 month, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas but they will spend 4 months apart at a time. She never met his family or friends yet. He cheated on her a week after she left but he sent her...

We met on line, I feel I love him one minute and the next I just want to be friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I met his guy online and i immediatly liked him. The problem is he lives in calagary and i live in vancouver. He is 18 and im 16. He is thinking about coming and living with me or get a apartment near hear. I like him now but he wont be able...

I'm in a LDR, but seeing someone near me, is this wrong? I just need some love but I'd break up with him if need be, but how should I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Ok well Im a young girl. I have a boyfriend in the philippines I love him dearly. But about 5 months into our relationship i began dating a guy here, is this really wrong what should I do?? I cant see myself with the guy here, but I just need so...

Is he the stereotypical Turkish guy or could he be for real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Ok here is the story...I met this guy on holiday in Turkey. He lives there and was a barman in my hotel. He is 18 and I am 16. So there isn't a large age gap. He constantly flirted with me and kept tryin to get me to go walks and kiss me. I wasn't ...

The distance made us realise we miss each other, I told this to him but I'm not sure where I stand now, what he wants to happen between us and if he is willing to make it happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for about 5 years we have always had a close bond we have seen each other have one bad relationship after the next and have always been there for each other to pick up the peices. sometimes this close friendship bond turns ...

I am beginning to wonder if she is not being true to her word. Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5891 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - hello all. My ex and I are going to see each other soon and are going to see if we cant maybe fire things up again. Because of this we have both decided to stop with our current flings to keep things good between us and get rid of any jelousy.Our ...

I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...

Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the prob...

I am travelling next year so I decided to keep the frienship with benefits until I leave, I am sad and desperate, scared of being alone, what are your suggestions?

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24 September 2008 (F) - I don't know where to start.. I have been in a "friends with benefits (FWB)" relationship for a ridiculous amount of time. Initially it was because i was hurt very badly in another relationship and when it ended i needed a friend and he was there. ...

Any advice on how to get rid of this jealousy and paranoia would be much appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, he's a fantastic guy and we should be really happy. But my trust issues and paranoia are destroying any chance of happiness we may have. Our relationship is a long-distance one, which I guess ...

He's been asked to travel again for his work, for 3 months this time, he said he wouldn't go again but now he wants to - for the money. I want to break up over this, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi I hope you can help me. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now. We've had our differences but we love each other very much. His job involves alot of travel, but its normally in the same country so he is normally home at weekends...

I don't want to lose my girlfriend, but I'd like to see other people before I commit to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I love her, but she's my first girlfriend and I want to see other people before I commit to her for life. She lives in Europe (I'm from the US) but I plan on going to college in Europe. I'm in an open relationship with her, and I have a different ...

I've been with a girl for five months, but I'm deploying to Iraq soon. Do we give the serious relationship a go, or do we break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hey all. I’m in a dilemma. I have been dating my girlfriend for about five months now. I feel like our relationship is doing well—that we are making progress, etc. But, it has only been 5 months. Right now, I can’t bring myself to say ‘love’ y...

I'm keeping a major secret from the guy that could be my childs father, is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so i know you are gonna think i am a slut but please dont judge me. I don't sleep around and before i got myself in this mess i hadn't slept with anyone for over 8 months. So I knew this guy at we had been friends for ages but we live in diff...

Why did her feelings for me fade as soon as she moved in? Did she do all this just to use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Before I met my girlfriend it was always her dream to come and liveand wrk in my country, we met and a long distance relationship developed,and we visited eachother. I moved Heaven and Earth for her and her Daughter to come over, never ever done so ...

I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i ...

We only spend together 3 months a year and it's amazing! When we're apart though it seems we are two strangers. How can I make our phone conversations more fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

22 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years now and im very much in love with him. He is 18 and im 21. He lives in a different country and comes every once a year for 3 months. Thats the only time i get to spend with him. When we meet its just amaz...

