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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should I continue this long distance love affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Here it goes.. I met this gal online almost 7 months back...im from a country in asia and shes frm the usa.... we met on a chatsite..n then she gave me her email id n frm the next day we started chatting..we really enjoyed chattin wid each other.....

Why do I keep second guessing myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been in a long distance relationship for around a year (he lives around 4.5 hours away) and got engaged in December. We're planning on getting married this Sept and have booked the restaurant and told friends etc. We haven't ...

I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...

And then it got complicated .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - It all began when i was only 14. I was dragged to my friends 15th birthday which i wasn't exactly looking forward to as i only knew a handfull -well 3 to be exact- of people that was goin to be there. As soon as i walked into the pub where the party ...

Do relationships with language barriers work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I am 20yrs old and went out of the country for my first time last week for a competition. I was there for 7 days and the first day I was there I met a wonderful guy, Nicholas. The problem is, he lives in Guatemala, I live in the US. We hit it off ...

Went on vacation, met a guy, had sex,like him alot,we email, should I pursue this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6132 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I went abroad on a mini-vacation for a few days and met a guy. We clicked, but I was afraid to develop feelings for him, so I started to act aloof. That made him act the same way. I think he couldn't really understand the sudden change in my ...

Once in a lifetime opportunity? Should I show my LD friend I'm sexually attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello again, I'm 15, I have been speaking to a girl over instant-messager for just about a year now, I've always found her attractive (seen pictures and webcam) and she has a amazing personality. We have spoken of sex and we share fantasy's with ...

I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always ...

Did she make the right choice taking him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat? I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first pl...

We have different ideas on how a long distance relationship should work. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year, I'v been with my partner for 2 years and just recently things have gotten very weird ... He seems very distant! Doesn't want to visit due too lack of funds, i have no free time to ...

Stressed out because my army guy hardly contacts me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Im getting really stressed about my boyfriend of two years. He is in the army and been real busy at work recently but have hardly had any contact with him for a week. Last sunday he said he couldn't wait to see me again and called me sexy but hardly ...

Changes in our Long Distance Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - .. Me and my gf from Ghana, West Africa have been in communication with each other for fifteen months now. I tried to go over to Ghana, West Africa in November last year. Anyway, when I got there, the Ghanian Government refused me entry and sent me ...

How can I overcome being hurt by my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - I have been in a serious, 4 month long, long distance relationship with a girl across the country. We've never had a fight, and only minor relationship problems, nothing even close to causing an end to our relationship. We have had plans for a while ...

What is my problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I need to know if this is normal and what i should do about it? Im 28 and live with my dad and up until about 6 months ago my pretty serious boyfriend of like 5+ years lived 1.5 miles away. I would spend the night there every night. Then he got a ...

Is this even a real relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6135 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - I am having a hard time trying to make this long distance relashionship work. We got together in june and she broke up with me in september. we text each other on and off till we got back togerther in novermber. Anyway over christmas and newyear we ...

We had to split because he moved away but I miss him. I cant eat or sleep. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - A significent other that I love has moved away. I love him dearly and miss him more and more everyday. A long distance relationship will not work and the move was for their own good. Since the depart I've been depressed and crying everyday. I cannot ...

His family are coming betwen us. How can I make this relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6134 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - im struggling to keep my relationship with my bf alive due to his family. first of all is he is a long distance bf which i can only see around every 4-7 weeks for maybe 4 days. also we can only speak on the phone 2 hours a day the main problems...

Should we cancel our plans to meet up because its his mums birthday party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - im really excited about the fact ive been with my ld bf for a year. next week and we have booked time off work to see each other, only problem is his mums bday party the same time, and my bf is expected to go even though its not a big bday. and he ...

She said she'd be jealous if I found a partner. I am not her type, however. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - hi. my friend is 55, i'm 42. she lives in glasgow and me in stoke on trent. we met as friends, developed lots of strengths etc.from the first meeting we both didnt fancy each other but got on very well.this was in october 2007. we spoke and both ...

Why won't he touch me? Am I being selfish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - The trouble is im in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF for about 4 days a month or even 2 months. So when i'm home i cant keep my hands off him i want to kiss him and hold him and be intimate with tell him how much i miss him ...

We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...

He criticises any decision I make...should I just roll over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6136 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I am in a long-distance relationship with a man I have known for 8 years but have been dating for only 4 monthis. Lately I feel he criticizes/analyzes any sort of independence or decision I exert. If I watch a show about a relationship and I tell ...

How can I convince him we can make this work long distance??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just informed yesterday that he was supposed to be moving to New Brunswick today, and I live in Toronto. He told me that he's moving to New Brunswick and that he's ending what we have because he believes it's not easy to keep a long d...

Finding and fighting for unconventional love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - We live in a world that is constantly evolving, technologically advancing and growing, slowly, more accepting. Finding love has always been the one of the most central societal issues and how and where we find it has always been a source for ...

Are my fears based on something possible??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere ...

Should I accept his use of pornography whilst we are in this long distance relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in Australia, I am returning within the month to move in with him. About 5 months ago we discussed pornography, he said that he'd delete anything from his computer...

