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writes:i was with my long distance bf for about 6 years or so.. i had applied for the live in caregiver program in canada to help me obtain residency in the country. But we broke up.. I called him a name and did some things out of judgement that burned his pockets so he left. I have apologized but he just says now I am not looking for anyone right now that is the statement he tells me now, I dont really know whats going on under all that for im not in his country. I have had to learn to let it go although i do still want it to work out but I see no advancements on his end.. he talks to me sometimes on a friendly note via yahoo or what not and i just let him lead the convo. I recently have gotten accepted in the live in caregiver program you do it for a year or two years and then u can apply for perm. or go back home. I am not sure now originally I was doing this for our relationship, but I also wouldnt mind the cultural experience and it would be a way for me to try something new in life. I am not sure what to do.. advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): You can go anywhere you wish and do what you choose to do, hun. If you are the adventurous type, then by all means, make the move. Canada and the USA are not much different in a lot of ways...same way of life, similar laws, same opportunities, freedom of expression, democratic society, ...the whole nine yards.
If you are coming to Canada, and making a new way of life...you may feel lonely at first until you get established. Especially if your bf and you are no longer together. You may feel better being closer to family and friends, in the states where you live now. I don't know.
This is a decision, you need to make for 'you'. Good luck.
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