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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military).We started to keep in touch since. It´s a year ago now. He got transferred to NY on November and still communicate. 4 months ago he was sent to an unknown location, but still contacted me and we emailed.I was on vacation 2 weeks ago and went to Georgia, so I told him. He said he had around 30 days to head home and that he wished me the best on my vacation.At that time hurricanes were an issue, and I did knew he was in the east coast, so I told him that since he never told me where he´s at I wondered if he was OK.He said, he asked me to try to understand that he couldn´t tell me b/c is part of the job and that he was watching hurricane Ike for my sake and was afraid it´ll hit TX which did, but I was OK.I apologize to him. Since then I wrote to him 3 times, even when I got home and he hasn´t replied. I guess by now he left, so I´m not going to write him now and wait.What do you think has happened. Did he got mad or is it OK, What should I do?Please help me, I like him although he doesn´t feel the same, I don´t want to loose him as my friend and end this way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): I don't understand why will be "mad" at you? What have you done wrong?He is probably just tied up with work or maybe he is back at home; busy with family and friends.I don't think you must waste to much time waiting to hear from him or stressing about not hearing from him; this was just a very casual relationship chatting and probably helped him to past the time; now he might be home and busy.I suggest you carry on with life; should you hear from him again great, but don't sit and wait and built your hopes up.Take good care.
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