I would give her one of my kidneys if she needed it, because I still love her so much! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 September 2008 (M) - Hi guys, this is a fairly common question but its worth asking because it's tearing me up at a very stressful time. Basically I was madly in love with this girl for about a year and we kept goin out for a year and a half. I loved her so much but ...

He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...

We discussed marriage but I have second thoughts as I don't want to feel tied down, I do want to be with her though and am worried about hurting her feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in a situation where i really don't know whats going on/gone on in my head recently. I'm in the forces and based in germany, i went home for a bit of summer leave at the beginning of august this year and met an amazing girl who lived in...

Do you think he really likes me or he just took me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5896 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - so everything started in the bar. this guy is the brother of my friend's boyfriend. we danced and got drunk. i'm not totally drunk so im still aware of whats going on that night. he's trying to kiss me but i always ignore it. but after a couple ...

What does my girlfriend mean? I'm going crazy for her love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - Hi,i'm a genial young guy from Ghana Africa,i'm 23yrs, loving,very tenderous,understandin,a laid person and very opened to all people. I was working in a particuler Restaurant and it happened that,i met a Norwagian Tourist who came down to Ghana fo...

Should I try this program and live in my ex's country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - i was with my long distance bf for about 6 years or so.. i had applied for the live in caregiver program in canada to help me obtain residency in the country. But we broke up.. I called him a name and did some things out of judgement that burned his ...

Will our differences and the fact I don't miss her tear us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - My fiance and I have been engaged for 7 months now. We have been together for 3 years and haved lived about all but 9 months of those 3 years together. When we first met I told her I had every intention of moving back home (1800 miles away) soon as ...

I'm afraid I'm addicted to my ex! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5897 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - I dated the girl since my senior year in high school. She was a sophomore at the time. I went to college about 30 minutes away from our hometown so I came back most weekends to see her. After 2 years, she broke it off because she didn't want to do ...

I'm in the army and she is at uni, do you think our LDR is going to work? The love is so strong every time we see each other again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

20 September 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years, since we were 16. this summer i joined the army, things were getting a little difficult but we battled through it. i came back on leave and a few days later she left for uni, since then ...

Is it his problem ? Or is it mine? I can't give him my full trust and he thinks this is a bad sign in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5896 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - hi their just wondering on peoples point of view on this. me and my bf are in a long distance relationship have been for 4 months now, we new each other before this..hes very kind caring reliable and loving..my trust is something very hard to gai...

My LD boyfriend broke up with me. I'm thinking of transferring my uni from Australia to the USA just to risk it for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

20 September 2008 (F) - I was in an online relationship for almost 4 years that has came to an end recently. The guy is in the US and I live across the other side of the world. We didn't get to meet but were very much deeply in love with each other. We're both still ...

I have some trust issues, and I don't know if this is destroying my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hello, thanks in advance for reading my letter and I apologize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are extr...

I am puzzled here due to his not planning time with me in advance. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hello, thanks in advance for read my letter and I appollogize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are ...

Is my ex "The One" or my current boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend, and I always knew that the feelings I have towards him were different than everyone else. We went out for a year, but then we broke up because he moved. He lives hours away now, and we didn't talk for over a year. ...

I'm in a long distance open relationship but am so hurt he is with somebody else too....does he love me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - So, me and this guy have been in a sort of relationship for about 4 months. Anyways we had decided on an open relationship because its a long distance thing. So he had always texted me called me and we kept things great! He called me his angel an...

My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of ...

I just don't know if I could be happy forever without ever experiencing being alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm in college right now, and in a long distance relationship. ive pretty much been in a relationship since i was very young (different long term relationships, one after another) my boyfriend just finished school and is getting really serious about ...

I am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away-Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - hi everyone i am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away. i haven't yet confessed my feeling too her because i believe nothing will ever happen in the future. i went out with her in my earlier years but seeing her agai...

Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the ...