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writes:I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now. Recently, she mentioned that she wasn't happy and would be happier as friends. She said the long distance isn't an issue, because we visit one another and keep in contact frequently. She says that she's always thinking of me, that she loves and misses me. She also said that she loves me so much, but doesn't think that's the kind of love I want and that I treat her really well, but she is not able to return the favor at the moment. she occasionally says that she does not deserve to be treated that well by me. I don't understand why she would feel that way. I don't want to lose the relationship, because for some reason she doesn't feel like she deserved to be loved and treated well. what should i do? try to keep the relationship going or just be friends as she wants?
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reader, Uraz  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 I think you should call it quits.
First, whether she admits it or not long distance relationships are challenging. One should avoid for prolonged periods.
Second she is being nice, and she is not into continuing this anymore. May be she is having feelings towards someone else who can be around her most of the times.
In anycase, do not force or get curious for her real motives -it is not helpful- move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): Come on read between the lines, she does'nt find you sexually desirable. You knew her a year before you got together?
You could stay friends but don't expect any of your or her future relationships to work.
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