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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years, since we were 16. this summer i joined the army, things were getting a little difficult but we battled through it. i came back on leave and a few days later she left for uni, since then i have struggled like mad, i really miss her and i think she misses me, but she is occupied, whereas im sat around bored out of my brain!thinking the worst.we might be away from eachother alot of the time but the love is so strong when we see eachother again, does anyone think its gona work? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): don't think the worst of course it will work out!! go out cycling with your other friends or something
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reader, TehWife  +, writes (20 September 2008):
 hooah- anyway... lol, i think it can. Alot of people are "down on love" in the army, people just hook-up, cheat, and lie alot. but people don't really notice how many people are honest and truly in love. I was away from my husband for a while (army veteran myself) and at the time he was just my boyfriend, now, we are married and have a child- on top of it all he's gone green, he used to be airforce. We've had time apart, more than what is far to anyone- but we made it, no cheating and only one fight. That's pretty good ;)
I say just be honest, if you guys want to be together it will work out. Just be mindful of jealousy (both from you and her), and try your best to make her feel like she is number one.
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