Help needed for long distance relationship and religion issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - There are two main conflicts in my love life. 1.) My man in the moment does humantarian work all over the world; so we try to cumminicate as much as possible, but this has been going on for 5 months already and I am just aching from being away ...

Am I wrong to resent the fact that he can afford to go out but not come to see me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

23 January 2008 (M) - I've been with my partner for about year and a half, we're now living apart in different countries due to my work commitments. The thing is he's just lost his job and has a mortgage and bills to pay. So he can't afford to come and see me as much ...

Why can't we forget each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Hi, a confused, hurt and wet-in-tears girl here.. I broke up with Mr.C 2 years ago, I dumped him cos' I decided to move to another state and work there..and fall in love with a guy..I THOUGHT i don't have any feelings for Mr. C anymore, so I go...

Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...

What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

19 January 2008 (M) - Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin c...

How can I stop her her from going out with friends. I am afraid she'll cheat!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

18 January 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend i have been dating for 7 years.We love each other so much.we live on different continents but travel to see each other twice a year. We are not yet ready for marriage because we are still below 25.It hasnt been easy on us but we ...

How do I deal with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I have a kind of complicated problem, but I'll try to shorten it up.... I am in a long distance relationship currently with an amazing guy. Problem is, I still feel threatened by his ex gf. We met in the summer while he was still dating her, and ...

This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...

We love each other and want to be together, but our parents don't approve. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6144 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i am 16 and my boyfriend is 23. he lives in cali and i live in las vegas. we love each other and would want to be together and get married but our parents don't approve. we have tried everything to be together and i don't know what to do....

Does this sound like love????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hey! So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I know we're in love, but I just want some outside advice because I don't really have any other relationships to compare it to. We tell each other "I love you" about 20 ti...

B/F lives 200 miles away! But the Ex is right here,!what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

13 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my BF of 3.5 years about 5 months ago. We had a great connection, great passion, good sense of humor. . . but along the way in our relationship I would catch him in several lies. About drinking, pieces of paper with other girls ...

He cares about me but can't commit to be because we're long distance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

13 January 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for awhile and we both really care about each other. I want to start a relationship with him but he doesn't want to because we're currently long distance. He said he really cares about me and even refers to me as his ...

How can I make our long distance relationship strong??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - hey, Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month so fair and we are very much in love we usally always text and talk on msn but every so often i don't hear from him is this normal? I feel massively insecure and i have never been in a proper...

I found the perfect guy, but soon he goes away to college. My friends say I should brake up, but I can't, what shall I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - Hey, well I really need help here. I'm dating this guy and he's a 2 years older than me. I'm a sophmore and he's a senior. We where good friends, and did alot of the same stuff like with church and sports. Well he finaly asked me out on a date. It ...

Engagement in South Africa. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - I am from the United States and my boyfriend is from South Africa. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2 to 3 1/2 years because at this point in time, we are financially unable to get married at this point. He says that in South ...

His jealousy is making me feel chained up. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Im having problems with my boyfriend that I have been with for 4 years. He has been having a lot of trust issues with me since we live far from each other and we only see each other once a month. Lately, I have been talking with another guy I me...

Is he on the rebound? Does he love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

8 January 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have just split up..naturally i am crushed as he has left me for another girl. but what i do not understand is that we live on an island and he is going out with someone who lives on the mainland even though he ...

She's going to Wales, should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

6 January 2008 (?) - Hi, I am 14 years old in England. For the last two years, my feelings have grown for a rather nice girl in my class (not sexy but pretty, clever, friendly) but I can tell she feels differently to me. I was thinking of asking her out on Tuesday (when ...

Is this long distance relationship worth persuing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - I have a male friend, we've been friends for about almost 2 years now, we get on really well, but I wouldnt say we are super close - defo a good friendship there tho. When we meet up we just have such a laugh, he always asks me how things are going ...

He doesn't know what he did to me, he is pushing me away. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - I've been with my BF 5 years now, we are in a LDR. We have a very good relationship, we understand each other very well and we love each other. We dated for long time, we wanted to know each other good enough first. During this time we spoke about ...

We are long distance and I think he is cheating on me. Now he has asked me to marry him, what shall I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Hey, I am very confused about what to do. I have been in a relationship with someone for the past five years. We are both in our 20s. He has cheated on me repeatedly. I went to work abroad 1 and 1/2 year ago but I would come back for summer holidays ...

We're long distance and we keep getting on and off, what do you think, is there any chance he likes me enough to make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Long story. I'll try to condense it. We were a summer fling that happened overseas. We both go to college here so we decided to continue the relationship. During that I broke up with him once, only to get back together the next day. I asked hi...

I have a feeling my parents won't approve. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Ok.... so I'm sort of seeing someone, he lives quite far away.... nearly 200 miles, we've not met up since we've been seeing each other, but have met up more than once before (for group meets, for a shared hobby!). I will be seeing him in a ...

Will I ever understand a woman's rationale? Should I try to keep it going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

4 January 2008 (M) - I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now. Recently, she mentioned that she wasn't happy and would be happier as friends. She said the long distance isn't an issue, ...